The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. Long-term quarrels make the family restless, which is a trivial matter. It is even more shocking to see these incidents where people died due to conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Incident 1: A 34-year-old woman committed suicide by jumping off a building, leaving a final note: We will not meet each other in the next life.
Xiaokang, a girl from Nanchong, Sichuan, was originally the apple of her parents' eye.
He also had excellent academic performance since childhood and found a good job after graduating from college. He has always been the pride of his parents.
But all this ends with a wrong marriage.
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Xiaokang met a man named Xiao Zhang while at work. The two fell in love at first sight and spent a sweet time together.
With a stable relationship, they naturally entered the marriage hall smoothly and gave birth to a lovely son not long after.
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In order to take care of the children, the mother-in-law quit her job and came to live with the young couple, which also kicked off the conflict.
Xiaokang and his mother-in-law are always incompatible with each other in terms of lifestyle and child education, and they often quarrel over trivial matters.
In order to settle the matter, the husband, who was the key figure, could only persuade and reconcile with both sides, but his words still favored his mother, which made Xiaokang very helpless.
Finally, after another fierce quarrel, Xiaokang couldn't bear it anymore, left a last note and ended his young life.
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She said to her children in her final book: Dad will not protect mother, and mother can only protect herself in her own way.
Incident 2: The daughter-in-law locked her mother-in-law in the house because of a conflict, and the mother-in-law jumped off the building in anger
In Huainan, Anhui, a woman and her mother-in-law lived under the same roof, and the two parties often quarreled over trivial matters.
Over time, the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law has deteriorated, even to the point of becoming tense.
On this day, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a fierce quarrel over trivial matters. The mother-in-law was obviously very angry. She picked up a kitchen knife and chased her daughter-in-law to chop her.
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Because the daughter-in-law was afraid of being chopped, she ran out of the house and locked the room outside.
But the mother-in-law couldn't get rid of her anger and was locked in the house. In a rage, she jumped out of the window of the room and died on the spot.
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is embarrassing.
Incident 3: The mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law were at odds. After the quarrel, they rolled all over the floor. The daughter-in-law calmly took photos.
In Taierzhuang, Shandong, a video of the mother-in-law rolling around on the ground once made many people talk about it.
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, the mother-in-law is lying on the cold floor, punched and kicked. Things in the house are staggered and the floor is in a mess.
My mother-in-law was rolling around and shouting, she was so angry that she was so angry. We can also feel through the screen that this mother-in-law is really angry. There is nowhere to vent the full resentment, so I can only vent my dissatisfaction in this most primitive way.
Judging from the appearance of my mother-in-law, she must be over seventy years old. In rural areas, old people of this age should not have read many books, so they may not be so comfortable in handling family conflicts. It depends on their own mood.
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And rolling around is the only way she can think of to vent her anger.
What is the daughter-in-law doing? She is filming a video of her mother-in-law rolling on the floor in anger.
And while filming, he said: "Look, everyone, this is my mother-in-law. She started acting like a monster again, cried, made trouble, hung herself, behaved and rolled around, no, this is how she usually behaves."
finally sent the video to online. It caused ridicule among netizens.
Let’s not talk about who is right and who is wrong between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
A family scandal should not be made public, so you posted the video online. If your husband sees it, how should you deal with it?
The following is useful information on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The issue of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been controversial, and once the issue between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not handled well, the entire family will be harmed.
Everyone wants their home to be warm. If everything is going crazy all day long and there is no happiness at all in life, it will only make the whole family fall into a sad atmosphere, which is not good for anyone.
In the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, no one wins or loses. Sometimes, both sides suffer.
In fact, if the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law understand each other better and take a step back from each other, the outcome will be different.
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1. Thinking from someone else's perspective
A mother-in-law must be able to understand that her daughter-in-law, as a young person, has her own way of life and should not interfere too much with her daughter-in-law's way.
Delegating power is the mother-in-law’s greatest help to a small family.
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A daughter-in-law must be able to understand her mother-in-law’s thoughts and habits of the older generation, which are difficult to change in a short time, so she should not care too much about everything with her mother-in-law.
Turning a blind eye is the greatest wisdom for a daughter-in-law to deal with family conflicts.
2, keep a distance
It is said that the mother-in-law is the biological mother and the daughter-in-law is the daughter. In fact, this is the biggest lie.
If you are not your biological child, you should keep an appropriate distance. There is no need to force a close relationship. There are some things that mothers and daughters can say, but mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot, no matter how good the relationship is. This is proof.
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Keep an appropriate distance, and you will think more when doing everything, thereby reducing the occurrence of conflicts.
Keeping distance is the best way to allow mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to breathe freely in their own world.
3. Lower your expectations for each other.
A common complaint I hear is: "Hey, it turns out we are not biological. If we were biological, we would definitely not do this to me."
This means that your expectations for the other person are too high. Since you are not your biological child, don't maintain your biological expectations for the other person.
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Lower your expectations and you will find that as someone who is not your biological child, she has actually done better.
4. Respect each other
Conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inevitable. Once they occur, give each other some room, don't speak too harshly, and stay silent when appropriate.
For example, take the daughter-in-law in the third incident. In fact, since your mother-in-law always rolls around like this when she is angry, then you just keep silent and ignore her. It is really disrespectful to make a video and post it online.
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No one forces mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to be intimate, but at least we must respect each other, otherwise conflicts will intensify and regrets will be too late.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is different from the relationship between mother-daughter and husband and wife. Mother-daughter and husband-wife can reconcile after a quarrel, but between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after the quarrel, there will be more scars in each other's hearts, which will not heal for a long time.
Treat others with kindness.
I hope that mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law can treat each other with kindness and work together to support a happy, harmonious and warm home.
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