The leader of a blind date group in Wuhan tells real events around him. There is always a reason for being single. Follow me and I will show you clearly the various aspects of life in relationships. I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. From the age of 25 to 29, I have bee

A blind date group leader in Wuhan tells real events around her. There is always a reason for being single. Follow me and I will show you clearly the various aspects of life in relationships.

I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. From the age of 25 to 29, I have been waiting for his proposal. Every time I ask him, he always says that it is not yet time.

Call me Xiaoling. After graduating from college, I worked in a securities company. I had 2 boyfriends, but they didn’t date for long, and they broke up when they felt it wasn’t suitable. When I was 25 years old, I went to a party with my friends and met Chen Yang, who was also brought to the party by a friend. We exchanged WeChat messages that day, maybe because we liked each other. Our WeChat chats gradually increased, and we confirmed our relationship within a few months. A year later, I moved into his house.

Although Chen Yang is from Henan, he went to university in Wuhan. After graduation, he stayed in Wuhan and was admitted to a bank. His family situation is relatively good. In the first year of working, his parents bought him a house in Wuhan. Although he paid a down payment, his parents still repaid the loan every month, so he didn't feel much pressure.

After living together, the first year was very warm and happy. We stayed at home like newlyweds, cooking and watching movies. Everything was so sweet. But slowly, I began to feel that he no longer had the enthusiasm he had before. He prefers to sit on the sofa playing games and scrolling through TikTok more and more, and no longer likes chatting with me. He became less and less willing to go shopping and play with me on weekends. Instead, he went to parties and drank with his friends.

Half a year ago, I went shopping with a friend and bought a bag. After returning home, I showed it off to him and introduced that this bag is a new model of a certain brand and I am doing some activities now. He showed some impatience. A few days later, when I was doing his laundry, I found a shopping receipt in his pocket, which turned out to be the store selling my bag. I was surprised why he bought a bag like mine. My gut tells me there is something wrong here.

I took the receipt and questioned him. He rambled on at first, but then he said that he bought this bag for a female colleague of his. Because this female colleague had helped him before.

I'm surprised that you need more than 8,000 bags to repay a favor? He yelled at me and told me not to interfere with his work. He and the girl were just ordinary colleagues.

I am very angry and there is no real evidence.

Last month, I couldn't find my phone once, so I used his phone to call my own. He unlocked the phone and handed it to me, and went to take a shower. Driven by curiosity, I searched WeChat and found the girl. I found that the two of them did not have any WeChat records. I was secretly happy. It seemed that they really had no problem. I clicked on Chen Yang's WeChat account and suddenly discovered that Chen Yang had been sending red envelopes to this girl for more than a year. Especially on holidays, 520, 1314, 8023, and all kinds of small red envelopes, I was completely stunned.

When I brought the record to Chen Yang, he was full of surprise. In the face of my crying, he still insisted that he had no problem with this girl. He said that he usually spends money lavishly, but now he wants to save money for his marriage, so he asked this girl to help him save money. As long as he has spare money in his account, he will give it to the girl and get it back after he has saved a certain amount.

I asked him why he didn't give it to me? I'll keep it for him. He said he wanted to save a certain amount first and then tell me that he would marry me in the future.

I asked him why he sent numbers like 520, 1314, and 8023. He said that this girl pretended to have a boyfriend because her parents were urging her to get married. Please ask him to send such a number so that she can show it to her parents to prevent them from urging her to get married. He is also doing his colleagues a favor.

I am very confused now. I don’t know whether I should believe Chen Yang or not.

I am already 29 years old. I am afraid that if he really lies to me and does not marry me in the future, what should I do?