In a gender relationship, men have a desire to conquer. The so-called "what they can't get is always restless" is what it means. The more they can't get a woman, the more she will never forget.
Many people think that men cannot forget their wives in their relationships, but in fact they are not, because their wives have already gotten it, and their wives will not be dominated by them, and they will even have the upper hand in family life.
Simply put, a man has no feelings for a woman who gets and is in charge of him. The only feeling is that the other person is his wife.
Putting aside this relationship, they don’t want to have any intersection with each other.
Men will have some associations because they cannot get them, and these associations have nothing to do with their wife who have already got them. Generally speaking, in a relationship, a man cannot forget the person who is not his wife, but the person who gives him these three feelings.
In other words, such a woman is something that a man will never forget in his life.
1. Women who worship themselves
Men have a desire to conquer and naturally want to conquer women. If they meet a woman who worships them, they want to conquer even more. If for various reasons, they are not together in the end, then the man will always think about each other, and this time may be a lifetime.
This is not a manifestation of a man's fickleness, but because he has not gotten it. Once he has got it, he may feel that the other party is not as good as his wife, but because he has not got it, he will have various imaginations, and even amplify these imaginations.
Ask which man doesn’t like to worship his women. When facing a woman who admires him, they will have an illusion that they feel that when they are with each other, the other person will be guided by themselves, but it may not be possible.
My friend Xiao Xu had a relationship with his wife recently. Seeing his wife Xiao Xu felt very uncomfortable. He didn't understand why he had to choose a wife if he didn't choose a woman he admired.
There are tens of millions of bad things in his eyes. He even thinks that choosing a wife is the biggest mistake.
When talking about this, Xiao Xu was very reasonable. He said, "I'm blind. I chose such a person with many choices. If I had known that this would be beaten to death, I wouldn't have chosen him."
After he finished speaking, I snorted directly and continued, "What do you mean? Do you think I was wrong?"
I didn't answer his words, but I had already started scolding him in my heart. In my heart, he was not just wrong, he was just looking for a beating. Such a person shouldn't have a wife and be a bachelor all his life.
Men like this feel it is a pity that they didn’t choose a woman who admires them. In fact, it is not, because even if they choose a woman who worships them, they still look like this.
The reason why they regret it is because of the freshness. When this freshness is over, they will begin to regret having no choice.
2. Women who trust themselves wholeheartedly
Why do most men have no immunity to such men? Because in the eyes of such a woman, a man is his own everything, which will greatly satisfy a man's vanity.
For example, when you do something, when you ask the other party for your opinion, the other party says that she doesn’t care about such things, as long as you make the decision, she will completely believe in you.
When a woman says this to you, you may be happy. On the contrary, if a woman always doubts herself and expresses her own opinions no matter what she does, a man should be disgusted from the bottom of his heart.
My friend Xiaoqi's boyfriend is such a person. Whenever she doesn't believe her boyfriend, her boyfriend will feel particularly wronged and will show her ex-girlfriend to compare with the other party, which makes Xiaoqi very angry.
The meaning of boyfriend is very simple. Xiaoqi is not as good as her ex-girlfriend, because her ex-girlfriend believes in her unconditionally, but Xiaoqi does not, and she always doubts herself.
When my boyfriend first said that, Xiaoqi didn't care too much, but later her boyfriend became more and more over-the-top.
Finally, Xiaoqi showed up directly and said to her boyfriend: "Since your ex-girlfriend is so good, then believe in you, why do you have to suffer with me? We might as well break up."
When Xiaoqi said this, her boyfriend didn't say anything, but from her boyfriend's attitude, Xiaoqi knew that their relationship was over.
Men think that it would be a blessing for women to believe in themselves wholeheartedly, but they don't know that women's trust in them does not depend on women, but on themselves.
3. A woman who loves themselves especially but missed
in love not only women desire love, but men also desire love. Simply put, men are not immune to women who love themselves crazy. If they are not with the other party, it is a huge regret for them.
They will be unforgettable to such women, and even dream of marrying the other person home, because in their eyes such women, they only have themselves in their eyes, and they will not care about themselves and take good care of themselves.
In fact, no matter how you choose, it is wrong for men, just think of Zhang Ailing , the man who has red rose and wants white rose , and eats in the bowl and looks in the pot. This is their nature.
So men don’t care about feelings, because no matter how you choose, it is the same result. If you don’t adjust your attitude towards feelings, then you will always suffer. When you truly wake up, everything will be too late.
