If you are unhappy in your marriage, but you can't divorce easily, then do this. Minimize your expectations for him, treat him as a friend, and tell yourself that you are getting married to raise children together. Even though he is the father of the child, he will still provide money and effort to some extent. It is better than doing it alone. Don't ask him whether he loves you or not, and don't catch him checking his mobile phone. What will happen if he finds out? ? It will make you unhappy anyway, and it doesn’t matter what time he comes home. He doesn’t care about you, so why should you care about him? Don't call him frequently to show how much you can't live without him and make him feel how great you are. In fact, unhappy marriages are the norm. Look around you and see how many truly happy couples there are. Everyone is stumbling around and trying to make do. But for some women, even if their marriage is unhappy, you won't be able to tell because they know that no matter how bad the environment is, they should try their best to make themselves feel better. If you can't change your man, don't change him. Instead, spend your time managing yourself and your children. Marriage is just a formality, you still have to rely on yourself in life. When you are good enough, what does it matter whether this man loves you or not? If you can't change things, don't live with yourself. Don't cry secretly where others can't see. He lost. He will never meet a pure and brave woman like you again. He will never meet a pure and brave woman like you again. A person like you who wants nothing but gives everything for him. When you are sad for him, you look back at the broken pieces on the floor, which are all evidence that he doesn't love you. You still squat on the ground and pick them up one by one. You deserve it if you treat it like a treasure. "Anyway, I know that the girl who used to love to play, laugh, and be naughty has changed into a woman who just wants to work hard to make money peacefully. You have to understand that no one can help a capable woman. Sensible women are not loved by anyone. The more capable they are, the more baggage they have to carry. The more sensible they are, the greater the grievances they will suffer. Through the stumbling experiences along the way, they have long lost their original selves." "Growing up is really hard. Between my parents, In the invisible place, countless grievances and tears were boiled into a bowl of thick Chinese medicine, which cured my hypocrisy and dependence and made me a little adult who can stand alone."
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