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Philosopher Kant said: The so-called freedom is not about your own will, but about your own rule.
Only those who can live according to their own will and ideas can understand the meaning of life.
Especially in marriage, a woman’s sense of happiness actually comes not only from material satisfaction, but also from inner freedom and happiness.
Some girls do not have their own judgment on love and will look for their partner according to their parents' understanding. If they think the other party has good conditions, they blindly enter the marriage stage.
However, after marriage, I discovered that a man’s character is the most important thing.
Can he understand and respect you emotionally, and can he keep the bottom line of marriage because of love? Once the other party can't do it, you will not be nourished in this relationship.
Where is a woman in marriage, you can know if you look at these things and cannot hide them.
01: Is there any victim thinking? The less you are loved, the weaker your personality will be
Yu Chuhui's mother in the TV series " Ode to Joy 3", her marriage is very difficult.
She has been controlled by her husband and has long lost the thinking and judgment ability she should have. From A Chu's mother's thoughts and behaviors, it can be seen that she always treats herself as a victim.
See yourself as a woman without self-protection ability, and seems very humble and pitiful.
The more a woman is not loved in marriage, the weaker her personality will become. They will ultimately define their own personality only as weak and incompetent.
So, even though Yu Chuhui tried hard to save his mother, the other party never thought of leaving.
In her opinion, even if her husband has serious domestic violence, he still relies on himself.
A woman with victim thinking mostly means that she is living a very painful life in her marriage and endured oppression and insults of her personality for a long time.
Even if you are already scarred, you still cannot leave the bad marriage relationship. You can only continue to suffer in this life.
02: The hair is falling more and more, and no matter how you dress up, you look very old
After a woman is over thirty, fine lines on her face will slowly appear.
However, a woman who is loved in marriage will be generous to her. She can use her money to buy expensive cosmetics, or go to the beauty salon to take care of her skin regularly, etc., to make herself look particularly young.
Is the couple's life sweet or unfortunate? Women with inferiority will deliberately hide the people around them.
Every time I meet my parents and friends, they will put on exquisite makeup to prevent themselves from looking too haggard and embarrassed.
But no matter how you disguise, there is a detail that will completely expose your marriage status.
That is hair. A woman who lives unhappy in marriage is under great pressure and may even suffer from insomnia for a long time, and then her hair will fall a lot.
is only in his thirties, and his head is almost falling out, and his white hair is getting more and more.
Women who have this situation, even if they live in a luxurious house and dress very well, it is difficult for them to convince others to say that they have a happy marriage.
is truly regarded as a precious and pampered woman by men. Her hair will be healthy and full of luster. There will be no frequent hair loss .
Even if you are already forty years old, you have a lot of wrinkles on your face, but your hair is very good, so you will look younger than your peers.
Skin can be modified with makeup, but the quality of hair is difficult to easily repair. Only a happy couple relationship can bring better care.
03: The skin on the hands is dull and rough, life must be very hard
Writer Wan Bi Qingqing once said: In every happy family, there must be wise and smart parents. They know how to stand up and when they are deaf and dumb.
But not everyone is so lucky to meet caring parents-in-law.
You can tell whether a woman is doing well in marriage by looking at her hands. If her skin is dark yellow and rough, then her life will probably be very hard.
Ren Xin (pseudonym) has been married to her husband for six years. In order to take care of her children and family, she quit her job. In her married life, she is like a free nanny, and she bears all the housework alone.
Her hands often come into contact with some substances with chemical ingredients, and there will always be allergies and peeling.
The skin color has become particularly dark yellow and it is still very rough to the touch. Before getting married, Ren Xin was a little girl who didn't need to do housework. Her parents loved her very much, and her hands were extremely delicate.
However, the bad marriage almost swallowed all her energy.
Ren Xin's mother-in-law is very strong and often bullies her. The process of getting along with each other has no sense of proportion.
And her husband is too stupid and filial. She can't bear to leave the child, and she can't leave this home, so she can only continue to endure.
Whether a woman is doing well in marriage can tell if she sees these things and cannot hide them.
The victim's thinking, crazy hair loss, rough arms, all these details reveal your helplessness and fear in marriage.
Life is not easy. I hope that every woman who loves seriously can be treated gently by marriage.
If he doesn’t know how to cherish, then please learn to love yourself. Only if you don’t dislike yourself and accept your fate can you have more strength to regain your life.
