A beautiful girl was raped and it was very painful.
She went to see a psychologist for consultation.
She cried as soon as she saw the psychologist, and said in tears:
I am so miserable, how unfortunate I am,
I will never forget this in my life...
The psychologist said to her on the spot:
Miss, you were raped voluntarily.
After hearing this, the young lady was shocked and said: What are you talking about? How could I be raped voluntarily?
The psychologist said to her: If you were raped by him once, but in your heart you were willing to be raped by him once every day, then you would have been raped by him 365 times in a year.
What's going on? the girl asked in confusion.
Something bad happened to you. You seem to have watched a bad movie.
I think about it every day. Isn't this a stupid thing? What is the difference between this and repeating the same mistakes?
The psychologist talked a lot of nonsense.
said like crazy:
You can't change the environment, but you can change yourself;
You can't change the facts, but you can change your attitude;
You can't change the past, but you can change the present;
You can't control others, but you can change the present. You can control yourself;
You can't predict tomorrow, but you can grasp today;
You can't have everything go smoothly, but you can do your best;
You can't extend the length of life,
but you can decide the width of life;
You can't influence the weather. But you can change your mood;
you can't choose your appearance, but you can show your smile.
In fact, human attention is limited.
When you are focusing on one thing,
you have no time to take care of other things.
So, the way out of depression is not complicated.
As long as the memory in your mind changes,
Don't put memories you don't like in your mind anymore,
This situation can be easily changed.
Life is a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you; if you cry at it, it will cry at you.
