The most unreliable thing in the world is love, so people are willing to go to great lengths for it and get a shackle - marriage. I have a classmate who was very popular with boys when she was in junior high school. In high school, she was even more popular. She would change her boyfriend every year without delaying school. Sometimes I ask her, aren't you afraid that you won't be able to take it back freely after giving out your feelings? She said that I give sincerely in every relationship, but I am a person who likes the new and dislikes the old, and has poor self-control, and we are still good friends after we broke up.
Well, I admire her for her ability to express her emotions freely, so she has gained many ex-boyfriends, and from time to time she also comments on their ex-boyfriends’ current girlfriends. Girls just love to compare, and it’s not that they care about them, it’s just a small advantage. Feelings will cause trouble in the heart. For example, I dumped this guy first, and you are his current girlfriend. No matter how beautiful you are, you are still not as good as me who he can’t catch up with.
After we went to college, although we were not in the same city, we still communicated with each other frequently. I had known for a long time that she had found a local resident as soon as she entered college, and her family conditions were also good. She originally wanted to get married after graduation, but it turned out that the man planned to continue. The process of getting married was put on hold while she was taking the postgraduate entrance examination. Later, after the man went to college in the south, she also started to take the postgraduate entrance examination, probably out of boredom. Everyone who has taken the postgraduate entrance examination knows that this is a one-on-one battle full of smoke. If you meet a close friend by chance, you will be as excited as tears. The beautiful girl couldn't sit still, so she really met a boy who was two years younger than her. His family conditions were average and not as good as those at that time.
When she was in college, the girl was treated like a daughter-in-law. When others were still living in the dormitory, she could go home and eat hot meals every day. When others were struggling to find a fixed place to live after graduation, she had already With a free independent master bedroom, the boyfriend, his parents and relatives have all met the girl. They have been together for four or five years, and all that is left is a marriage certificate, just like a young couple who have been married for a long time.
By coincidence, they also took the same major in the same school. As the battle for the postgraduate entrance examination intensified, the two of them had more opportunities to communicate with each other. They often discussed postgraduate entrance examination topics together, and the girl was attracted by the boy's wisdom. After living together, he just broke up with his current boyfriend. He probably still doesn’t know what happened when they were not together? Probably won't know either.
The boyfriend thought that he had neglected her because of his studies, so he found his mother. As he was out of town, he went to comfort his girlfriend before rushing back. As a result, his mother did not even see her after finding her. She said that when it comes to relationships, there is no reason to reason. I didn’t see him because I was indeed in the wrong, but I was even more unwilling to deceive him and hurt myself. There is no reason to talk about feelings. We were able to talk at that time, so we can only say that we are destined. , we can't talk about it after that, we can only say that we have no share, it's enough that you and I have sincerely paid, why bother to be entangled forever.
Later, she married the boy who took the postgraduate entrance examination together and gave birth to a child. This was the longest relationship she had had in more than thirty years. Until now, her husband is still her idol, whether in study or work. She would always mention it and praise it full of praises. It was considered a perfect marriage, but she didn’t want to mention the past and there was no need to mention it...
[Rose] Highlights from the past:
- Because we are still an ordinary couple, Cheers
- During the years when my boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship
- When my husband talked about his first love, was it a quarrel?
- Husband’s first month’s salary VS my first month’s salary
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