text/Hua Yaoguan
Someone said: "Only being a strong woman can you have a strong destiny."
In today's era, women have become more independent and they no longer have to rely on men like in ancient times. The phenomenon of
has both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that women have clear thinking and are willing to create self-worth; the disadvantage is that women are too independent, which leads to the proliferation of family conflicts.
When two people get along, one side is strong and the other side is weak. If both of them are strong, the family will be in trouble.
In people's subconscious, men should be upright people and protect their families and women.
Nowadays, women have the upper hand, and many people will feel that they have no face, and this situation may lead to a split family.
So, women can be strong, but they can also make some "soft moves" appropriately, which is the so-called spoiled behavior.
The effect of acting spoiled is to ease the relationship between the two and arouse the desire for protection of men.
And some ways of acting spoiled will be very moved by men, such as appropriate physical contact, appropriate weakness, and appropriate praise.
Compared with other ways of acting spoiled, these three ways of acting spoiled are not disgusting, but can better maintain a balance in the relationship between the two parties.
You should know that acting cute is also a science. Some ways of acting cute are difficult for straight women. After all, not everyone has the talent for acting cute. For example, actresses like Meng Ziyi and Yang Chaoyue seem to have antibodies to acting cute.
However, I believe most women can easily complete the three ways of acting spoiled above.
First: Appropriate limb contact
Psychologically, appropriate limb contact can express emotions and thoughts.
If the other party rejects your physical behavior, it means that the other party is unwilling to have more contact with you.
In a gender relationship, physical contact can quickly warm up the relationship between the two. It seems that inadvertent contact will make men itchy.
The just right feeling was like a current that penetrated his body directly, Susu Momo.
The active contact of women is a manifestation of showing goodwill, and men often cannot refuse.
They will regard this behavior as "demand", so they will want to love each other more.
And women don’t need to touch each other deliberately, after all, everything is too much or too little.
Real high-end hunters often appear in the form of prey, and you must make the other party think you are the "prey".
As the saying goes, "A proper way of acting spoiled is like a big move."
Second: Appropriate weakness
Men are all macho people. If you confront them with them, there is a high probability of conflict, and it is difficult to solve problems, because you can't even be at the minimum calm.
But if you choose to show weakness appropriately, there is a high probability that the man will come back to apologize to you.
In their hearts, you are the weak side. It is because he is too tough that causes you to get angry. He will feel guilty, so as to better soothe your emotions and think about solutions to the problem.
In this way, you not only achieve your goal, but the other party is willing to do so. The problem is solved and the relationship is warmed up.
Your showing of weakness does not mean that you are really weak, but gives the other party a step.
Sometimes it is just that step, which can create a completely different situation.
"Take a step back and the sky is wide open, and endure the calm and calm for a while."
Your weakness will not only not cause you any loss, but will instead give you greater rewards.
Third: Appropriate praise
"Unclear words, say them slowly, and speak them directly."
No one likes to listen to ugly words, so they need to be said roundaboutly, but everyone is happy to listen to good words. Saying them can not only make people comfortable, but also make people who speak better.
It’s like you don’t want to clean the sanitation, but as long as you praise a man, praise him for his good abilities, and praise him for cleaning cleaner, he may happily clean the sanitation.
The person who praises him does not have to work, and he is very happy to achieve his goal; although the person who is praised has worked, he feels happy.
This is similar to educating children. As long as you use praise well, your relationship will be stable and peaceful.
In the TV series " Thirty Only ", Lin Youyou praised the master. She wanted to climb Xu Huanshan and attack him, saying "How could there be someone as powerful as you?" She blurted out her mouth without blushing.
Although Lin Youyou is a mistress, it is still worth learning from her ability to grasp men.
A popular sentence on the Internet: "A woman who acts spoiled is the best life."
A woman who can act spoiled must understand the principle of using softness to overcome hardness.
Occasional spoiledness will not cause any loss to yourself. On the contrary, it can easily make men listen to their words.
people are rebellious. When they are with a strong woman, men will feel tired and even want to escape.
But when he is with a weak woman, he will have a "sense of need" and will want to care about him from time to time.
is like a man who goes out to drink, thinking about his wife who dares not sleep alone late at night, but he will never think about a tigress who is even afraid of ghosts.
So, no matter whether you do this or not, you must learn to rely on the other party properly and let the other party know "I can't do without you."
In this way, they will be more responsible and the relationship between you two will be smoother.
