My indifference is because I am afraid that my deep affection will be let go;
My silence is because I don’t know how to respond to your message;
My perfunctory is because I feel the deeper neglect in you.
There are always people asking:
"Why doesn't he want to reply to me?"
"Why does he respond quickly when he sends me messages, but when I send him messages, he rarely responds to me in time?"
"Why doesn't the person who chats with me every day come to me now?"
In fact, the feelings between people are going downhill little by little.
Love exists in love at first sight, but such love comes quickly and goes quickly.
Friendship does not last forever. It only takes a while for not contacting each other, and the relationship between the two people becomes much weaker.
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Don't reply to your WeChat, you have saved enough disappointment
How do people feel disappointed in an intimate relationship? There is a consulting case for
.
The boy met a girl he liked. From the first meeting of this girl, he made up his mind to pursue this girl.
In fact, he did the same.
pursued the girl for more than two months, delivering food, flowers and gifts to the girl; in the morning, he drove to the girl downstairs to pick her up to work early, and after get off work in the afternoon, he hurried to pick her up the girl from get off work.
The girl's attitude towards him is a bit "vague".
does not clearly express their feelings. Whenever a boy expresses his love to her, the girl will make excuses to refuse.
"I'm not ready yet"
"You ask me to consider it again"
"Actually, I'm not ready to fall in love and get married yet. Wouldn't we start with friends first?"
Finally, the girl was probably tortured by the boy, so she said to the boy: "You are very good, but we are not that suitable."
After taking advantage of the boy's value, she felt tired, so she sent a "good person card" to the boy.
This is really a universal formula.
At that moment, the boy finally realized that the pursuit of these two months was just his wishful thinking.
willingly became the other party's licking dog. All the efforts and initiative just moved me.
He never sent a message to the girl again, nor did he delete and block it, but just kept the "silent" state.
so quiet that people think that this person has never appeared before.
Later, the girl also took the initiative to look for him, wanting to give him hope and rekindle his desire to pursue.
But the boy never responded again.
The reason why a person becomes indifferent is because he has saved up enough disappointment.
For example:
When you love someone, it is an out of reach;
On the way to pursue the other party, you will never see the "progress bar".
Only visible hope and touching love can make people feel at ease.
You gave him nothing, so he gave up.
There is a saying on the Internet:
"The computer prompts you that the application is unresponsive, will you continue to wait or end the process?"
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Not replying to WeChat is the sign of the end of a relationship
How to judge the relationship between two people, and where has they gone?
In fact, if you observe the WeChat chat history of the two of you, you will find some signs.
The sign of a crack in the relationship is:
In this relationship, you always take the initiative to give and the other party passively accepts it.
For example: Every time you take the initiative to send him a message, you take the initiative to chat with him, and you take the initiative to find various topics.
If you send 10 sentences to the other party, the other party may respond to you 2 sentences.
You always reply in seconds, but the other party responds to you for a long time.
This is a sign of a problem with the relationship.
At the beginning, the other party just silently perfunctorily;
Later, he was too lazy to perfunctorily, but chose not to reply to your message.
What is one of the social subtexts for adults?
If you don't reply to your WeChat, you will already tell you the final answer: "Let's end this relationship."
Friends who have not chatted for a while, when chatting again, they find that they can't find a common topic;
A love that you thought you could go on, but it starts to go downhill, and you feel indifference from the other person.
couples in long-distance relationship can only communicate with each other through the screen every day and share their feelings; but long-distance relationship tortures two long-distance hearts.
Next time, don't ask the other party "Why don't you reply to my WeChat?"
If someone treats you like this, you just need to remain silent.
How he treats you, you will respond to him.
Only the children went to ask "Why don't you play with me?" Adults only looked at the final result.
If someone doesn’t reply to your WeChat, forget it.
not bothering the other party, keeping this tacit understanding is the best ending of this relationship.
Today's topic:
What would you do when the other party doesn't reply to your WeChat?
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