Every woman wants to find a man who likes and loves her, and lives a happy life. This is the perfect ending. A beautiful relationship can indeed fulfill a woman's lifelong happiness, but many women don't know how to grasp it, and in the end they have to miss out on happiness.
In fact, everything has its rules, including love. If a woman wants to be favored by a man throughout her life, she must learn to keep secrets, especially before getting married. Some people may not agree with this and think that people who love each other should be honest with each other and should not have any secrets. It can only be said that such people think more simply, or that they simply do not understand human nature and the feelings between men and women.
When a man and a woman are together, no matter how good the relationship is and how much the two people love each other, some secrets cannot be told casually. Not knowing sometimes often causes much less harm than knowing, and feelings are the least able to withstand damage. In a relationship, women's emotions are often more exposed, so women must learn to keep secrets. Be sure to remember the following four points.
1. Keep your past emotional experiences
Everyone has his own past, which cannot be erased no matter what. When a woman meets the man she loves, she must not let the man know about her past love history, because no matter how generous a man is, he will be jealous. Even if two people get married, get together, and form a family in the future, they will still feel resentful every time they think of the past.
The past love history is like a scar. You can see it whenever you want to, but it is always printed on your body and cannot be wiped off. Women must not be naive and believe the nonsense men say, saying that they don’t care about your past. Men say these things just to deceive women and tell themselves about the past. Women cannot predict what will happen after listening to them. Arrived. Many failed relationships have failed due to this matter.
2. Keep the shortcomings of men
In addition to love, the most important thing for two people who love each other is mutual appreciation. Especially when a woman looks at this man with adoring eyes, the man will feel that the whole world belongs to him, and his self-confidence will immediately explode. If you don’t believe it, you can take a look. Women who know how to praise men and how to praise men can be favored by men.
On the contrary, those women who always like to poke at men’s sore spots, expose men’s scars, and expose men’s shortcomings will never get the love they want in the end. From this point of view, it is also understandable that men look for women to find a lover, not to find someone who often belittles themselves and lectures them. Therefore, if a woman wants to get a man, she must avoid these emotional pitfalls. , watch your mouth and don't expose a man's shortcomings.
3. Keep your privacy
Everyone has secrets that they cannot tell, and this secret can only be known by yourself, because there are too few people in the world who can keep secrets. Don't trust anyone easily. Once you say something, it will be announced to the world.
This is how you get along with others, and it is the same emotionally. When a man interacts with a woman, no matter how good the relationship is, the woman must learn to keep her privacy and not tell the man easily. This is not to distrust the man, but to protect herself. What is a person's privacy? It is a person's weakness. If you expose your weaknesses, you will only get hurt.
As a woman, you must not be carried away by emotions, you must defend the last position for yourself, and do not trust anyone too much.Rabbits all know how to leave more cave entrances for themselves to reduce the risk of being preyed on. Are we inferior to animals?
4. Guard your heart
No matter how good the relationship is, you are afraid of being distracted, because once the relationship is distracted, it will not be pure. A man may be distracted because his mind wanders for a moment, but if a woman is distracted, it is not as simple as being distracted, it will be tempting. Therefore, women must guard their hearts in relationships and not be troubled by external temptations. You need to make a man feel that being with him is the only possibility, the final destination, and a lifelong choice.
The most precious thing in a relationship is single-mindedness, and the most unbearable thing is betrayal. How can a woman who can't even keep her own heart be favored by a man? Therefore, sometimes women cannot complain that men treat them badly. They must first examine their own behavior and see if they have made the mistakes mentioned above.
In the game of love, no one is smarter than anyone else. There is only one who understands emotions better than anyone else, because only those who understand emotions can use emotions. If a woman wants to get a man's love, she must not only give her feelings, but also learn to understand the man's true inner thoughts. The so-called wise man attacks the heart, but if he can't even break the man's heart, what can he use to talk about feelings?
