mentioned in the previous article that many people have difficulty letting go of their first love. Even if they have new feelings, when the first love appears again, they feel so entangled in their hearts. In fact, some people are only suitable for falling in love once in their life, because these people are easy to give their feelings, but they are not easy to give their feelings completely. In addition to their inner sense of security, they are still full of idealism about love.
It is easy for them to give their feelings, but they do not fully give their feelings. Once they give, they find it difficult to control themselves. However, the sense of responsibility and insecurity in their hearts will make them put down their losses in time. There is a feeling in the hearts of these people. Sense of responsibility, but unclear goals. Many people actually understand what they need, which means they already have a plan for their future. However, after having a plan, they also need other abilities to support them, such as execution ability, communication and expression skills, sense of responsibility and mission, and whether they are committed to the goal. Clear and firm enough.
In love life, career can often support people's pursuit of love. Once people understand their own abilities and goals, they can re-recognize their own strengths and weaknesses. In addition to exercising and practicing their strengths, their weaknesses will be made clear. After pointing it out and realizing it, your mentality will be straightened out. At this time, whether it is career or love, you can start to make progress. This is what we said before, if you straighten out your true emotions, people will not be so If you are easy to involute, you can relax yourself more, thus helping work and love.
Let’s continue to return to the issue of how people who are single-minded in love should control their own views on love. In addition to sorting out emotions, when we understand ourselves, we also know what kind of partner we need to find. If a single-minded person falls in love easily, it will be difficult for him or her to get out of the relationship. Regardless of whether they are men or women, they are always unable to let go of their feelings and are in pain. This is irresponsible for starting a new relationship again.
Why do we always emphasize that young people today need to make pre-marriage and love planning? Because emotions such as love are very complex and difficult to control. When people encounter "love" at an ignorant age, they are often over-invested and lose themselves. Not to mention a waste of youth, we like and hope to see them be happy for a long time, not only in love, but also in the relationship after marriage. Love and marriage are two different things. Love can be a vow of eternal love, but marriage is mixed with life, human nature, and the handling of interpersonal relationships. Many young people often find it difficult to deal with feelings and what to do when they encounter problems, because they have no experience and no planning. So even after marriage, separation will occur due to other factors.
Marriage is a kind of exchange, a major decision and choice for a person's life-long affairs. Although the times have progressed and people have a high degree of recognition of the freedom of marriage and love, in the new era, new things are needed to standardize this kind of thinking. Marriage and love are still free, but a happy marriage and love cannot be separated from inheritance and planning.
