Some people say that second marriages are very realistic and it is difficult to describe true love. I do not deny the reality of some second marriages, but it is not absolute. Many second marriages also have love, but relatively speaking, the proportion of second marriages that a

Some people say that second marriages are very realistic and it is difficult to describe true love. I do not deny the reality of some second marriages, but it is not absolute. Many second marriages also have love, but relatively speaking, the proportion of second marriages that are too realistic is higher. It's just higher, so it makes sense to say that the reality of second marriage is greater than love.

So, why do some second marriages seem very realistic to many people?

First of all, the second marriage has been through marriage. They have experienced love and marriage, and their understanding of love and marriage will be less romantic and more realistic. This can be regarded as a kind of life experience. , since it is a second marriage, it means that they have experienced a failed marriage, were heartbroken by love, and have lost confidence in marriage. People with this mentality will inevitably choose reality when they remarry, and they will be disappointed in love and marriage. , has left them with no choice. Since they have lost confidence in love and marriage, when facing a second marriage, since they do not have much confidence in relationships, they might as well choose reality, because reality is tangible to them. Only when you can see it and feel it can you feel more at ease in your heart. If you can't get it emotionally, make up for it with reality.

Secondly, some of the reasons for divorce in second marriages may also be that life is too hard and there is no hope. They are frightened by the difficulties of life and live a hard life. Therefore, when they choose marriage again, they don’t want to let themselves go back. The old way, so they value material things too much. In the eyes of these people, love and marriage are just that. Without a good economic foundation to guarantee, everything is just a mirror in the water. They are exhausted all day long for firewood, rice, oil and salt. How can there be anything else? Too much energy is spent on creating a romance between flowers and moonlight, so how can one be in the mood to talk about love?

Last point, I think many second marriages may have children with each other, and both are faced with the problem of raising and nurturing children. Therefore, during the second marriage, this issue must be taken into consideration. Therefore, there are some realistic requirements, and That’s understandable. Some people may question this idea and approach. In fact, we need to give them full understanding, find a support for ourselves, and make a reasonable plan for our future, so that our marriage will not be affected again because of the embarrassment of life. After all, Life is not just milk, bread is also necessary. Be realistic, what's not to do?

The above situations are just the thoughts of some people and do not represent all of them. It is understandable that reality is greater than love, but this does not mean that there will be no love in second marriage. Exaggerating reality and ignoring love is not objective. Part 2 Although marriage is a reality, there are also many second marriages based on love. We cannot think that all second marriages are such a reality just because some second marriages have a realistic view of marriage.

In fact, the realistic view of marriage in second marriages is also a microcosm of the general social environment. Not to mention second marriages, but also first marriages, how unrealistic are they? Isn't it more realistic to have sky-high betrothal gifts, luxury houses and cars? Sometimes, the so-called reality of second marriage is actually just trivial if you think about it seriously. Therefore, reality is also a part of marriage. Reality belongs to reality, and love belongs to love. Love needs reality to protect it, and reality also needs love to water it. Whether it is the first marriage or the second marriage, life cannot be separated from daily necessities. The most ideal marriage is one that has both love and good material goods. Base. The future is uncertain, so be realistic and grasp the factors that are certain, and it’s not a bad idea!