Want to be treated gently by this world, this is everyone's wish.
It’s a pity that no matter what we look like, there are always people who don’t like us at all and will inexplicably be full of hostility towards us.
This is true in interpersonal communication, and in relationships, it is often the same.
When we like someone, we will naturally be more proactive and enthusiastic, and do a lot of things, hoping to get the other person's favor and let the other person like us too.
Sometimes, what we like, just like us, everything will be easy, and we don’t have to put too much effort into it.
But there are always moments when we like someone very much, but the other person doesn’t have any feelings for us. If you don’t like
, you will naturally not respond well and will not treat us well. Women often have obvious attitudes towards people they don’t like, and men always seem cruel and ruthless to people they don’t like.
is very indifferent and doesn't like to deal with it.
When a man likes someone, he is always attentive.
will send messages on their own initiative almost every day. When receiving the message, even if you are taking a shower, you can always wipe your hands quickly and reply first. You are completely unwilling to neglect the other party and let the other party wait.
If you don’t like it, just forget it if you don’t take the initiative. Even if a woman takes the initiative, greets variously, finds some topics that he is interested in, and tries every means to say a few more words to him, he will not feel anything at all, and he will only be calm in his heart.
He really has no desire to deal with you, get close to you, and reply to your messages.
's attitude towards you is always cold and perfunctory, and will not care about you at all.
Be polite, he will tell you that he is very busy, so he has no way to chat with you. Most of the time, he is too lazy to even care about your emotions and etiquette, so he will not pay attention to you directly.
As long as that person is you, he is not interested in any topic. No matter how you ask him to reply to you, even if he tells you that he doesn't like it, he will only treat it as if he hasn't seen it and will not do it as you wish.
Because he really can't feel your mood, he is unwilling to understand your emotions, and he is completely unwilling to waste time and energy on you, and will automatically filter out your news and throw you out of your mind.
No matter how much you pay, you won't take it seriously.
Men who don’t like you will reject you directly, while others will not let you go. They will keep hanging you, and even come to your side and be with you directly.
is just in this relationship that he rarely admits you and rarely does anything for you.
is basically you care about him, please him, spend money for him, and do something.
You work hard and always think that as long as you show your sincerity and do enough for him, then one day, he will definitely see you and start treating you well, no longer just letting you work hard alone.
However, no matter how much you spend for him or how wronged you are for him, always putting him first in everything will not be useful at all.
He never feels grateful for this and starts to feel guilty towards you. If you want to compensate you well, you will only feel that everything is your willingness. He did not force you, and it is natural.
You never can make him really fall in love with you. Instead, he will only despise you more and more because of all kinds of trivial matters, thinking that you are not good-looking enough, your head is not smart enough, your dress is always unsatisfactory, and your personality is not likable at all.
Anyway, no matter how you do it, it is wrong and will not be of any use. In his eyes, you are always so valuable, and everything you do always seems particularly cheap and look down upon.
When giving up, he will be merciless.
has some feelings, and when two people fall in love, they often have a good ending.
There are also some men and women who are together for a while, but they will only break up.
When two people are separated, many couples will get together and leave well, and it will not be too much. However, there are always some people who will be particularly heartless, completely ignore each other and only think about themselves.
There are really some men who treat him wholeheartedly, but later they will only hurt you, squeeze you, and suppress you in all kinds of ways.
denies all your past, deprives everything that originally belonged to you, and always slanders you in various ways. How can you hurt you deeper, make you hurt for longer, and make you even more doomed, he will do whatever he wants.
It seems that all the past is meaningless to him, as if he has no feelings at all, but is just particularly cold-blooded and ruthless.
You think he is such a person, but he just treats you like this. He can also take good care of other people, take good care of others, and take good care of the other person's feelings.
Basically, it is obvious that he is wrong, but even when it comes to the moment of leaving, he will not let you go easily. If you don’t give up some of your own things, don’t give him some compensation, and don’t pay a certain price, it is impossible for you to escape safely and get rid of him completely.
As a woman, there is no problem in taking the initiative to pursue someone.
However, after you take the initiative, if the other party obviously doesn't like you, you'd better not continue.
Don’t always compromise, even if the other person doesn’t love you, you still want to be together.
Don’t be stupid, try to exchange your sincerity for the other person’s feelings. If you love or not, you can never force it. A man who doesn’t love you will really find it difficult to fall in love with you. Even if you stay by his side as you wish, he will not be nice to you.
Day after day, he is always treated cruelly by him. One day, you will be desperate.
will no longer be willing to continue, and will even begin to doubt that everything is your own problem.
Wishful love is never necessary, and it has no other meaning except to make your life worse. Instead of always loving someone who doesn’t love you so much, you might as well give up on him and find someone who loves you too.
text/Tan Meng
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