Teacher Wang said: "I have been in Hebei for 20 years and have never heard of high bride gifts. Borrow gifts are the man who pays for a house, 300,000 yuan per house, and a woman who buys a car for 240,000 yuan will get married. A house can be written with a woman's name. Adding a name means a bride gift, no cash bride gifts. There are not so many rich people in the countryside. There is no bride gift of 300,000 yuan."
"Men in big cities such as Beijing will buy a house with a loan and will not write the other party's name because the house is too expensive. It is impossible to write a name when getting married. 8 million houses are equivalent to giving 4 million yuan of bride gifts. If you don't get married, just rent a house. Rent a house for 4,000 yuan or 5,000 yuan, and you can get married. For free housing, spend 70,000 yuan a year plus water and electricity bills, 100,000 yuan. Getting married is free to live in a house, which is equivalent to giving the other party 100,000 yuan, and you don’t need to write the other party’s name. Unless the conditions are too bad. "
" Big cities generally do not have a bride price. It is impossible to write the other party’s name."
" If a man is rich, a woman dares not ask for a bride price. I am afraid of not marrying. Only poor people need a bride price."
More than 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, a bride price of 100,000 yuan, and a bride price of 800,000 yuan per wedding. Women basically don’t spend a penny.
In the city, at least the mother-in-law wants to buy a car for her daughter and son-in-law. In the village, mother-in-law basically doesn’t pay a penny to marry her daughter. The wise mother-in-law knows that her daughter has a high marriage, so she doesn't need a bride price, otherwise the other party will not marry her daughter.
The stupid mother-in-law is counting on her daughter to make a fortune when she gets married, and to save all her lifelong pension money.
Special situation is that the woman’s home does not have a bride gift, the boundaries are clear, and if she doesn’t want to find a man’s property, she can continue.
Try to find the opposite sex who is of equal status when you get married. Economic matching, at least there are not so many troubles.
If the economic difference is too big, the poor side often comes to ask for money and cannot live a life at all. I often quarrel about the poor every day because they are short of money and lack of money.
Most people work and do not have the ability to support a poor family for a long time.
When getting married, try to find a good match, there are not so many troubles.
