It has been said that women must stay away from their male best friends. No man will be nice to you for no reason. Every man who is nice to you has a purpose. Your husband is good to you because his purpose is to love you and he loves you. So why does your bestie want to be nice

has said that women must stay away from their male best friends. No man will be nice to you for no reason. Every man who is nice to you has a purpose. Your husband is good to you because his purpose is to love you and he loves you. So why does your bestie want to be nice to you? Think more about why. Don't be so ignorant like this woman again and let her male best friend ruin the rest of your life.

Who can you blame if you regret it now? If it weren't for you being too simple and naive. Will this happen again? I hope that this case will remind all women to stay away from their male best friends and be responsible for themselves. Let's take a look at this together. A 26-year-old woman cried: I asked my best friend to comfort me when she was in a bad mood. I didn’t expect that it would ruin the rest of my life.

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26-year-old Ms. Zhang:

I was wrong. Many people say that I should not divorce my husband. What I want to say is that I also know that I shouldn't get divorced. But my husband doesn't want to give me a chance. I have been married to my husband for three years, and I am very happy to have two children. But now my husband wants me to get kicked out.

I blame myself for all this. If I hadn't done anything wrong to my husband, I would have a happy family now. It's too late to say anything now. I don’t want to divorce my husband, but my husband won’t forgive me.

I hope that through my case, I can remind all women. It's time to stay away from your male best friends, otherwise your male best friends will ruin everything for you. No man will be nice to you for no reason. Every man who is nice to you has a purpose. Why does your bestie want to be nice to you? Why does

do everything for you? Why would I give everything for you? Think more about why, otherwise you will be sent back to the rest of your life by your male best friend. I have been sent back to the rest of my life by my male best friend. Although I have not divorced my husband yet, but soon, my husband is going to divorce me. Yes I disagree to the death, and that’s why it’s been delayed until now. I don’t know how to live in the future. All the faults are mine.

I have a male best friend. My relationship with my male best friend has always been very good. To put it bluntly, sometimes my best friend is nicer to me than my husband. I believe other women’s male best friends are like this too. If it weren’t for the fact that the male best friend treats you so well, you wouldn’t have too much contact with the male best friend. Maybe you don't call me a best friend in your eyes.

Maybe you call her good sister, I used to call him good sister too. Later I discovered that she was not a good sister but a male best friend. The term male best friend is more accurate. If we say she is a good sister, but she is not a woman, so she cannot be called a good sister. She should be called a male best friend.

No matter you call him a good sister, a best friend, or any other title, it’s the same. Sooner or later, your relationship with him will destroy everything for you. My best friend and I were high school classmates. He was sitting in front of me in high school and he was also a study committee member. The two of us had a good relationship, talking and laughing. On the surface, he was helping me with my homework.

In fact, the two of us are good friends. In addition to academic issues, we also discuss emotional issues with our male best friends. For example, a boy is pursuing me, or what about a boy. Or when the teacher arranges seats, where do I want to sit?

Anyway, I would tell his best friend everything. I only met my husband later, and I have known my best friend longer than my husband. It is precisely because of your behavior that I feel that my male best friend is more reliable than my husband. I believe other women feel the same way.

Otherwise, you wouldn’t be as good as his best friend. Even after I got married, I didn't break off the relationship with my male best friend. I knew that my husband didn't want me to have any contact with my male best friend, but I still chose to have contact with my boyfriend, because there are many things that I don't want to say to my husband, and I don't want to say anything to my husband. , do you want to be bored in your heart?

If you don’t tell the doctor, who will you tell? I must tell my best friend.It has always been like this. If I feel bad about something, I will complain to his best friend. In the same way, if I ask my best friend to say something bad to me, he will tell me about it. Don’t say that I am like this with my male best friend, but other male and female best friends are also like this.

If you have nothing unhappy, or if you had a fight with your husband or something, you would tell your male best friend. Then your male best friends will comfort you, or sometimes come over to accompany you. My male best friends are like this too. If I have anything unhappy, I will tell him.

Sometimes I feel that my relationship with my male best friend is better than that of my husband. Whatever my husband won’t buy for me, my bestie will buy it for me. My husband told me that it is a waste of money to buy whatever I want when I already have everything I should have at home. Why do you buy so many clothes every day? If you don’t make money, you don’t know how difficult it is to make money. You just bought clothes a few days ago, what are you buying now?

What I want to say is, which woman dislikes having too many clothes, and which woman dislikes having too many skin care products. Not every woman dislikes it. My husband always thinks I'm a waste of money. But he has never understood how difficult it is for me. What else can I do at home besides buying some things?

I feel so bad. My best friend can understand me. My best friend told me that my husband has no needs outside, but you are bored at home. In addition to buying some things to vent. There's nothing else to vent about, is there? My best friend spoke my mind.

When my husband is not at home, when temptation comes, or when my husband is on a business trip, I let my male best friend come to my house for dinner, or I go shopping with my male best friend. I think it's good to be like this. He stayed with me and helped me solve a lot of psychological problems. Sometimes I can't understand something, so I will tell my male best friend, who will patiently analyze the problem for me.

