I am Brother Hui, and I make an appointment with you every day to have an emotional world. I have a story, do you have wine?
--- Text/Hui Ge talks about emotions
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Introduction: The excessive amount of alcohol is a great harm to the body, but if a table of people eat and don’t drink, it will not feel very enjoyable and the atmosphere will not be able to be done.
China's wine culture has a long history, and wine was also compared to "jade liquid nectar" by the ancients. Many famous poets in ancient times left poems that have passed down through the ages when they were drunk. For example, Li Bai's 's "When will the bright moon come? Ask the sky with wine", "A pot of wine among the flowers, drink alone without a blind date"; Wang Wei's 's "I advise you to drink a glass of wine, go west to Yangguan without a friend"; Du Fu's 's "Singing during the day, you must keep wine, and be a companion for youth to return home" and so on, these poems are still exciting to read today.
In real life, many things that cannot be solved normally. After drinking for three rounds, will be solved easily. Many things I dare not say will be said lightly after a few glasses of wine. There are even some people who usually look introverted and shy, who become another look at the table when they arrive.
really responds to the saying: "Wine makes cowards brave, and food makes poor people more popular." But, if you say something, how honest is there?
A man had a meal and drank with his father-in-law. Hearing that his father-in-law didn't want a bride price, he decided to double the bride price on the spot
Recently, a video about "A man was so arrogant when talking about the bride price when he was having a meal and drank with his father-in-law" amused many netizens and caused hot comments from netizens. In the
video, there is a table full of dishes on the dining table, and several people sit around to eat and drink. One of the young men looked handsome, had a flushed face, and there was a wine glass on the table. It was obvious that they had been drinking for three rounds and were a little drunk.
At this time, the young man and his friend picked up the wine glass and toasted the old man next to him, and said, "Uncle, come to drink with you every day in the future, as long as you are happy. If you are happy, I will be happy!" After clinking the glasses, the young man drank the glass of white wine in his hand in one go.
At this time, in order to assist, the man's friend deliberately joked: "Uncle, I'll drink with you every day, so the money for the bride price should be less!"
The expectant father-in-law had already had a few glasses of wine and was in excitement. When he heard someone asking for the bride price, he hurriedly put the wine glass hard and said, "No, I'll watch him grow up!"
Hearing this, the man who was assisted with a smile appeared on his face. Who knew that when the prospective son-in-law heard that the prospective father-in-law didn't want the bride price, he immediately became unhappy and said, "How can you not want it? Uncle, you still need what you should ask for." When the prospective father-in-law heard him say this, he still kept shaking his head, saying that he didn't need the bride price.
The man then asked the friend opposite: "Brother Gang, how much does the general bride price cost in our market?" Brother Gang immediately replied: "About 200,000."
When the man heard that the dowry was as high as 20,000 yuan, he immediately began to think about his life. The passion he had just now disappeared, and he just lowered his head to pick up food. The atmosphere on the scene instantly became awkward.
was silent for a few seconds on the spot. At this time, the mother-in-law who knew the general was talking to break the deadlock. She said, "Don't have so many, young people are under pressure." Hearing his wife's words, the father-in-law nodded repeatedly.
At this time, the man seemed not very satisfied with his mother-in-law's smoothing, and felt that he was looked down upon. He shook the chopsticks on the bowl and said, "Yes! How can I not? What should I ask for? What should I ask for is 200,000 yuan, and our Qiqi is at least 400,000 yuan!"
After saying that, the man sat down, picked up the wine glass and toasted his future father-in-law and said, "Uncle, I told you that what should I ask for is still needed. Don't worry, 400,000 yuan cannot be lost!"
The expectant father-in-law smiled and picked up the wine glass, drank the wine in the glass.When the mother-in-law heard the words of the prospective son-in-law, her face immediately filled with a smile, and she said secretly happily: It’s different to watch the children who grow up with their own eyes!
Brother Hui commented
After watching this short video, Brother Hui felt that with the man's heroic spirit at the dinner table, a woman would definitely be happy to marry him.
In real life, many men and women who talk about marriage end up parting due to the high price of bride price, and some even cause bloody cases due to bride price. It can be said that bride gifts, as a traditional custom that has been passed down to this day, are incompatible with the current country's current rural cultural environment that is positive, civilized, healthy, and clean and upright, and must be resolutely abandoned.
From the video, although the issue of high bride price was mentioned at the table, the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law clearly stated that they could not be ignored. As parents, this is a kind of noble character. As a prospective son-in-law, when the prospective father-in-law and mother-in-law clearly stated that he would not want the bride price, he not only did not take the opportunity to go down, but instead asked to double the bride price, which shows how much he valued his love partner. At the same time, it can be seen from his performance on the table that he has a high emotional intelligence, and he knows how to protect the face of his prospective parents-in-law in time, but also takes care of everyone's emotions.
The ancients said: "The politeness of the two surnames will be combined with the preferences of the two surnames."
Marriage is the product of mutual love and voluntary union between men and women. If two people who truly love each other are kidnapped and coerced by high-priced brides, monetizing and materializing marriage, that is the greatest erosion of a happy marriage.
As every young man and woman, we must establish a correct view of marriage and love . We must not only take the lead in resisting high-priced brides, but also mobilize our parents to give up the old customs and habits of high-priced brides. Only by adhering to the principles of understanding and respect can such a marriage be a happy marriage.
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