all say that maternal love is the greatest, because mothers can endure all the hardships for their children, and mothers give up everything for their children.
A mother will give all the best things to her children, but she may not get the same return, but she doesn't care about all this at all. In her heart, as long as her children live well.
In order for her children to live a better life, the mother silently endured all the grievances and injustices, but she never complained.
When your parents get old, you must never let your mother suffer any grievances, and never let your mother worry or be afraid.
You raised me when I was young, and I will accompany you when you grow old. This is the fine tradition of our Chinese nation, and each of us should pass it on.
Because we will also grow old one day, when we respect our parents, we actually respect ourselves. Our parents' today is our tomorrow.
event review: More than ten years ago, an accident took the life of Liu Junrong's (pseudonym) father. Since then, he and his mother Song Lin (pseudonym) have been dependent on each other.
I originally thought that mother and son would live together like this, but I didn't expect that a year later, my mother Song Lin was introduced to her stepfather, and then Song Lin remarried with Liu Junrong's sister. He was only sixteen years old that year.
At that time, Liu Junrong wanted to live with his stepfather at his mother's house, but his stepfather was unwilling to accept Liu Junrong, so he had no choice but to live with his grandparents.
Because his grandparents are old, from then on Liu Junrong’s tuition fees were borne by his eldest uncle, and his second uncle was responsible for his living expenses.
After graduating from high school, Liu Junrong was admitted to a junior college in Changsha, Hunan Province. After that, his uncle and second uncle were responsible for all his expenses. However, he was later dismissed because he violated school rules.
In this regard, Liu Junrong explained that his relationship with his mother was very tense, and his mother did not take him away with her after she remarried. He was always in a bad mood, so he did some outrageous behavior.
In order to survive, he had no choice but to work in Shenzhen. However, due to his high ambition and low ability, he often worked for a few days and took a few days off. He did not earn any money and almost ended up sleeping on the street.
He had no choice but to stay in a simple hotel. When Liu Junrong called his mother and wanted to seek her help, he unexpectedly found that his mother's phone number could not be reached and his WeChat account had been deleted by her mother.
Then the anxious Liu Junrong came to the reporter. He hoped to find his mother accompanied by the reporter. He wanted to ask his mother why she was so cruel to him. He wanted to sever ties with his mother. Then he drafted a consent form to sever ties with his mother. .
When reporters asked Liu Junrong if he knew Song Lin's residence, he said he did not know. Because he once tried to ask his mother, but her mother refused to tell him where his stepfather's home was.
Therefore, he has never been to his stepfather's house after his mother remarried, and he has never met his stepfather. Later, after the reporter inquired in many ways, he obtained the address of Song Lin's current husband's home.
The reporter then accompanied Liu Junrong to Song Lin's husband's house. Song Lin was surprised to see Liu Junrong and the reporter arriving, and then she told the reporter why she had blocked all contact information of her son.
It turns out that after Song Lin remarried after her husband died, because her current husband couldn't accept Liu Junrong, she had no choice but to bring her little daughter and remarry.
Because her husband also has a daughter, plus the younger daughter he brought over, she and her husband later gave birth to another daughter, so they now have a total of three underage daughters to raise at home.
But she did not give up on her son, but he was already an adult. Not only did he not do his job properly, but he also asked her for money every three days. Later, when he accidentally stepped on a burning charcoal while doing housework, his left heel was immediately burned.
Because of her foot injury, Song Lin could not go out to work. Therefore, she was often ostracized by her mother-in-law, who complained that she was a useless person almost every day.
She only eats and sleeps at home every day, and eats when she wakes up. She is a idler, but in fact, in addition to taking care of her three children at home, Song Lin also has to do some housework.
Her husband, who works outside the home, only gives her 3,000 yuan a month for living expenses. The family has three children, she and her parents-in-law, and the six of them live a tight life on 3,000 yuan.
Even so, when her son Liu Junrong asked her for money, she tried her best to meet Liu Junsong's request, but Liu Junrong did not understand her difficulties.
As long as she did not meet his requirements, Liu Junsong would kidnap her with morality, saying that she abandoned him, didn't care about him, didn't love him anymore, etc.
The pressure of life and the mental pressure made her breathless, so she had no choice but to delete Liu Junrong's WeChat account and block her phone number. The purpose was to make Liu Junrong self-reliant and not always rely on her.
After learning about his mother's difficulties, Liu Junrong fell silent. He chose to forgive his mother and said that he could understand her mother's difficulties. Upon seeing this, the reporter quickly persuaded Liu Junrong to cheer up, find a job, and solve the problem of food and clothing first.