Even if my husband has someone else outside, he will tell his best friend. At that time I thought my husband didn't love me anymore, but later I found out that I was overthinking it. My male best friend told me that if your husband doesn’t love you anymore, then your husband will definitely not give you money. He gives you money just to give you a sense of security, so he doesn’t have someone outside or you think too much. More, that woman is just a colleague.

My best friend also took photos for me. This shows that I have a good relationship with my male best friend. In order to prevent my husband from knowing about my relationship with my male best friend, I also specially gave my male best friend a note. My husband never thought that the person who mentioned this note as my younger brother was actually my male best friend. Under normal circumstances, you would think that I am with my best friend. My brother is actually not chatting with me, he is chatting with my male best friend.

This is how I learn his language now. In order to prevent my husband from knowing about this, I not only changed the notes, but some women even set up code words. I used to use code words, that is to say, when I chatted with my male best friend, I would say code words to my male best friend. Only after saying the code word will I chat with my male best friend. Why are code words set? That’s because my husband was super sensitive to me during that time, constantly checking my phone.

I was really afraid that my best friend would chat with my husband. In order to avoid this tragedy, I set up a code word. Even if my husband wants to chat with my male best friend, he won’t reply. Because my husband doesn’t know the code words I use with my best friend. As long as it’s not a code word, my best friend will know it’s not me. If it’s not me, my best friend won’t reply.

Because of your behavior, my husband has never been able to find out about my relationship with his best friend. I used to naively think that the purest friendship was between me and my male best friend. Then it can last forever. But I never thought something would happen. My best friend is in a bad mood.

I went to comfort her.Originally, I wanted to go to my sister's house in South Africa, but I was afraid that no one would take care of the child when she came back. Then I told my male best friend that I can comfort you. Anyway, you have comforted me like this before, but I can't go to your house. I'm afraid that if my child comes back, nothing will happen to anyone here.

I don’t know when I will come back, so if you don’t mind, come to my house. My husband is not at home anyway. And there is. I can cook some food for you later. I’ll get you whatever you want to eat. In the past, when I was in poor health, you would cook for me, and you would accompany me.

Now that your business is not doing well, I will accompany you and cook for you. Not long after, my best friend came to the house again. At that time, I naively thought that I was just in a bad mood, so I came here to seek comfort. I never thought that everything would be ruined for me. My best friend brought a lot of beer when she came to the house. I told my best friend that I won’t drink anymore. If you want to drink, just drink it yourself.

Drinking too much is bad for your health. I know you are in a bad mood... I have been comforting my male best friend, but my male best friend keeps drinking. I couldn't talk about it anymore, so I drank with my best friend, but I felt that all this was prepared by my best friend. He knew that I would drink with him, so he opened a bottle of beer for me.

My male best friend keeps getting me to drink. My male best friend told me that drinking alone is boring, so just drink with me. No need to talk, as long as I am with you. Just because I didn't speak. Then he kept opening beers for me and quarreling in front of me.

I became dizzy while drinking. I didn’t know what happened next. When I woke up, I realized that all this was my best friend’s plan. I personally ruined the rest of my life if I had listened to my husband and stayed away from my male best friends.

So will this ending still happen now? I thought the relationship between us was pure, but now I know that there is no pure friendship between men and women. It's all my fault, I destroyed my family, I destroyed everything that made me happy. It's too late to say anything now, I will only cry. My best friend told me, don't cry. I'm not in a hurry. We both drank too much and it was just a misunderstanding. Is it really a misunderstanding?

If it was really a misunderstanding, would my best friend be so nice to me? You'll blame me for being drunk. Obviously this is not a misunderstanding, even if I can come back I don't want to face all this, and I don't want to be responsible... When

came out, my husband came back. Originally, I wanted my best friend to hide outside the window, but my husband saw all this. It was too late to say anything now. My husband slapped me on the face. After spanking me, he broke my best friend’s legs. Eventually my husband kicked me out with my male best friend.

cried at the door for a whole day before my husband opened the door for me and let me in. It's all my fault, my husband is divorcing me. If I stay away from my male best friend, will my male best friend ruin the rest of my life? I was wrong, but it’s too late to say anything. Women must stay away from their male best friends. Otherwise, sooner or later, your best friend will ruin everything for you.

Conclusion:

It’s too late to regret it now. Why did you do it in the first place because of this? A man will not be nice to you for no reason. A man will be nice to you for a purpose. Just like the woman in the article, who can you blame if you are so naive? If you had no one to be your best friend, would this be the ending now? It's all your own fault.

Don't say it's your husband, even if it were me, I would divorce you. It's all your fault.How could I not love you so much and be so kind to you, but you ruined everything about yourself? You are also an adult, so why are you still so naive?

How can pure friendship exist between men and women? If you hadn't had a male best friend, if you hadn't given your male best friend a chance, would you have returned to everything you had? Just do it. Who do you blame if you have to walk the road you chose even on your knees? If you want to blame it, blame yourself.

hopes that this case can remind all women that for themselves and their families, they must stay away from their male girlfriends. If you don't stay away from your male best friends, something like this will happen to you soon, and you will be the one regretting it by then. There are all kinds of medicines in this world, but there is no regret medicine. Once you regret it, it's too late to say anything. Stay away from your male girlfriends and take responsibility for yourself.