With the rapid development of urbanization, a strange phenomenon has quietly happened around us. That is, in some large cities, there are more and more elderly leftover women, most of whom are over 30 years old. They are generally highly educated, have strong independence, and are devoted wholeheartedly to their work. Most of them have entered the white-collar stage. Some have even earned more than ordinary men. The more superior women are, it is difficult to marry themselves. Why is this?
43-year-old strong woman Ms. Bai encountered this situation. She went on blind dates dozens of times one after another, and saw more than 50 men, but none of them satisfied him. When she went on a blind date for the last time, she met a second-married man, and she said sarcastically to him, "You are at this age, and you are still so arrogant and have made so many requests." I think you should go home and live alone to live your life!"
Ms. Bai said aggrievedly, my requirements are not high! I don’t ask the man to have a house or a car. I have all these, but I just want the man to meet my several conditions. Is this too much? Why can't I meet the right man? Why is it so difficult to marry yourself?
Let’s first look at Ms. Bai’s own conditions. Ms. Bai is 43 years old, 167 cm tall, graduated from university, has a sweet appearance, beautiful figure, is decisive and quick-witted. With her own ability, she opened three chain supermarkets with an annual income of at least 300,000 to 400,000 yuan. She bought a house and a car very early. She is a real white and rich beauty, and is also a real old left-over woman.
In fact, over the years, Ms. Bai has not shortened men and many suitors, but the conditions of these men cannot reach Ms. Bai's eyes and meet the requirements she put forward. Therefore, she turned them away and chose them to be an older single woman. What are Ms. Bai's requirements? What about rejecting most men's proposals and leaving themselves alone?
first, with an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, and a stable job.
Ms. Bai believes that her annual income is 300,000 to 400,000 yuan, and a man’s income can be less than her, but it cannot be less than 200,000 yuan. It is best to be a white-collar worker in a large state-owned enterprise or a public official in an institution. Because she runs a supermarket to do business, she does not want to find a business partner and hopes to find a man with a stable job.
Second, his height is 1.67 meters, and the man must not be less than 1.8 meters, and the age is between 40 and 45 years old. He is a handsome guy. He believes that a tall man can give him a sense of security and protect himself, and cannot accept men older than 45 years old.
Third, unmarried men are preferred. If it is a second marriage, it is best not to have children.
Ms. Bai likes children in particular. After marriage, she wants to have children immediately. She does not reject the second or third child. She thinks that the conditions have been reduced. The other party can have a marriage history, but she must not have children because she does not want to be a stepmother.
Fourth, after marriage, property handed over to you is managed by yourself.
Ms. Bai believes that she has opened three chain supermarkets and is a business talent who knows how to manage. Therefore, she is fully capable of managing a family well. Therefore, her husband's salary must be paid and managed in a unified manner. She can give her husband a fixed pocket money every month.
Ms. Bai believes that these four requirements have been reduced, but she just can’t meet a suitable man. Sometimes many men have no quality and do not know how to respect women. When they are on blind dates, they have not finished their words. Some men on blind dates stand up and leave. There is even a man who is married to the second marriage, which makes him die alone, making her angry, thinking that men don’t know how to cherish the fragrance and have been depressed for a long time.
Many relatives and friends advised Ms. Bai to lower her conditions a little longer. After all, she is 43 years old and has entered a difficult period of childbirth. If she doesn't get married, she will probably lose the responsibility of becoming a mother. However, Ms. Bai stubbornly believes that not requiring the man to have a house and a car is the biggest concession, or is she unwilling to compromise? He is still working hard in the blind date market, hoping that he can find his prince charming as he wishes.
Friends, does Ms. Bai have high requirements? Can he find his own prince charming? Do you have any good ideas and suggestions? Welcome to leave a message in the comment section below, let’s discuss together, thank you everyone, see you next time.
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