interpretation of emotional topics will take you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional reliever, but you must know how to let yourself go!
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Men and women interact, from acquaintance to mutual understanding, to love and stay together. Along the way, there must be someone who takes the initiative to get closer and creates the joy of getting along.
Therefore, you will win the attention and response of the other party, and finally achieve a two-way journey.
The emotional changes between men and women, from falling in love to ending the relationship. In this process, there must be one person who has had countless thoughts of separation before the relationship ends.
It's just that at a specific time node, the final decision was made because of something.
The truth about relationships between men and women, whether they love or not love, is nothing but "premeditated"!
No one will appear around you for no reason, and no one will come and go for no reason.
The reason for getting closer is because of joy, and the reason for leaving is because before he left, there were many moments when he felt that he would be better off without you.
Feelings are beautiful because they can make a person successful.
Emotion is a vicious villain, because it can make it difficult for a person to be happy again.
Why is it "nine times out of ten it is sad to hear about love"? It's just that it's easy to be happy at first sight, but difficult to endure for a long time.
If you give deeply, you may not get anything in return.
When men and women interact, if they ignore practical factors and only focus on personal subjective and affectionate relationships, they are destined to fail in the long term.
Those chicken soups such as "you must work hard to live out your own value and play a decisive role in various relationships" are always re-chewed and absorbed by those who have experienced it.
is also good! It is better to finally understand one day than to not understand even after being injured! However, people who have not experienced it have not been deeply "educated" by reality, so the Corps despises the word "reality".
even uses a "sage" perspective to "admonish" others what to do!
You must know that at any time, the truth that is divorced from reality is extremely pale!
Looking at the relationship between men and women, there are really too many people who are powerless! Often deep feelings are always hurt by ruthlessness, which means ignoring the cause and effect of reality.
You must know that there is no beginning or end of any relationship with a "sudden visit".
In the relationship between men and women, the three most common "premeditated" truths are especially found in lovers. If you don’t believe it, check it out:
1: Deep affection, in exchange for being actively proposed to break up
A person who said he loves you for a lifetime, I don’t know when, you can’t bear the desire to stop sharing and sharing. This kind of relationship will make you suffocate!
So, you proposed separation with emotion. He happened to agree.
And you, at the moment the other party agreed, you became even more emotionally out of control. But he got a cold response from the other party: Was it you who suggested the separation?
When two people are together, don't believe in any chance coincidences, just believe in the willingness of the subjective consciousness.
When two people are separated, don't believe any excuses and reasons given by each other. He just wants to reduce his responsibility to the lowest point, and he refuses to say that the value of your existence is no longer important to him.
That’s why I will use various methods to force you to break up. This phenomenon, as long as you are willing to carefully recall the details, you will know that it has actually been going on for a long time!
was asked to break up. It was never caused by emotions, but because someone was helping to break up.
2: I have been in love for a long time, but found that it is not suitable.
Some people fall in love at first sight and decide for the rest of their lives.Later, after getting along for a long time, I found that the person who made me feel determined had changed!
The person who has decided to live with him for the rest of his life is completely different from the other person in terms of words, deeds, habits, and behavior!
You think that he suddenly changed for some unknown reason, but in fact, he was always like this.
However, in the long process of getting along, the true colors were revealed.
If you find:
He/she is no longer concerned or anxious about your emotions, especially when he/she needs to empathize with you//, he/she is particularly impatient, preaches to you, and treats you as an outsider. Your point of view on things begins. Out of place...
In fact, you guys were not suitable from the beginning! No one will "become" so outrageous compared to before!
In this relationship, as long as you reflect on yourself in various ways, you will find that you have not really done anything excessive. Instead, for the betterment of this relationship, you have become tolerant, humble, and considerate of her at all times. People...
If this is really the case, the three words "inappropriate" have actually existed between you from the beginning!
3: Encountering betrayal
Some people, when the fact of betrayal is presented to them, are very repulsive and unwilling to believe it! Even, it is very unacceptable to accept such a "sudden" change.
In fact, there have been clues about the betrayal for a long time! However, some people, in order to show their generosity, deliberately do things to "indulge" their significant other in various details of life.
There is no betrayal of any kind, it does not start from ambiguity and transgression! There is no kind of ambiguity and transgression that does not start with chatting!
If you can express your feelings in time when two people get along, you will probably not face the fact of betrayal.
Because the truly responsible person will stop immediately because he cares about you and expresses his mind to you having close contact with other members of the opposite sex.
People who don’t care about you will try their best to maintain constant “friend” relationships with other members of the opposite sex.
When you find that your partner is unwilling to cut off the relationship with other "friends" of the opposite sex for you, and you still accept it with emotions, you will definitely be betrayed and stabbed.
Otherwise, if you stop the loss in time when your partner has the intention to betray, do you think you will still be visited by betrayal?
Yes, not everyone has the ability to deal with things calmly. Everyone behaves calmly and gradually grows into a "calm and sober" person after experiencing various helpless panics.
The "premeditation" in relationships is generally difficult for those who are deeply in love to detect the details in time.
Because affectionate people are often more willing to paralyze themselves with the false "trust" of "eating".
When a man and a woman are dating, a person suddenly "changes" and the relationship becomes "suddenly" strange until it ends, which makes you unable to let go...
Then, just ask yourself the following questions, and you will let go:
: Are you still there? Remember, some details in the past that made you sad but didn't express it?
When two people are together, they share and share honestly with each other, rather than one party tolerating the other while suppressing his emotions all the time.
: Do you still remember those words and deeds that the other party said or did to you that made you sad or perfunctory?
When you truly love someone, your feelings must be extremely delicate! When two people are together, even if they say nothing, the distance will be felt.
: When did you start to have a negative attitude toward sharing?
A good relationship will never be sure that the moments of sharing and sharing are present. The way to manage relationships is to speak well, and sharing and sharing are the necessary processes for speaking well.
The emotional relationship between men and women never comes out of the blue, close or separated, it is all "premeditated".
When you understand that all of this is premeditated, you will calmly accept the occurrence and existence of all current situations.
And, in the shortest possible time, you will quickly get rid of the influence of emotions and return to the track of loving life and facing the sunshine!
Life is like this, know yourself, find out the root cause of all problems, and everything will be relieved!
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Love is the purgatory of man in this world. Be it love or friendship, only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve success!
Topic discussion: Do you think the relationship between men and women really has an eternity that is separated from "value exchange"? Leave your true words in the comment area below.
