Most relationships in life are phases. Some people pack their bags, say goodbye to you in a hurry, turn around and leave. Some people are in a hurry, and before you have time to say goodbye properly, the other person has already Walking a long, long way quietly, only a handful of people are willing to stay and walk the rest of the way with you. A big part of growth is acceptance, acceptance of parting ways, acceptance of the impermanence of the world. , accept loneliness and frustration, accept the sudden feeling of powerlessness, accept your own shortcomings, and then change from the heart, find a balance point, get along with the world, learn to get along with yourself, turn on a light when it gets dark, and bring an umbrella when it rains , be sad first and then cheer up. A person who is too literary is destined to be unhappy. He has love and kindness in his heart, and has child-like innocence in his heart, but he is also often sentimental, easy to perceive beauty, and easier to experience sadness. He likes Words, but often not good at words. It’s not that there are too few words, but that there are many feelings. We are all stars looking for each other in space in the prehistoric era. I hope that our emotions are only amplified by songs and copywriting, instead of wishing that we would be unhappy, no matter what No matter what choice you make, you will always have regrets, but occasionally you have to make the right decision. You are arrogant and never talk, but you are inscrutable and daunting. Some people talk all day long and show off their cleverness, but they don’t know that It’s a joke in the eyes of others. The more a person shows off, the more he lacks something. Showing off his little talent all day long just shows that he doesn’t have much ink in his stomach. A truly wise person always cherishes his words like gold, but when he speaks Words are resounding and gold will always shine. Don’t rush to express yourself. Talk less and do more. Use practical actions to prove your strength and be more convincing. Go your own way and be the best version of yourself no matter what you are going through. , good or bad, life still has to move forward. Sometimes hurt and failure are not necessarily a bad thing. It will make you better. The same is true for loneliness and loss. Everything must be done in the end. It will turn out to be a good thing, as long as you can get to the end. Before a certain age, you can live a clever life by overdrafting your body, cleverness and the luck God gives you. However, after a certain age, you can really make a living. Those who go far are self-discipline, positivity and diligence. Life is not always what people want. There are not so many things in this world that are just right. Maybe hard work may not be rewarded, but the process of hard work will definitely make you a better person. Every step in life counts, and everything you give is meaningful. In this world, we become whatever we choose. Life is rich and colorful, and we have to rely on ourselves to fulfill it. Just as what you give now determines what you will become in the future. People, when you can't change the world, you can still change yourself. In fact, I often think that I am like the kind of grass that exists in the corner, inconspicuous, always thinking about the meaning of my existence, and not being able to take action. My talents and personality are acceptable, my grades are not very good, and I don’t have outstanding appearance. In this colorful world, I will only deny myself again and again, and I will doubt myself because of other people’s denial of me, and even occasionally I also feel inferior because of my undistinguished appearance. Why are some boys so ordinary but so confident? And many girls are obviously excellent in all aspects, but there is no full self-confidence in girls. I think it’s because of the world’s concepts. , always teach girls to be perfect and boys to be brave, so girls are always afraid of failure and challenges, while boys will move forward bravely and accept challenges. I think we don’t need to be too harsh on ourselves. After all, everyone is imperfect. Do it bravely and try. Don’t be afraid of other people’s eyes. Maybe there really aren’t that many viewers in the audience. You just need to be brave enough to be yourself. You are not outstanding in appearance or ability. , The family is not outstanding, but the heart is as high as the sky. It is obvious that I am nothing but no one looks down on me. I envy other people's lives and love every day, but I always imagine that I can have everything. Then I look in the mirror. You have an ordinary appearance, an ordinary figure, oily hair that hasn’t been washed in three days, messy outfits, no ambition, but you are unwilling to do so. You hope that everything will go well, but you always don’t work hard, then How can it get better? What can pull you out of the trough is never time but the pattern in your heart and your heartfelt relief. The world has never felt the same way. You can be depressed, complain or even collapse, but you must understand yourself. Get better.When your heart is firm enough, no one can affect your efforts. After all, it is just to meet a better self.
