When I was free, I looked through the WeChat friend list and found that there were more than 500 people. Since I started working in freelancing in 2018, the people I came into contact with have changed a lot, and the number of friends I have added has become more and more. However, most of the people I really chat through WeChat are those "familiar faces".
Recalling the scenes of the previous few days, I really feel that the friendship between adults is much more fragile than I imagined, or in other words, the friendship that I once thought was much fragile than I imagined.
Not long ago, I met a high school friend on the street. I was once a member of a very good small group. When I met again, I didn’t recognize him immediately, and even felt like I was a different life.
At first, I thought that the relationship between the two was good. After all, they were both in the same city and had more opportunities to meet than others. But after thinking about it carefully, I realized that the last time the two of them chatted was two or three years ago.
No chat for a week, no meeting for a month, no contact for a year, all the relationships are so weak that they are almost gone. Although they are still in each other's friend list, they can no longer call each other "we".
Until now, it has neither been so good that it is close to each other, nor is it so bad that it is strange when we meet each other again. The rest is mostly brief greetings, and we will leave here.
The "re-contact" when saying goodbye, all said yes with a smile, and then, it was more like a polite joke, and then, it might be another day, a month, or a year. It was not because of a pity to type this text, but more because of a relaxed indifference. After several years, I still think it is good to know you.
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