The epidemic has been repeated over and over the past few years, making many people live a very hard life, especially those who were in debt in the early years. The blow to them is undoubtedly fatal.
If you are in debt and in a particularly bad mood at this time, you start to complain about life and feel that your life is slim. The most unacceptable thing is that your phone is blown up every day because many people chase you for money, and even friends who have been in love for decades are trying their best to find you to pay it back because they are worried that you can't pay it back.
Facing such a life scene every day, you begin to doubt yourself, and gradually feel that your life is like this, and you deserve to be in debt for the rest of your life.
I have met a boss who is in debt of tens of millions. I have talked with him many times. Although I have survived it now, whenever I mentioned that experience, he will have "scars of the soul", which feels faintly painful and uncomfortable, but I don't know where the wound is, and it will be difficult for a long time to get out of such pain.
Because of this, he cherishes his current success. An excellent entrepreneur has an extremely strong heart. Even though he was in debt, even if his relatives were not welcomed by him, his friends were far away from him, he could not eat well, and he could not sleep well, his body and spirit were under tremendous pressure, but he still gritted his teeth and persevered, saw the warmth and coldness of human feelings, and understood who was the person who was sincere to him and who was a hypocritical villain.
Therefore, no matter what state the person is in at this time, I hope that when you read this article, it will bring you a little warmth. People will cry from birth. When the pressure of your life makes you breathless, you might as well cry and then cheer up again, so that those who look down on you will regret exclusion from you. People will not live for nothing else in their lives, just fight for a breath. As long as you don’t give up, there will always be a chance to turn things around.
Of course, you will also see yourself clearly and know whether you have the ability to change your destiny, what are your weaknesses, and how you should "play your strengths and avoid your weaknesses" in the future.
If one day you are in debt, it is recommended to do these "several things" well and you can always "turn the salted fish" as soon as possible.
【1】Control emotions and learn to think quietly
When you are in debt, you must be impatient and in a particularly bad mood. You are not sure how to turn your future forward, especially those who fail to start a business. Their state is the most serious, because from a "confident entrepreneur" to a "deadbeat who everyone shouts to beat". For them, the emotional gap is very big, just like riding a roller coaster, and it is really difficult for ordinary people to withstand the pressure.
At this time, you must control your emotions, even if you are hiding from all the people who are asking for debts, find a quiet environment for yourself. It is best to be alone by yourself. You need to think carefully and think clearly about the reasons for your failure, how to walk the future, if you still have some connections, who else can you rely on, or if you are shameless to ask for help, will he help you overcome the difficulties? What industry should you start to rise? If you think clearly about the past, present and future of life, your mind will not be like a paste.
When you have clear thinking, even if you are a salted fish, you can turn over. Therefore, I will give you a suggestion here to try to control your emotions. I can understand that you are feeling uncomfortable at this time, but you have no way out. Learn to "keep yourself quiet for three minutes", so that you will not make mistakes bigger and bigger.
【2】Don’t do “demolition of the east wall and repair the west wall”
No matter what era, there are people in debt. When you become a person in debt, don’t play the emotional card with the person you trust the most. If you choose to do this, then you will be like this in your life. Why do I say this? Listen to me and tell me.
If you are in debt, you borrow money from your relatives and friends to repay the debt, and pay a portion of the money to a relative to borrow money. Over time, the relationship between you and him will be broken. You must be clear about one thing. It is impossible for friends to lend you money to you. When they know that you are in debt, they just need to hide from you and stay away from you. How can they lend you money? Then, now, the people you trust are far away from you. Do you think you still have a chance to turn things around?
When you are in a critical period of your life, there is not even a person around you who can help you. Why do you dare to think that you can successfully get ashore? Please remember that those who are worthy of your trust are used to help you rise, not "turn over".
When you choose to "demolite the east wall and repair the west wall", this will only bring you more debt. You know, if a channel for asking for money is unreliable, aren’t you in trouble again? In this way, you will be desperate and increase the burden on your life.
【3】Keep passionate and dare to torture yourself
I remember Mr. Lu Xun once said this: "We are poor people themselves. If we toss right, we will become rich people. If we toss wrong, we will still be poor people at worst. If we don't toss, we will be poor all our lives."
A person may have a fate joked with him, making his life difficult. Such a working environment will make their personality "as timid as a mouse, afraid of doing anything."
When you know you have done something wrong, you have to choose to continue to torment yourself. As long as you think carefully about how to go ahead, choose the right direction, and make a few more troubles, you may find an opportunity to change the status quo.
When a person is timid, his life will only stagnate because it will make a person's thinking "locked" and unable to open up the situation.
When a person is poor, you must learn to be flexible. People who remain unchanged will never be able to turn over. Therefore, if you are in debt at this time, I sincerely suggest that you think carefully. If you walk next step, then try a few more times. As long as you don’t do things that you can’t turn over in your life, you will leave room for yourself for many things. Then one day, you will definitely get ashore. Those who dare to challenge fate will always be remembered by future generations.
【4】Learn to "calculate" with others
When you are heavily in debt, it is also the weakest time, and you do not have any strength yet. Many people who are uneasy will bully you at this time, and even more so, they will add some false debts to you, resulting in you being more debtable.
Learn to calculate clearly with others. Even if you are in debt, you will not have any more debts out of thin air. As the saying goes, "Brothers, settle accounts clearly", let alone friends and partners. Calculate clearly, and you will be more confident about the future "salted fish turn over".
It is a life experience, not the final outcome of life. Don’t be discouraged, there is hope for life.
