Are you living a busy, blind and confused life?
For life and to make more money, I was busy all day long, making me dizzy and found that my position had not been promoted and my income had not increased, and I was in vain.
" Rich Dad Poor Dad " book is compared to " Rat Race Trap " is what we usually call " dead loop ". In such a "death cycle", no matter how hard you try, it will be useless. You cannot change the status quo, and you are trapped in it, "sweeping, tears, and tired".
Rat Race Trap
To be honest, a good life is planned, not made with passion and brute force.
Diligence and diligence are important, but it depends on whether it is worth sticking to it, persisting, whether it can grow, and whether it can develop in the long run.
people have a short life, and they are 25-55 years old. As they grow up, they have experienced various tempers of life and see the essence of many things. The mind is gradually mature and steady, and life has also smoothed their temperament. Live clearly at this stage and have a happy and happy life.
01 The most loss-making choice in life
A fan asked in the Q&A: I'm busy every day, but I have no results, but I still stand still and haven't grown up and have no changes.
netizens' heart-wrenching answer: In your life, " busy " " blind " " blind " "" is lost.
busy every day seems to be very fulfilling, but in fact, he is so busy that he has no direction, can't see clearly, and has not thought about the previous choices or choices.
is busy in his busy work and has lost his ability to think, learn and grow, missed opportunities again and again, and watched helplessly slip away.
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Among the acquaintances and friends I know, some are deeply cultivating in one field, and some are jumping around. The gap in 3-5 years has been very obvious, both in terms of quality of life and personal growth.
Ten years of trees, a hundred years of tree people is a metaphor for making a small tree a wood. Cultivating a person to become a talent takes more time, which is a long-term solution and is very difficult. Therefore, this sentence means that only by cultivating people well can the country, nation, and family be able to continue, reproduce and inherit.
It can be seen that "busy" has killed many people "blind".
people become physically and mentally exhausted when they are "busy", without thinking, without learning, and without reviewing. Being busy means being full of time, being idle means being attentive, and being idle means growing.
Life is like a car. It requires constant fueling, so that the car can drive further and better reflect its value. Sacrifice growth and gain immediate benefits are called short-sighted and losing money.
02 What is more important than making money is to make yourself valuable
This sentence once did not understand: " When you become valuable, you can make money. " I now agree very much. Making money in is definitely important, but which one do you think is more important than making yourself valuable ?
once watched such a TV series. A sales manager of a company wanted to discuss a cooperation with a hospital, but the cooperation lasted for a long time. No matter who was talking about it, it was always rejected. The company's performance has not improved. The salesperson's batch by batch were useless. Until one day, a new employee came, and the company still handed over the cooperation to the new employee for discussion, and set a deadline. The negotiation was made to go directly through the probation period, and if it failed, it left directly. The newcomer didn't know that the cooperation of this hospital was a difficult bone, so he agreed directly. After agreeing, a colleague secretly told him how bad the hospital was. He talked about a lot of things and threw a basin of cold water and then slipped away. After hearing this, the new employee realized that it was a difficult bone, so he began to collect and understand the director of the hospital, from eating, drinking, defecation, to family members' interests and hobbies, work, etc., which seemed irrelevant. He didn't know that his preparation became the stepping stone for negotiation and a weight, and he took the order very easily.
As the saying goes: sharpening a knife does not delay chopping wood. It seems irrelevant, but in fact it is twice the result with half the effort. So when you are entering new fields, don’t worry about making money, but think about how to make yourself valuable.
03 Those who can make money are gilded for themselves. The stage of increasing value
There must be many people around us who know or know about them. So have you noticed their changes over the years? There are two types of people here:
1. The type is comfortable but not loving to learn and grow;
2. The type is not very comfortable but loving to learn and toss, and try any fresh and interested in it.
The former is greedy for comfort and stops moving forward. After 10 years, he reached the peak of his life, with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan.
The latter is unwilling to accept the status quo. Through study, certification, job change, and entrepreneurship, the annual salary is 500,000 yuan in five years, and he also understands wealth management. Many people in life, like the former, only focus on the gains and losses in front of them, and never look at the long-term interests. The latter plans for my future, and does not focus on the gains and losses in front of me, can take it, let it go, and accumulate strength. makes a lot of money in the future.
Do things to make money and make money, sooner or later, you won’t have money to make money. What makes money by doing it is valuable is that you will have endless money sooner or later.
04 A visionary person: run your own
Everyone runs a unique and unlimited liability company, you are the chairman, taking all risks and returns. In the past, as long as I worked hard and had a stable job, I would be fine, but now I still have a strong job?
Once civil servants and state-owned enterprises were iron rice bowls, and many people wanted to get in, but now who dares to say that my job is iron rice bowl?
Water flows to the lower part and people walk to the higher part. Everyone only has one in their life, and there is no chance to start over. They should operate like a century-old enterprise.
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1. Business of connections
" Follow the bees to find flowers, follow the fly to find toilets "What kind of people do you have with determine what kind of people you will become, and at what level. The higher the level, the more information you get, more resources, and more opportunities. Being with the excellent is a mirror that can continuously improve their cognitive expansion pattern from them. allows the effort to be reaped several times.
The relationship network is strong, and the connections are stronger and there is stronger competitiveness.
2. Business of ability
Franklin once said: "No one can take away knowledge. Investing in knowledge will benefit the most." A person's value is reflected in ability and knowledge. Only investment benefits a lot in knowledge, but no one can take away ability.
Professional diligence is the ability to compete at work, interpersonal relationships are the ability to exercise social interaction in life, and the ability to absorb knowledge is the ability to think.
Ability determines status, status determines identity, and identity determines power.
3. Reputation management
Xiaomi mobile should be familiar with everyone. Xiaomi mobile phones are built on word-of-mouth publicity. Xiaomi was initially established and relied on super cost-effectiveness. From the perspective of users, it was recognized by fans and started to operate without advertising. It can be seen how powerful the reputation is. In recent years, we are familiar with Yun, Wei, Fan, Ya, etc., which fade out and disappear from people's sight. Public opinion is full of discussions. You said: Who is right and who is wrong?
A person's reputation, whether in front of relatives and friends, in the company or personal image, should be managed with care and good reputation: a person who is consistent in words and deeds, reassuring and trustworthy.
In today's era, having a good personal brand is a scarce resource and a hidden treasure.
People who are blindly "busy" and know how to manage themselves, which one do you think can outperform your life?
At the golden age of 25-55, he devotes his time and energy to improving his own value, tempers and settles himself, is not impetuous, is patient, perseveres to the end, and does not pay attention to the gains and losses or interests in front of him. After all, the days are still long and require planning.
