Some people say that in this materialistic society, being handsome cannot be a living thing, and you can’t get a wife if you don’t have money. I strongly agree with this view. In today’s society, you are nothing if you don’t have money. But it is undeniable that if he were handsome twenty years ago, he would be poor, but he would still be favored by many members of the opposite sex. My cousin is a good example.
My cousin looked a lot like the actor Chen Xiao when he was young. He was 1.72 meters tall and handsome. He failed to pass the high school entrance exam and was unable to pass. His parents asked him to re-study, but it was useless no matter what? I have no choice but to come back to farming. Originally, he wanted to go out to work, but his parents said that his cousin was too young and would not go there in two years, so he stayed at home to help his parents farm.
Our village is a relatively large natural village with two teams. There are two major surnames in the village, one is Wang and the other is Zhang. Next to my cousin’s house is a family named Zhang. This family has two children, the elder brother. He went to the army and has a younger sister who is also 18 years old this year, the same age as his cousin. I also graduated from junior high school and stopped going to school. The girl may have matured earlier than the boy and secretly fell in love with her cousin. As the saying goes, the first to get the moon is closer to the water. The girl's family lived close to her cousin's house, and she often visited her cousin's house to play. At that time, it was easy to watch movies in the countryside at night. So he secretly went to watch a movie with his cousin behind his parents' back. The cousin was still in love and had no idea at all. In his heart, the girl was just a neighbor, so it was nothing to watch a movie together, not to mention that there were other people together. On the way, the girl wanted to hold her cousin's hand. The cousin flicked his hand and asked, "Why are you holding my hand?" You said this stupid boy is really stupid. Later, the girl's mother found out about it and became very strict with her, not allowing her to interact with her cousin, for fear that the villagers would gossip. Originally, my cousin didn't mean that, but the matter gradually fell into disuse.
The other girl is still named Zhang and is from the same village. The girl looks darker and works hard. Although she is young, she is good at working in the fields. The cousin's land is next to the girl's. The girl's family grows peanuts, and the cousin's family grows more than an acre of watermelon. The cousin often helps his parents weed, beat melon heads, and press branches in the watermelon field. Girls often talk to their cousins intentionally or unintentionally, and help them with some work. The cousin's parents only praise the girls for their abilities, saying that whoever marries a girl as his wife in the future will be blessed in his previous life. The cousin does not I didn't take my parents' words to heart. Until one day, the girl secretly wrote a love letter to her cousin. The cousin rejected the girl in person, saying that she was still young and her family had no money. She would wait until she grew up and went out to earn money. The girl saw that her cousin did not have that. As a result, he gradually became alienated from his cousin, and then nothing happened. When I was in my hometown some time ago, the girl also said that she wrote a love letter to her cousin, and the cousin didn't like it. Looking back now, I look back at how naive I was back then. Now that we are all older and have families, we are just joking and forgetting grudges with a smile.
To the right of the land where my cousin's family grows watermelons is another family's land, which also grows watermelons. The neighbor's wife has to take care of the children, and her husband can't do it alone, so he asks his sister-in-law to come over and help him. The neighbor's sister-in-law is small and exquisite, with white skin, big eyes, long eyelashes, and delicate facial features. The only shortcoming is that she is a bit short, about 1.5 meters tall. In fact, the neighbor's daughter-in-law wanted to get her sister familiar with her cousin to see if they could get along with each other. They got acquainted once and twice. Gradually, the neighbor's aunt and cousin became familiar with each other. The girl was very bold. Gradually, the cousin started to play physical jokes, twisting the cousin's ears and patting the younger brother's waist. In fact, the two of them were very brave. Everyone in the family can see clearly that he is pretending to be confused.The neighbor's wife also said intentionally or unintentionally that her sister was already eighteen years old and she asked her cousin's parents to see if there was a suitable family and introduce one to her sister. This was a drunkard's intention and not to drink! Maybe the cousin's parents also disliked the girl's short stature, so they didn't dare to let go. They just said a few polite words, but the neighbor's wife couldn't help it, so she finally let her go back. I heard that the girl cried several times after she went back. There was nothing I could do, the fate had not come yet. ah!
