01 If the means are not strong enough, the body must be soft.
02 People are most afraid of dreaming back at midnight: the person on the pillow is not the sweetheart, but the sweetheart is already the person in the dream.
03 One criterion for happiness is whether you can always say "no" to things you don't like.
04 We would rather take those far away in the horizon as our idols and role models; but are unwilling to learn to respect and appreciate those around us who have made progress and achievements. This is our real problem.
05 As time goes by, we will eventually forgive those who have hurt us. But more often than not, that's not forgiveness, that's forgetfulness.
06 When you feel that the whole world is against you, that no one in the world understands you, and that the whole world disagrees with you, there is usually a problem with your self-perception.
07 Human history is moving forward step by step, stained with blood. How can one have the heart of a Bodhisattva without the use of thunderbolts?
08 Life will never spare you just because you are timid.
09 The kinder a person is, the more he needs to be smart. The smarter the person, the more capable he is of kindness.
10 Don’t dare to dress up because you are afraid that others will say bad things about you behind your back. That’s because the people who say bad things about you are not as beautiful as you.
11 Those who want freedom actually have to bear the greatest responsibility, and those who choose the road less traveled by others have to bear the heaviest yoke. There has never been a way to fly without defying gravity. When I take a different path than others and others accuse me, I am willing to admit my mistake, because this is the price I pay for my free life.
12 Parents are the only audience for their children in the first half of their lives, and their children are their only support for their parents in the second half of their lives. I will not miss the second half of your life, and please don’t miss the first half of my life.
13 Don't always say "I'm doing this for your own good". We shouldn't use our love to kidnap other people's lives and ask others to live for us. Neither your wife nor your husband, nor your parents nor your children can do it.
「The Truth about Love」
14 Acting like a baby will bring good luck to a woman for a while, but it will not bring good luck to her forever.
15 Do you think the person you like is the person you like? Like is always a misunderstanding.
16 What women often want is not the truth, but the kind of "truth" they want to see.
17 What does it feel like to find someone you truly love?
You are the star, and I am the star next to you. My trajectory is all affected by you. If one day you go out and become something I can't see. But your appearance is still affecting my trajectory, no matter where you are in the future.
18 The real fairy tale is not about a prince charming meeting a snow white. But an ordinary person met another ordinary person. We are willing to let go of our previous illusions and standards, cling to each other for warmth, and be loyal to each other.
19 When a train derails, the problem lies either in the locomotive or in the track of marriage, not in the scenery outside.
20 In this era, there is no pure "green tea", everyone just drinks mixed drinks.
21 Love sometimes has a beginning and an end, but I always hope that it will have a beginning and an end. Because only by drawing an end can I move forward better.
22 I would like to have such a person who can make me fall in love with her; let me no longer care about gains and losses; let me no longer be distracted; let me no longer follow the crowd. Because I know that the moment I fall in love with her, I have met the best version of myself.
23 Choosing the person I love is creating wounds for myself, choosing the person who loves me is giving myself a pair of armor.
24 The paradoxical thing about life is that the moments when you are tempted often happen when you are not ready. When you are ready for everything, it is difficult to find the moment when you were moved.
25 What is a good relationship? Let us all become better versions of ourselves. The pure self, the sincere self, the upright self.
