When you face busy people, you can discuss things, you can argue about work, and you can vent your emotions, because everything is only about things. It doesn’t matter your mood!
When you face people who have nothing to do all day and always want to learn from other people's mouths, you can close your eyes and mouth, unless you have high emotional intelligence, unless you know that people cannot live in other people's mouths.
Literally speaking, living in other people's mouths is like being eaten by others. It is not difficult to understand that society has always been about people eating people. If you care about you, you will be chewed in pain, accompanied by sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, and salty, bite after bite Eaten alive. Can you resist? Yes, but one can imagine, can food resist? It's not like being eaten easily, how miserable!
Therefore, we cannot live in other people's mouths and be eaten by others bite by bite. We must live in our own hearts and eyes, always enlighten ourselves, and look at ourselves and others optimistically. Whenever I am sensitive to what others say about me, I should imagine that the other person is mute. This may be a bit unkind, but it does work.
The world is so big, we have to be brave.
