We will get divorced after our children finish their exams. Many people have said this. For the sake of their children, they will not divorce for the time being. They pretend to be good brothers during the day and good neighbors at night, just for the sake of their children's exams.
Yang Chengwu and Guo Fu have been quarreling ever since they had children. From the time they were a loving couple, they quarreled so much that they had different views. They had a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days.
Their son will enter high school this year. In order not to affect his academic performance, they chose not to divorce for the time being and wait until the child has finished his exams before divorcing.
The reason for the divorce was that when Guo Fu gave birth to her son, her mother-in-law chose to go to her daughter's house to take care of her during the confinement period. However, after Guo Fu gave birth to the child, she still had to cook and take care of the child.
At that time, the family was in difficulty and they had another child to eat. Yang Chengwu was reluctant to ask for leave, so he had to let Guo Fu, who had just given birth, cook and take care of the child.
Yang Chengwu's sister also gave birth to a baby. His mother did not take care of her daughter-in-law's confinement, but went to her daughter's house to take care of her. Yang Chengwu felt that his sister was also born to his mother, so he should take care of his sister.
Because of this matter, Guo Fu and Yang Chengwu quarreled every day. They had been quarreling since the child was born. They have decided to divorce now that the child has entered high school.
The son knew that there were conflicts between his parents, but he did not know that they were getting divorced.
When parents and children are together, they never quarrel. No matter how angry they are, they will create a happy and happy family atmosphere for their children.
It wasn't until the son finished the exam that his parents told him about the divorce and let his son choose who to live with in the future. The son couldn't accept it at all. He wanted his parents to be with Meimei.
The son said, "I won't go with anyone. I will handle your divorce myself, and I won't choose anyone."
The two of them made an appointment to get divorced together tomorrow, and early the next morning, they went to the Civil Affairs Bureau together. The two had another big argument at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau.
The cause and effect are all due to confinement. Yang Chengwu said, "My parents are old and need someone to take care of them. If you take good care of my parents, if we don't get divorced, you will still be the master of the family."
However, during Guo Fu's confinement, her mother-in-law did not take care of her. , went to take care of her sister-in-law. Guo Fu suffered from confinement disease during her confinement. Not only was Yang Chengwu inconsiderate of her, he also asked her to take care of her parents-in-law.
Originally, his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were incompatible with each other. Yang Chengwu also repeatedly favored his parents. What he said and said was that his parents had suffered a lot in raising him.
Guo Fu said, "You endured a lot of hardships when your parents raised you. It was your parents who raised you, but they didn't raise me. You were filial and you went to take care of me. Why should you let me go?"
Yang Chengwu still said the same thing, I work to make money! "Besides, you married me, isn't it your duty to serve my parents? If I don't go out to make money, what will we spend?"
Guo Fu is too lazy to listen to Yang Chengwu's nonsense. No matter how reasonable she is, she is the one who doesn't take care of her parents-in-law. It's my fault, let's not talk about it anymore, "divorce".
The two of them waited for the Civil Affairs Bureau to open the door. Halfway through the formalities, a neighbor called, "Yang Chengwu! Your son jumped off the building. Your parents asked your son to jump off the building. We can't stop him. Come back and take a look."
The two of them were not divorced, so they hurried back. On the way, they received a call from a neighbor saying that their son had been admitted to the hospital.
The two of them went straight to the hospital. The son was lying in the hospital. Since he didn't have a signature, he had to wait for his parents to sign for the operation. The neighbor was extremely anxious to guard the child.
My parents signed the signature and waited at the door of the operating room. The neighbor said, "Yang Chengwu, your parents are so inhuman. Although they are my elders, I have to talk about it today."
Chengwu! Your parents kicked the door early in the morning, and the neighbors who kicked them came out to see. When your son opened the door, your parents beat the child at the door. How can a child of sixteen or seventeen be beaten again? Your parents scolded the child, "You Your parents are getting divorced, and you still have time to sleep at home. Now you go jump off the building. Do you think your parents still dare to divorce? "
At that time, the neighbors tried to persuade your parents to stop spanking their children. Your sister came back, and your sister said, "My brother is not filial, I will take care of you from now on."
After hearing this, your parents held your son down and went upstairs, making your son jump off the building. They called to scare you. Who knows? Your son jumped off the building without saying a word.
Your parents and sister were scared away at that time. The child was downstairs and we didn’t dare to move. We called an ambulance and the doctor asked for a signature before the operation could be performed. The neighbor who came with us rode back and asked your parents to sign. , your parents locked the door, I heard they went to your sister's house.
The neighbors couldn't stand it anymore, Guo Fu angrily hit Yang Chengwu, "These are your filial parents. Even if we don't give you a salary, we have to give it to your parents. Did you see it? Your parents have ruined your son." "If your son has any shortcomings, I will drag your parents to accompany my son."
The child jumped from the second floor, suffered a concussion, , fractured his legs and arms, and three broken ribs. The doctor said that he almost lost his ribs. Inserted into the lung, the situation is particularly critical.
After three days of rescue, the child finally regained consciousness. The parents said, "We are not getting divorced, and we will never divorce again. Our family will live a good life."
After the child was discharged from the hospital, he became silent, but the grandparents listened. Only when the child is fine can he dare to go home.
Children and parents should discuss having another child while you are still young. In fact, the child is also afraid that he can save his parents' marriage once, but he is afraid that he cannot save it twice.
After his son jumped off a building, Yang Chengwu never went to his parents' home again. His parents called him many times to ask for living expenses. Yang Chengwu said that from now on, I will give as much as my sister will give me, and I will not pay if my sister doesn't give.
This can be regarded as a lesson learned, but the cost is too high, and the parents are so inhuman. Even if they don’t want their son to divorce, they can’t threaten their grandson’s life.
