The mother-in-law transfers the house to her younger son, but requires her eldest daughter-in-law to take care of her in her old age. If it were you, would you be willing? Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law.

The mother-in-law transferred the house to her younger son, but asked her eldest daughter-in-law to take care of her in her old age. If it were you, would you be willing?

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, look after the mother-in-law for ten years, and look after the daughter-in-law for ten years. Most mother-in-laws and daughters-in-law have a bad relationship. The problem is that they see their mother-in-law in the first ten years and then they see their daughter-in-law in the next ten years.

People are all mutual. If you treat others wholeheartedly, others will return the favor to you wholeheartedly. It is a kindness for your mother-in-law to help you, but it is a duty not to help you. Mother-in-law is not mother, so never expect too much. When you behave in society, you only need to have a clear conscience. There is no need to dig deep to demand fairness and justice.

01. Taking care of her sick mother-in-law for 5 years

Since Luo Juan got married, she has been taking care of her sick mother-in-law. Although my husband has two brothers, my brother-in-law has been idle and unable to support himself, let alone his wife, children and parents.

Before she fell ill, her mother-in-law took care of her brother-in-law's children for five years and helped raise his two children. However, when the mother-in-law fell ill, the brother-in-law and his wife acted like a hot potato, blaming the blame on the brother-in-law and sending the mother-in-law to the brother-in-law's house and ran away.

Luo Juan was not a cruel person and could not do anything to rush, so she had to take her mother-in-law in. Considering that her husband leaves early and comes home late every day, Luo Juan takes on the burden of taking care of her mother-in-law most of the time.

At first, her husband was grateful to her and thought she was kind-hearted; her mother-in-law was also grateful to her and thought she was virtuous and filial. But over time, everyone took Luo Juan's care of her mother-in-law as a matter of course, and no one was grateful for her efforts.

Luo Juan has been taking care of her like this for 5 years. During this period, she resigned and stayed at home to give birth and take care of her mother-in-law. She was racing against time every day and was extremely busy every day. She went to bed the latest and got up the earliest.

02. The mother-in-law secretly gave the house to her uncle

to take care of her mother-in-law. Although Luo Juan complained a little, she always tried her best. Luo Juan thought that she was a filial daughter-in-law, but who knew that her mother-in-law, who relied on them for her retirement, secretly gave her house to her brother-in-law.

After it was discovered that her mother-in-law gave a house to her brother-in-law, Luo Juan felt extremely unbalanced. She believed that her mother-in-law was too partial. While enjoying her care and filial piety, she felt at ease to subsidize her younger son.

If Luo Juan hadn't gotten off work early and found that her brother-in-law came to the house to ask for the real estate certificate, maybe she and her husband would have been kept in the dark. Luo Juan did not agree to give it, and demanded that either the two brothers should take half of the house, or that the brother-in-law should take the house and take her mother-in-law back to support her in her old age.

But the mother-in-law was unwilling to do so. She thought that it would be better to stay at her eldest son's house for retirement instead of going to her brother-in-law's house, where she didn't need to take care of the children or look at her daughter-in-law's face. If you go to your brother-in-law's house, you will not only have to look at the younger daughter-in-law's face, but you will also have to drain the family's wealth and work like a cow or a horse, without stopping.

03. Daughter-in-law goes on strike: Why should I be a free nanny?

Seeing that Luo Juan was making trouble at home, her husband, who originally didn’t want to express his stance, had to persuade her to forget it. His younger brother's conditions were not as good as theirs, and his parents' retirement home wasn't worth much. There was no need to break up the friendship over a home. The two brothers were at odds with each other.

’s mother-in-law also echoed: It’s not that I’m biased, it’s just that my younger son’s condition is too poor, and I can’t bear to see them living a difficult life. As the eldest sister-in-law, you should be more generous and don't be too fussy.

Her husband and mother-in-law said one thing to one person and another to the right, which made Luo Juan very upset. Since the mother-in-law and husband insist on taking pity on the brother-in-law, there is no need for her to be such a villain anymore.

But she was unwilling to serve her mother-in-law anymore. Luo Juan proposed a strike and told her husband: Whoever wants to serve will be served. Why should I be a free nanny while my brother-in-law’s children and his wife can enjoy the benefits?

Luo Juan kept her promise and returned to her parents' home with her children. She went to work during the day and went back to her parents' home to take care of her children at night, regardless of how her mother-in-law lived. As for her husband, Luo Juan had no intention of paying attention to him.She doesn't feel sorry for a man who has no independent opinion and is led by others. Such a foolish and filial man.

Today’s topic:

Do you think Luo Juan is too narrow-minded?