Liu Junrong said yes, and at the same time he invited his mother to go out to work with him. Rong Lin agreed without thinking. Therefore, her foot injury was almost healed at this time.
Song Lin then communicated with her mother-in-law and asked her to take care of the children at home while she went out to work. Then she promised to send money back to her mother-in-law on time every month, and her mother-in-law agreed.
Song Lin immediately started to pack her things. Liu Junrong laughed happily. He walked over and hugged Song Lin with a happy face. He happily told Song Lin that he would work to support Song Lin in the future. At the same time, they also agreed to have a big day the next day. Set off early.
Unexpectedly, Song Lin changed her mind the next day. Then Song Lin's eldest sister called the reporter. The eldest sister explained to the reporter why Song Lin suddenly changed her mind, and bluntly said that Liu Junrong was hopeless.
Later, because life was too stressful and he had trouble finding a job, he did not have the confidence to face his mother.
It turns out that Liu Junrong called Song Lin the night before departure. During the phone call, Liu Junrong made two requests to Song Lin.
First, either Song Lin compensated him 500,000 yuan in one lump sum. The reason was that Song Lin remarried not long after his father passed away and did not give him enough maternal love and care over the years.
Second, either Song Lin divorces her current husband and goes out to work with him, or else they break off.
The eldest sister told reporters that for this reason, Song Lin finally gave up the idea of going out to work with Liu Junrong, because she felt that her son's ideas were very immature.
Furthermore, Liu Junrong often asked her for money, and she had no job. She didn't want Liu Junrong to continue like this, so she had to change her mind.
Song Lin also knew that it was not good for her to do this, but she did not want to, and could not always spoil Liu Junrong. She wanted him to mature himself as soon as possible, find a job, and become a financially independent person.
After understanding the cause and effect of the incident, the reporter invited Song Lin and Liu Junrong to go to Changsha for psychological counseling to help the mother and son get over their emotional problems. The reporter was responsible for all expenses.
But Liu Junrong refused to go. In the end, Liu Junrong went to get psychological counseling accompanied by reporters. After the psychiatrist continued to chat and counsel Liu Junrong, Liu Junrong finally realized his mistake.
He vowed that he would correct himself and become a person who is responsible for his life and himself. At the same time, he also expressed that he could understand his mother's difficulties.
Liu Junrong told the psychiatrist that the reason why he did this was entirely because he was abandoned by his mother. At that time, he wanted to follow his mother, but her mother did not agree.
He did so many things that made his mother sad, just to make her take him seriously and give him some maternal love, because he longed for maternal love.
Seeing that Liu Junrong had woken up, the psychiatrist was very pleased. Finally, with the help of the psychiatrist, Liu Junrong went to work as a receptionist in a restaurant.
Liu Junrong readily accepted the psychiatrist’s kindness. After seeing the scene of his serious work, both the reporter and the mediator felt very pleased.
Conclusion: His father passed away, his mother remarried, and his closest relatives both left him. Liu Junrong became insecure and felt that his mother owed him. This idea is understandable.
But this cannot be the reason and excuse for him to ask his mother again and again, because he has grown up and he should rely on his own hands to work hard to live the life he wants, rather than relying on his mother to achieve it for him. .
It can be said that Liu Junrong is unfortunate, or he is lucky, because his grandparents, uncle and uncle did not give up on him after his father passed away and his mother remarried.
After that, his uncle and his second uncle paid for his education. After all, his uncle and his second uncle also had families to support. It was not easy to help him under such circumstances. He should be grateful to his uncle and his second uncle for their support to him over the years. Giving and caring.
and reporters and psychiatrists helped him. Without their help, he would not have been able to reconcile with his mother. He would not have known how difficult it was for his mother, nor would he have gotten over his inner demons and started a new life.
To be honest, Song Lin did something wrong. No matter how angry he was, he should not block all his son's suggestions.
After she remarried, her relationship and care for her son were not enough. Her actions would only make her son's misunderstanding of her deeper, which is not conducive to the communication and relationship between mother and son.
There is no mother in the world who does not love her children. A mother who can abandon her children must have her own reasons, otherwise she would never abandon her children.
Furthermore, Liu Junrong himself did something wrong. He kept asking his mother for money every day. As long as her mother didn't give it, he would kidnap her with morality and force her to agree to his unreasonable demands.
He forgot that he was an adult and should have a life of his own. Whatever he wanted, he should work hard to create it on his own instead of depending on anyone.
Because the mountain will fall if you rely on it, and you can run if you rely on everyone. The most practical and reliable thing is to rely on yourself.
article/Huang Xiaoguai
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