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2. Women are becoming more and more reluctant to get married because they feel there is no need to get married.
Women in ancient times married to survive and have someone to rely on, but women today are different. With the development of the times, women also have the right to make independent choices in their careers, and they can also rely on their own strength to find a job. Decent work.
Well, for some women who are more enterprising, they will feel that "as long as they can run their careers well, living alone is not bad", and living alone does not have to face all kinds of family chores, so , they will feel that there is no need to get married, and will show some unwillingness to get married.
3. Women are becoming more and more reluctant to get married because the fate has not yet arrived.
Of course, we cannot say absolutely that "some women don't want to get married because they don't want to get married." Let me ask: Which girl doesn't have a wedding dress dream? It's just that they want to wear that white wedding dress for the right person, but they haven't met the right person yet.
In other words, many women believe in feelings. If a woman is in a relationship with a man, she does not have the desire to marry this boy in her heart. She is calm, calm, and has no desire to be together. With that kind of feeling in life, she will be unwilling to marry this man.
In one sentence, it is: Because there is no feeling of love, so he has not met the right person, and because he has not met the right person, he is not willing to get married.
4. Women are becoming more and more reluctant to get married because they think running a marriage is a tiring task.
When farmers plant crops, there is a step called "picking out seedlings", that is, when the sown corn seeds gradually begin to take root and sprout until they grow into corn seedlings of a certain height, if they find that they are growing in the same position. When two or more corn seedlings are harvested, remove the excess seedlings to prevent the seedlings from clumping together and not fully absorbing nutrients.
In the same way, in some emotional relationships, men and women are like two corn seedlings growing in the same location, making unlimited demands for limited resources, thus affecting the happiness of both people.
In other words, I feel that it will be very tiring for two people to be together. When you are alone, you only need to think about yourself, but after you get married, you need to think about your family.
When I am alone, if a friend invites me to go out for fun, I don't have to worry about it. As long as I have time, I can go. ,
However, if you get married, you will have concerns, especially when you have children of your own. When a woman wants to go out with friends, she has to consider the feelings and opinions of her children and her partner.
Due to these considerations after marriage, women will think that "running a marriage is a very tiring task", so they will become less and less willing to get married.
Changyan Changyu:
Why are women nowadays increasingly reluctant to get married? Because they feel that compared to getting married and starting a family, a person's life will be easier and less constrained, because they feel that marriage is an unhappy and disharmonious relationship, and because they have been hurt too deeply by a relationship... ..., so they become increasingly reluctant to get married.
Of course, there is another core factor, that is: has not met the right person, the person he wants to be with.
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I am Changtan Shengsheng, a member of the Family Education Bureau, focusing on family emotions and various aspects of life. Together, we use our experiences to deliver positive energy (new posts are posted on time at 7:30 every morning)!
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