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In interpersonal communication, we are most afraid of meeting villains. They will be a landmine in your journey of life. If you accidentally anger him, he may Bring chaos and chaos to your stable life.
Their character is definitely not good, and their reputation is of course quite bad. If you are unfortunate enough to meet this type of person, be sure to stay away from them, and be careful that they may harm you if they are deliberately retaliated against.
However, some people are good at pretending. Even if they have bad character, they still like to pretend to be sanctimonious in front of others. Uninformed people are often easily deceived by them and mistakenly pay sincerity.
Therefore, how to identify villains is a subject that we need to learn throughout our lives. Only by clearing away the garbage people around you in a timely manner will your life be more secure and happy.
Maybe in life, we can't get evidence of the other person's bad character, but in the family it is not difficult. People with bad character often have these symptoms in the family. If you have heard of it, you must be more careful with them and don't be easily deceived by them.
1: Domestic violence Partner
I saw a very popular news on a certain video platform. When a man had a disagreement with a woman, he started to beat her. After being dissuaded, the man said: Then he became excited again, got up and ran to the kitchen when he was angry.
According to what he said, he was going to get a kitchen knife. As for what he was going to do with the kitchen knife, I believe everyone who watched the video knew it.
The video is incomplete and we cannot see the subsequent progress, but we can fully imagine how dangerous the woman's situation is in the family. A man who beats people at every turn, and even takes a kitchen knife when he is angry, has absolute character. It won't be good.
If no one stopped him from hurting his wife, I can’t imagine what kind of atrocities he would commit. Living with such a person requires you to live in fear every day, and you cannot live a stable life at all.
For this kind of person with poor character, no matter how many things in this family are worthy of your thoughts, I hope you can put everything down and escape from the other person as quickly as possible. Some people are not worth any effort you make for them.
2: Taking it out on the child
Some time ago, a man in Anhui who was even more vicious than a jackal, a tiger, or a leopard was on Weibo’s hot search list. He had an argument with his wife, and in anger, he slapped his child, who was only a few months old, hard several times.
Not only that, he also kept covering the baby's face, as if he had the urge to kill him. After the video was released, the entire Internet was criticized, and everyone believed that his behavior was suspected of intentional homicide.
Such men are actually very useless in reality. As an adult, he does not know how to control his temper. He becomes impulsive and irritable when things happen, and even takes it out on innocent children, even if his children are only a few months old. The baby did not escape his clutches.
His behavior clearly told everyone that his character was not good, and not only bad, he had even reached the level of viciousness.
If there is such a man around you, whether it is a friend or a partner, I advise you to leave early. He is impulsive and irritable when things happen, and acts viciously. He is like a poisonous snake lurking around you. You don't know when he will bite you and make you feel the pain.
Three: Disobedience to Parents
I once heard Liu Li mention the reason why she broke up with her first love. She said that there was no betrayal or change of heart between them. She was the one who initiated the breakup. The reason was just a story she heard from her first love.
Once, Liu Li made a big mistake in her first love. His father chased him and beat him, but he couldn't hit him. By then, he had grown into a taller and stronger man than his father. In a depressed and rebellious mood, he felt His self-esteem was hurt, so he picked up a stick on the roadside and started to fight back against his father.
ended with Liu Li's first love's father admitting defeat. He was chased until he was out of breath. From then on, he no longer dared to discipline his son at will.
Liu Li’s boyfriend talked about it with a proud and triumphant expression at the time. After Liu Li listened, she did not feel the majesty of the other party. She only felt scared for a while. She was almost going to have sex with someone. People with such bad character are heading for marriage.
If a person dares to do something to his father, there is no need to doubt that there will never be any restraint from benevolence, justice and morality in this person's heart, and his character will certainly not be any better.
When making friends, a gentleman should have certain requirements. For those with bad character, no matter how good the other person's conditions are, don't cling to them easily. Staying away is the right way.
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