It is better to be happy at first sight than to be tired of it for a long time.
When dating between men and women, just liking each other may not necessarily lead to a long-term relationship. Only when two people get along comfortably will the relationship become more stable.
Today, Men's Love Book will share with you the best way to get along with women and , so that your relationship will last long and she will love you more.
1. Think more from her perspective
The source of conflicts between men and women lies in the difference in thinking. To borrow a saying often said by women, you don’t understand me.
Indeed, many times men don’t quite know what women are thinking and what their intentions are when they say certain things.
For example, a woman says she is fat, and a man tells her to eat as much as usual, and then shares a lot of weight loss tips with her.
As a result, the woman became angry.
Men also feel that the other person is confused. How could he suddenly become angry when he was fine a second ago?
But if you think about it from a woman's perspective, it's not difficult to find out why she is angry.
It is obvious that when a woman says this, she does not want you to accuse her, nor does she want you to teach her how to lose weight, but she wants to get a negative answer and praise from you to satisfy her sense of security.
So, you can reply to her like this, "You have gained weight with your thin arms and thin legs. Even if you become a fat pig in your seventies or eighties, I will still love you as before."
Therefore, when interacting with a woman, think more from her perspective and try to figure out the motivations and intentions of every word she says.
After you figure out what she wants to do, you can easily resolve a quarrel or cold war as long as you "prescribe the right medicine".
2. Do not interfere too much in her social life
Everyone is an independent individual and has their own life. They have the right to choose what to do and what not to do.
Some men are too controlling and like to intervene in her life and restrict her various behaviors as their boyfriend/husband.
For example, if you don't like a certain girlfriend of your girlfriend, you won't let her date her. Once you hear that you want to go out with her, you will try to stop her in every possible way.
What are the consequences of doing this? There are two kinds of things, one is that your girlfriend rejects you, and then you two have a big fight; the other is that your girlfriend chooses to compromise and stays at home and doesn't go out.
The former will directly cause conflicts between you and may lead to a breakup, while the latter will make her feel depressed and tormented. In the long run, it will also make her have the idea of breaking up.
At this point, we might as well think about it in another’s shoes. What would you do if your girlfriend didn’t let you play games or go out drinking with your brothers?
Therefore, in the process of interacting with a woman, as long as it does not involve issues of principle, the Love Sutra for Men recommends that you not interfere too much in her life.
3. Occasionally give her romantic surprises
We are all ordinary people, and a relationship cannot be as spectacular as an idol drama.
For us, life is more about running for a living and solving problems such as car and house loans that weigh us down.
Having said that, two people still need a sense of freshness and ritual to inject a bit of vitality into their lives together.
Otherwise, your life will be like a pool of stagnant water, lifeless.
In fact, the romance and surprise that women want are not difficult. Don’t think of them as too grand and complicated.
When you remember that you haven’t given her flowers for a long time, you can go to the flower shop to pick out a few flowers and take them back to her after get off work;
You can also take her to travel around places she has never been to on weekends. Or visit the store together to enjoy delicious food and improve your life.
This is romance and a little surprise for women. I believe you can do it as long as you are willing to do it.
The above is and the best way to get along with women. If you can do these three points, I believe you will become more and more loving, and your love will last forever.