At the same time, there was a girl from another village on the south bank of the river who was good friends with the second girl mentioned above. She often came to play with that girl. When she saw how handsome her cousin was, she also fell in love with her cousin. Every day Come across Hebei to cut the grass. By the way, in the past, almost every household in rural areas fed cattle, because at that time, farming relied on cattle to plow the land. It was getting dark and the girl didn't go back. She just wandered around the watermelon patch at her cousin's house. However, there is so much grass beside the watermelon field that one can cut a basket in ten or twenty minutes. Not to mention, this girl is really beautiful, tall, slim, with big eyes and a ponytail. Although the clothes she wears are not so fashionable, they still can't hide her slender figure. She is indeed a ideal object. The cousin's parents wanted the girl to be their daughter-in-law, but unfortunately the cousin was still indifferent. The girl said that her cousin was very talented and played the flute very nicely. She liked to listen to it very much. The girl also graduated from junior high school. Her parents favored boys over girls. They said that girls would go to so many schools for what purpose. Sooner or later, they would belong to other people, so they did not go to school anymore and cut grass for the cows at home every day.
My cousin would play the flute for a while when he was free. Whenever this happened, his father would impatiently say, "Play it every day, play it every day. If you can make a living, give it to the flute." If you can, take that girl who mows the grass home. His cousin was speechless. At this time, as soon as the girl hears the sound of the flute, she will appear at the village head on time, carrying a basket and a sickle, and come to the river to cut the grass. In fact, my cousin had no interest in girls at that time. Playing the flute was purely a hobby and not specifically for girls. My cousin said that in two years he would grow up and go out to make money. He had no intention of marrying a wife. He wanted to marry a wife. This matter seems to be far away from him. After a while, the girl slowly approached her cousin and occasionally said a few words to her cousin. Sometimes the neighbor's daughter-in-law is not happy when she sees it, saying that girls are shameless. Is it shameful for a girl to take the initiative to talk to a boy? It seems she is a bit jealous! She also didn't want to think about how her sister was joking with her cousin at that time. My sister was a little angry because she didn't agree with her cousin.
Later, my cousin gradually became familiar with the girl and started talking more. Until one day, the girl suddenly said that she wanted to be boyfriend and girlfriend with her cousin. The cousin was shocked and said that we are still young, where can we have money? I plan to go to Guangdong to work in two years, let’s talk about it then! The girl said, I will go with you then, and the two of us will make money together. The cousin asked, do your parents agree? The girl said they were eager for me to go out and earn money for them!
Two years later, my cousin came to Guangdong with me. I took my cousin to the factory where I used to work to learn welding. At first, I was afraid that my cousin wouldn't be able to endure the hardship, so I told him, if you can't stand it, find another job, but my cousin insisted on persisting. Half a year later, my cousin asked the girl to come to Guangdong and join the electronics factory where my wife worked. After working like this for four years, the cousin and the girl also saved some money, enough to get married, so they went back to get married. Now my daughter is a sophomore in college and my son is a freshman in high school. The two children are very good-looking and take advantage of all the advantages of their cousins. My cousin and his wife are still working in Guangdong and living a very happy life. Last time my cousin and I were drinking at his house, and by the way, I asked Tangdi’s wife, siblings, did you follow my cousin because you saw him handsome? My cousin’s wife said it must be, otherwise I would follow him. After all, I am also the village beauty of our village. At that time, many wealthy people came to my house to propose marriage, but I didn’t agree. If I hadn’t fallen in love with him, I wouldn’t have gone every day. I've cut the grass. You see, I have a lot of scars on my hands now. They were all caused by cutting the grass. I told my cousin, look at how much your brothers and sisters have endured for you. My cousin raised his glass and said, "Drink, drink, drink."
