A love and marriage requires the maintenance and management of two people, but breakup and divorce will no longer exist as long as one person no longer insists on it.
There is a couple upstairs in my house. They always argue and throw things when they have free time, sometimes late at night. Because the sound was louder, you could hear clearly what they were arguing about. The content is probably about misunderstandings at work and trivial matters in life. Men sometimes shout at the top of their lungs to explain the problem. Women almost always blame him calmly.
During this time, there was no sound of quarreling upstairs, which made me feel uncomfortable. It was too quiet and I couldn't sleep. The next day my neighbor told me that the couple had divorced.
In fact, in terms of love, when love goes sour and a man decides to give up the relationship, there are various reasons.
1. Men don’t get understanding and respect.
For the couple upstairs, the man always tried hard to explain to the woman. I am really too busy and tired at work. Some things have not been done. Some things are really not enough time. Can't you do it tomorrow? What women often say is that you are just lazy and don’t take her words to heart.
Men’s hard work is not understood. Everyone gets tired sometimes and may forget to do some things when they are busy. In fact, this is normal. When men return home, if they can get understanding and corresponding respect, I don't think their relationship will end. Although we have been arguing for more than 2 years, I can feel that this man still loves his wife very much.
2. Men don’t see hope
Some women spend money lavishly, but they don’t know that it is not easy for men to make money. I don’t know that the monthly mortgage, car loan, household expenses, etc. all need to be earned by this man. If a man is unable to support himself because of a bad job, but the woman doesn't understand, she will still spend too much money and complain that he makes less money. When a man finds it difficult to make ends meet and sees no hope, he may have the idea of giving up on the relationship.
Or in life, there are some contradictions, and such contradictions are difficult to solve. When no solution can be seen, such problems will also occur. Sometimes it is impossible to evaluate who is right or wrong, but there is no solution. For example, when it comes to the pre-marriage gift between two people, the man’s financial strength is insufficient. For example, should the woman's name be added to the real estate certificate? For example, if both parents firmly disagree, etc.
3. Only a man pays
A relationship needs two people to protect it. But sometimes in love, there may be only one person who is working hard and the other person is indifferent. For example, some boys are not afraid of giving when they truly love someone. But sometimes it is difficult for him to get rewards and recognition for his hard work. The reward here is not to give him anything, but some response.
4. The woman does not trust
that two people can be together. Trust is the foundation. Some couples do not know how to tolerate each other in marriage and love, and may develop suspicion and distrust, leading to cold violence, quarrels, separation, etc.
If a woman completely distrusts a man, this may force the man to give up on the relationship. For example, some girls suspect that a man is having an affair, but the man has no affair problem. Ask him to report various itineraries. Even if he has leaders or important clients to attend to, he still has to make a video to check on him. Sometimes he even doesn't hesitate to come in person. There are various speculations about him in life. When they quarrel, she always feels that this man has done something sorry for her, with a arrogant attitude and a wronged mood.
Of course, if a man really has an affair, this situation will not be discussed too much this time. I will write an article on this aspect in the future.
In short, if you can meet a good man in a relationship, you must cherish it. Don't do something you regret because of your own reasons. It is not easy to create
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