Text: Li Er and Separation Picture: From the Internet
Yesterday I saw a video online that a woman in Fuyang, Anhui divorced and married her first love with her child, and was spoiled by her husband as a treasure. Watching the happy life of a woman's family in the video reminds me of my cousin Zhang Xiangnu, who has a similar experience to this Anhui woman.
Zhang Xiangnu is my mother's cousin, and her mother and my grandma are real sisters. She is the same age as my mother. Grandma and sisters married in the same village. The two families are only 300 meters apart, so my mother and Xiangnu Aunt have almost grown up together. They are not only relatives, but also best friends who can talk about everything.
Mother said that the sweet-girl aunt in the village was called "a flower" and that when she was a marriage talk, the person who came to her aunt's house to propose marriage was almost kicked to death. Among the people who proposed marriage were soldiers and the sons of local cadres, but no matter who they were or how superior the conditions were, Xiangnu Aunt shook her head and refused.
It turned out that at that time she already had a crush on her elementary school classmate Shen Quanhui. The plenary session and Xiangnu Aunt are from the same village. They were classmates since the first grade of elementary school. Because their family was poor, they dropped out of school after graduating from elementary school and went home to help their mother manage their poor home.
The plenary session is willing to work hard, and is smart, and speaks and does things well. It is somewhat similar to the Sun Shaoan in "Ordinary World", but his family is even poorer than Sun Shaoan. At least Sun Shaoan's father is healthy, while the plenary session's father cannot engage in physical labor due to asthma, and his mother is independent support from his family and outside.
Xiangnu Auntie fell in love with this person in the plenary session and did not consider his family conditions at all. The two secretly started dating.
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Aunt's family is not wealthy. She also expects Aunt Xiangniao to climb to a high school and change the fate of the family. Unexpectedly, she fell in love with the plenary session. This is simply a bolt from the blue for her aunt.
The family took turns to do the job of Xiangnu Auntie, but Xiangnu Auntie was determined to marry the plenary session, and even protested by a hunger strike without eating or drinking.
Auntie felt sorry for her daughter and finally took a step back and said, "You can marry him, at least his family can afford the bride price!" In order to marry the beloved girl, the plenary session borrowed almost all relatives and friends, but still did not make up enough.
At this moment, a sudden change occurred in my aunt's house. The father of Xiangnu accidentally fell while driving a cart. The wheel ran over his body and had multiple fractures on his body. He was sent to the hospital for treatment.
A few days before her father was hospitalized, the family spent all their savings. Seeing her father groaning on the hospital bed, the whole family was helpless. At this moment, a village cadre from the neighboring village took the opportunity to come to the matchmaker to propose marriage and ask Xiangnu Aunt to marry his son.
matchmaker said that if Xiangnu Aunt agrees to the marriage, the man can bear the hospitalization cost of her father. More importantly, the man's aunt is the vice president of the hospital and her father may receive better treatment. On the one hand, she is a lover who loves deeply, and on the other hand, she is giving birth to her own father. Xiangnu Aunt is in a dilemma.
Finally, my aunt begged with tears, "Do you just bear to watch your father die?" It touched the heart of the Xiangnu Aunt, and she finally cut off her love with the plenary session. My mother said that after making this decision, Xiangnu Auntie cried with her for a long time, and her mother couldn't help her.
Aunt Xiangnu's father was saved, but Aunt Xiangnu entered the fire pit. The son of the cadre was an ignorant guy. In addition to drinking and gambling, he really dumped the oil bottle at home and was not holding the hand-off manager. Aunt Xiangnu said a little to him, and he retorted: "You are the wife I bought. What qualifications do you have to say to me? I want to pay off my money first."After talking too much, he will also commit violence.
Xiangnu Aunt gave birth to two sons for him, perhaps because the upper beam was not straight, the lower beam was crooked, and his two sons perfectly inherited the father's inferior genes, and Xiangnu Aunt's life was even more dire.
When Xiangnu Aunt was 49 years old, her husband drove a motorcycle to a big tree on the side of the road and died on the spot. Because the two sons were useless, she worked in the tannery factory in the village alone to support herself. The two sons even sometimes came to her for some money.
When she was 53 years old, she felt a lump in her breasts. Someone reminded her, "Go to the hospital for a check-up, and treat her if you are sick! "After her two sons accompanied her to the hospital for examination, the doctor diagnosed her as breast cancer .
Fortunately, the doctor said that the possibility of cure is very high. Unexpectedly, the two sons in the hospital had an argument over medical expenses, and both said that they had no money.
The heartbroken aunt Xiangnu returned home. When her mother rushed to visit her, she said to her mother with tears: "It's better to die. What kind of life do you think I'll live in this life! "The mother comforted her and said, "If you think about it when something happens, you still need to be treated. "
When we met this time, my mother told her about the situation of the plenary session. The plenary session runs a small supermarket in the village. Although it is not worth a lot of money every day, the income is indeed good. My son was assigned to the department after graduating from university and is now the deputy township chief. Aunt Xiangnu smiled bitterly and said, "His quality and badness have nothing to do with me! "
Mother said: "Why is it irrelevant? Two years ago, his wife died of illness. When I went to his supermarket to shop, he always asked me about you. I think he still has you in his heart, why don't I build a bridge for you! "Isn't this trouble for people when I am now? "Aunt Xiangnu said. After my mother returned home, she told the plenary session about the situation of the plenary session. The plenary session asked her to find the brother of the plenary, saying that he was willing to treat the plenary. My cousin and his two incompetent nephews talked about this. These two were happy to go with the flow, but they just said that they were very busy at work and had no time to take care of the hospital. Everything depends on the plenary session.
The operation of the plenary session went smoothly. During her hospitalization, the plenary session took care of her meticulously, which was forced to work that year. The bitter mandarin ducks flying from all over the world finally got together in the twilight years of life.
Xiangnu Aunt was discharged from the hospital and completed the marriage registration procedures with the plenary session. More than ten years have passed,Xiangnu Aunt has passed two "five-year survival periods" and the cancer has not recurred. Now she and the plenary session are in line with each other and respect each other.
Both say "young couples are companioned in old age". They have not become husband and wife when they are young, and it is also a kind of happiness to be companion in old age!
