Some people just live in blessings and don’t know how to be blessed. They just want to live a good life and insist on experiencing the dangers of the world. Only when they get out of the warm comfort zone do they know what suffering is in the world. At this time, she wants to loo

Some people just don’t know the blessings when they are in the midst of blessings. They just want to live a good life, but they have to experience the dangers in the world. Only when they get out of the warm comfort zone do they know what the sufferings in the world are. At this time, she wants to look back, but at this time Is there any regret medicine in the world?

A willful woman who chose divorce

Coincidentally, an online video attracted everyone's attention. It was filmed by a netizen and uploaded to a short video platform.

In the video, everyone saw a heartbreaking scene. In a foot bath shop in Lanzhou, Gansu, a female technician wearing work clothes squatted in the corridor and cried bitterly, while a man next to her kept comforting her with a very gentle tone. .

People who don’t know the inside story may use their imagination to bring in various scenarios, but in fact, the two were once a very loving couple.

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong profession, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man. But the female technician is very lucky, because after she gets married, she is like a little princess at home. She is not required to do any work, such as washing and cooking. My mother-in-law is doing it, and she only helps out occasionally.

later became pregnant with the baby, and she was supported by good food and drink every day. After the baby was born, her mother-in-law basically helped to take care of the baby. She can be said to be like a hands-off shopkeeper in that family, and she didn’t have to do anything. , being pampered like a princess every day.

Moreover, she never has to worry about money, because her husband travels away all year round and she can fully bear the living expenses of the family by herself.

How many women dream of living this kind of life? Even her friends say that she may have saved the galaxy in her previous life, so she can meet such a good husband in this life. But for women, such a life is boring.

In order to relieve the boredom of life, she began to go out to play cards often, and did not care about the affairs at home at all. Even the children were left entirely to her mother-in-law, and she dressed up beautifully every day and went out to play.

As time went by, the conflicts in the family began to show up. Her husband had advised her many times, asking her to go out less to find friends outside and spend more time with her children and parents. After all, her parents were old and should not do anything. Let them do all the work.

But women have become accustomed to this kind of life. They ignore what their husbands say and just go their own way. In this way, couples often have a small quarrel every three days and a big quarrel every five days. No amount of strong emotions can withstand such quarrels.

Finally one day, when the two of them had a heated argument over a trivial matter, the woman directly said divorce, but the man did not hold back, so the two parted ways.

In the past, women were used to living a life where they had to stretch out their hands for clothes and open their mouths for food. Suddenly, they had no support and had to shoulder the responsibilities of the family. For the first time, women felt that it was too much. But in order to support her family, she had to find a job.

However, since she has been working as a full-time housewife at home, she has basically been out of touch with society. She has very few options to choose from when looking for a job, and even fewer with high salaries. However, in order to earn more money and make her life easier, she In the end, I chose to work as a technician in a foot spa shop, washing other people's feet.

I feel the hardship of life and regret my willfulness

This job is very hard, they have to work 10 hours a day, and they are paid on a piece-rate basis. The more they do, the more they can earn. So at the end of the day, she was so tired that she couldn't lift her wrists. Sometimes she couldn't reach the strength required by the customers even though she tried her best to breastfeed, so she was complained and even had to deduct money.

Not only that, some customers even use verbal teasing and look at this profession through colored glasses. It is under this kind of mental and physical pressure that a woman meets her ex-husband in the store where she works.

The two people's eyes met, and the woman's guard instantly broke. She squatted in the corridor and broke down crying. She told her ex-husband that after the divorce, she supported herself and her children by washing other people's feet. Real life made her know that she had been How I am so blessed that I don’t know how blessed I am.

She cried and said she was sorry to her ex-husband. Looking at the miserable situation of the person she once loved, she couldn't help but feel pity in her heart. Thinking of their children and being divorced for such a long time, she would rather choose such a tiring job than do it. Something else happened.

Her ex-husband sighed and said to her: "For the sake of our children, let's remarry!" This was perhaps what the woman was looking forward to most, but she cried even harder.

Author's point of view

From being pampered like a princess, with no need to do any work, no need to worry about anything, to being reduced to the bottom of society, I feel the mental and physical fatigue to the core, it is like peeling off a layer of skin. After experiencing it, she probably wouldn't think about trying it a second time.

She was very lucky. Her ex-husband was able to reunite with her regardless of past grudges. Although there is no regret medicine in the world, God gave her a chance. However, not everyone can have such luck.

So, try to live in the present, enjoy the happiness you have, and don't hope for the best, otherwise the end result will be nothing.