I am 41 old aunt, divorced and single for many years, and I have encountered troubles recently, which is very depressed and painful! The young and handsome guy likes me, and I love him too, but...
I am small, 1.56 meters, slim, and not as fat as middle-aged. The facial features are upright. I like to tie a bun on it, put down my hair at the back, and my hair is shoulder-length. I like to dress up dignifiedly and delicately. In summer, I paired a white T-shirt with black ice silk wide-leg pants and white shoes. It is a small and exquisite type, and I think it looks a bit good.
I don’t know why I was attracted to the young and handsome guys. Four or five young young people like me, and some even insist on marrying me. And I am not interested in men of the same age, thinking that they are too greasy and too worldly. There is a boy among them, and he and I are colleagues. Because I was hurt by my previous relationship, I never took the initiative to touch my relationship since then. Disheartened. The boy colleague always looked back at me intentionally or unintentionally. After many times, I discovered it slowly. Sometimes I glanced at him by chance, but he suddenly lowered his head in a panic and did not dare to look at me. Slowly attracted my attention. I found that he had a big boy with clear eyebrows, clean face, sunshine and a hint of melancholy, about 24 years old. Later, I looked at him again. He looked at me in front of me, looking at me steadily. It was my turn to lower my head in panic, and my heart was like a deer bumping into my heart. Later, he chatted with me on the company's DingTalk , and then added WeChat. Every day we communicate with each other with eyes, he would look back frequently when he was in the morning meeting of the company, during work breaks, and in the cafeteria lined up. Sometimes he would look at me foolishly, and I would only dare to look at him secretly. I feel warm and sweet in my heart, but also mixed joys and sorrows. I posted a message in my circle of friends that is only open to him. The general idea is that meeting the right person at the wrong time is not worthy of his youth. Although I am reluctant to give up, I cannot delay his happiness and let him be free. From then on, he would still look back at me, but there was more melancholy in his eyes. My heart aches... Later, during the Chinese New Year, he resigned. On the day he left, he didn't tell me what time he had for the ticket, maybe because he was afraid that I would go farewell to him. I'm afraid that he and I can't stand the parting scene. After getting on the train, he told me that he was already in the train and told me not to worry. Every day since then, I miss him very much, and his warm and sweet eyes. But he suppressed himself from expressing himself. Once I encountered something sad in my life. Late at night, I wrote on my circle of friends: I met a good person and warmed up in three winters, and I met a bad person and cold in six months. I woke up at around five in the morning and deleted that circle of friends. If you think it is a negative emotion, you delete it. At around five in the morning, he immediately posted a message on his Moments: The truth is bitter but bright, good morning! I know he is responding to me and encouraging me! Our hearts are interconnected and responsive. Although it is not directly expressed, it can be understood.
In real life or in the entertainment industry, men look for wives who are ten or twenty years younger than them. Although people disdain, they are used to it. On the other hand, it is amazing for women to find their husbands and boyfriends who are more than 10 or 20 years younger than them! I don't care about worldly vision! What I care more about is his happiness. He should look for happiness of his age! Don't delay him. I buried this beauty in my heart. If I really love you, don’t worry about him! Although I suppressed my pain, I still chose to do this!
Netizens, this is my story. If I were replaced by you, how would you choose? Can you tell me in the comment section? Everyone is welcome to discuss this issue actively. How should you choose when encountering such emotional problems?
