The essence of emotion is actually giving and receiving. A relationship that can only make you pay silently will naturally not be worth cherishing.
Similarly, the relationship you want is definitely not the one you love deeply. There is actually a balance between giving and receiving. Once the balance is imbalanced, love will come to an end. Especially for women, don't easily believe in the return of a prodigal son.
Instead, we should pay more attention to the present and care more about what we can actually get. No matter how beautiful the front is, if there is a cliff in the middle, it means nothing to you and is even full of risks.
Generally speaking, after "having sex", if a woman doesn't get these three things, she should leave as soon as possible.
1. Not getting a unique identity
A woman actually doesn’t have much to give to a man. At the beginning, when faced with a man's pursuit, you may give him time, chat with him, and give him a chance to get close.
Later on, it is actually your own soul and body. After you give these to a man, if the man is still not satisfied, it only means that you can’t give him the love he wants, or he doesn’t love you at all. you.
Therefore, after having a relationship, if a woman still cannot get a unique and legitimate identity, then she should leave as soon as possible!
After all, you have played your trump card, but he is unmoved and has no commitment. Then the future relationship will probably only go downhill, and he will eventually betray your friendship.
2. Not getting the material life you want
Before a woman becomes emotional, she must think clearly whether you are going to help the poor or to give yourself a better future.
Although it is said that the essence of love comes from the irresistible heartbeat. But life is very real, and love cannot always be romantic. The reason why a woman stays with someone is naturally for a better future.
Therefore, after having a relationship, if a woman cannot get the material life she wants at all, even the things that the man has promised personally before will be broken, and the man’s efforts and efforts will not be seen at all. The direction of your future happiness is to leave as soon as possible!
Some men just flirt with you and take advantage of you, but they can't give you the future you want, and they may even never love you at all. If that's the case, then what's the point of staying?
3. Lack of sense of security
In a relationship, sense of security is the most important thing for a woman. No matter how good that man is, if no matter what you do, he can only give you the look of leaving at any time, then why stay?
Whether it is a relationship that is high or low, it will always give you the feeling of trying to draw water from a bamboo basket, and then there will be no reason for you to stay.
Generally speaking, after a relationship, if a man can't give you a commitment, can't give you anything you can hold on to, and you won't get any sense of security at all, then leave as soon as possible!
Even if he is an excellent person, if his excellence cannot be given to you, then there will be no reason to stay. Instead of wasting your good time on him, it might be better to stop the loss in time and find someone else.
