I came across a word on Douyin today, "accept yourself". It was the first time I saw it. I didn't know what it meant, so I looked it up. It turned out that it is a very interesting word. It can also be said that It’s a word that everyone uses.
"Accepting oneself" means that individuals can correctly evaluate themselves and accept themselves. This reminds me of the principles of people's dealings in work and life, which can also be said to be three basic principles:
1. How you think others will treat you is how others will treat you. Your cognition will affect your judgment and handling of things, so you have predictions. If you are hostile, it will naturally affect others, and others will treat you according to your cognition.
2. If you focus on the shortcomings, the advantages will disappear naturally. If you keep staring at your shortcomings, they will be infinitely magnified to the point where they can cover everything, including your advantages. Your advantages will no longer appear in you, and what others will see in you will be your shortcomings.
3. Only if you like yourself, others will like you. People need to have self-confidence and confidence. If you don’t even have confidence in yourself and don’t appreciate yourself, how can you expect others to like you, accept you, and recognize you? So you have to love yourself from the bottom of your heart. When you have confidence, you will be charming and everyone will like you!
This article was originally written by Xiaotan Kankan. Welcome to pay attention and help you learn more together!
