It is understood that extramarital affairs: betrayal is really unforgivable, but the reality is really too cruel and I want to leave but can't leave. Netizens shared that the betrayal was really unforgivable. He hated the betrayal and itched his teeth. But the reality was really

It is understood that extramarital affairs: betrayal is really unforgivable, but the reality is really too cruel and I want to leave but can't leave. Netizen

shared that the betrayal was really unforgivable. He hated the betrayal and itched his teeth. But the reality was really too cruel. He wanted to leave but couldn’t leave. He felt like he had fallen into an ice hole. After reading Teacher Beisu’s article, he felt the pain was better and received a lot of attention. Teacher for a long time. I would think this way when something happens, and it’s really harmful, more so than the thing itself. I feel like I am being "petty", but I still ask, "Why are you treating me like this?" I have a bad relationship with my mother-in-law, so I feel that my husband's failure to speak fairly is a "betrayal". Alas! ! It’s not easy to change your mentality! This period is the most painful and tormenting time for you. You should try to calm yourself down and analyze the problems in your marriage rationally. If you want to continue the marriage, you must work with your partner to find out what the problem is, solve the problem, and re-energize your partner's love. With your enthusiasm, I believe that the husband who gave you marriage will wake up.

People will encounter various problems in this life. Just solve them. The same is true for marriage. I wish you can regain your cheerful mood as soon as possible. Yes, the betrayer feels that since he is not divorced, he should not mention the past, but the betrayed will still be in pain, because he is stuck in rumination thinking. The thought of his betrayal of the marriage will be painful. Since he betrayed, it means that he does not love you. But he won't divorce. If you want care and care but don't get it, sometimes you will fall into a kind of self-rumination and be painful. Look at him like a normal person. He is happy when he cheats, but you are in pain. I feel like my married life has really come to an end, but looking at my young children, I don’t want them to lose a complete home.

We were college classmates together for 34 years, but he cheated on me twice. The first time was 18 years ago. After I found out, he admitted his mistake and I forgave him, and we lived a peaceful life for a few years. This time it was I just discovered it 5 years ago until now, but he refused to admit it and said that I was just being suspicious and hadn't been home for more than half a year. I forced him to divorce. He agreed to divorce but was not firm. I didn't push him and didn't mention it. I didn't divorce him or not. I am still confused and feel that there is still a little love deep in my heart. I would like to ask Teacher Su Bei, 'Should I leave [laughing and crying]

Psychology is a complicated thing. Faced with multiple betrayals, either you let him go, what does it matter to you how many times he betrayed you? Or betray like him and become like him. Either you accept the reality and cry every day. The analysis is very good. Each age group is different and has different handling methods. If you are older and choose to give up on betrayal in marriage, even if the other party betrays you once or N times, it has nothing to do with you, because you basically don’t. If you love him, you just live in a family on the surface and use each other. Marriage is just a special partnership. It can also be said that there is no love, only family relationships.

Forgive me and see if she responds. What I’m afraid of is that even if I forgive you, I’ll think she did the right thing! On the contrary, she still thinks that you are incompetent, so it is better to leave. There is no grass in the world , why should we be together with an uneducated girl? Such indifference will not make you love her. Betrayal in life is a kind of depression! Marriage is a difficult thing! Betrayal is a kind of disrespect for people! Don't care about others, just be yourself. The more times you betray me, the more vicious you become to me. If you don't make me feel better, you won't want to feel better either. I live just to fight you and be cold and violent to you forever.