With the progress of the times, many women have changed and are no longer as stupid as they used to be. How can I put this? I just won’t deliberately choose to give up myself for someone.
do you know? Now, they feel that if they continue to act like before, they would be extremely stupid! Because in the past, they had tried, worked hard, and even sacrificed everything for someone. However, in the end, they gained nothing from such actions, and even let themselves be scolded by the other party. , complaining, until being abandoned.
Seeing this, some people may object, thinking that this is too absolute. But the reality is exactly like this, and the words spoken by those who refute are so pale and weak.
In fact, those women who have lived a transparent life have all experienced an unforgettable past event that allowed them to fully understand and see through the trivial things around them, and that made them feel that they had nothing to do with it. So-and-so does this and that, rather than doing this and that for yourself.
There is a saying that goes like this, if people don’t do it for themselves, they will be punished by heaven and earth. When you are really overwhelmed by reality, it is better to live a transparent life. You must know the benefits of doing so, so that you can enjoy your own life in the future. All of this is Because they were too stupid and stupid in the early stage, they figured it out later, and after they figured it out, they would become a three-good woman.
1. Eat well.
In the past, they scrimped on food and clothing for that so-and-so, and did not eat this or that. It can be said that they treated themselves extremely badly for that so-and-so.
At that time, they thought in their hearts that if they behaved like this, so-and-so would definitely feel distressed and would treat them well. But contrary to expectations, things didn't develop like that. That so-and-so didn't know how to pity women at all, and that so-and-so felt that it was right and natural for them to be like that. Even if the two of them had been together for a long time, they both felt like this, not at all. No change.
As time went by, I saw that so-and-so was still like this, and I completely looked at it. I felt that instead of letting that so-and-so eat well, it was better to eat well myself. Besides, there is no need to treat yourself badly because of that so-and-so. It is true to eat well for yourself.
2, drink well.
Some people may wonder why drinking good food is included in it? How can I say everything here in
? It's because they used to restrain themselves for so-and-so, so they didn't dare to completely let go in front of so-and-so. They were afraid that if they let go, it would leave a very bad impression on that so-and-so.
But the reality is exactly the opposite. You have worked so hard for that so-and-so, but it is of no use at all, and you have not gained any benefits, and you are always told that you are not.
do you know? Looking at that so-and-so like that, I feel tired and chilled. At this moment, I am thinking, forget it, the other person likes you so much, now I should show my true colors and drink well. It's true, but as for that person, I can't control him no matter what he does.
3. Have fun.
Before, I was really stupid and didn't know how to have fun at all.
For that so-and-so, I really gave up everything and put down all my body to take care of the other person. At that time, I thought that as long as the other person can be happy, it is more important than anything else.
But after experiencing some things, I found that so-and-so was really too much. How should I put it? Just take care of yourself, ignore others, and just let yourself have fun.
Do you know? Let a woman live a transparent life in the end, only caring about eating well, drinking well, and having fun, and not caring about someone around her. All of these are caused by sadness and disappointment bit by bit in daily life. If not , will that happen? impossible! As a man, when you find that the woman around you is really like that, should you think about whether the cause of the problem is because of you?
