Text/Xia Mo 01. Preface: Love is like a plant. It needs a suitable growth environment, careful management and care, and cannot be left alone. Otherwise, it will quietly wither over the years. The famous American psychologist Daniel Gelman said: "The temperature of a family is alw

Text/Xia Mo

01, Preface

Love is like a plant. It needs a suitable growth environment, careful management and care, and cannot be left alone. Otherwise, it will quietly wither over the years.

The famous American psychologist Daniel Gelman said: "The temperature of a family is always controlled by women."

A woman who truly knows how to manage marriage and love knows how to show weakness, how to inspire men's sense of responsibility and protectiveness, and how to inspire men. of responsibility.

Every man has a "heroic dream" in his mind, hoping to show his most powerful side in front of women.

In love, if you learn to act coquettishly and show weakness, you will encounter different situations.

A truly smart woman will never conquer a man head-on. Instead, she will use a very soft way to make the man willingly change from "steel-making" to "softness around the fingers".

The more "soft" a woman is, the more irresistibly a man will fall in love with her.

02. A woman who is too pushy will live a very tiring life.

In a marriage, a woman who is too pushy will live a very tiring life. The stronger a woman is, the higher her demands are on herself, and the more selfish she is, the more severe she is.

There is no room for mistakes in everything. It is easy to get into trouble when things happen. You want to be perfect in everything and try your best in everything. As a result, the longer you live, the more tired you become.

In a relationship, if a woman is too assertive, it will weaken the man's value and dedication, and the man will not cherish her.

Tian Yulan in " Xiao She De " is conscientious and hardworking at work, always maintaining her independence and being strong in everything.

In the family, she takes care of her husband Yan Peng, washes and cooks for him, but she never sees what her husband does for her.

She desperately wanted her child to become a talented person, fearing that her child would be looked down upon by others, and hoping that her child would be successful. When problems arise in his children's education, Yan Peng only knows how to complain, regardless of how difficult, confused and painful Tian Yulan is.

But Tian Yulan is too stubborn, never admits defeat, never admits defeat, always takes everything on himself, and lives exhausted.

If a woman is too aggressive, she will not be cute. Because women who are too aggressive tend to live anxious and unhappy lives.

Moreover, when a woman tries to be strong in everything, in love, if a man does not have a sense of participation, he will not know how much the woman has paid, and he will not know the value of her efforts, so he will not cherish her efforts.

03. Men will love women who can act coquettishly more.

If a woman learns to act coquettishly, men will love her even more. Because a coquettish woman can always easily inspire men to protect her.

Acting like a baby is a means of managing love.

In " A coquettish woman has the best life ", there is a scene like this: Ruan Mei shows Zhang Hui the charm of coquettishness.

Originally, they went to steal oranges from the orchard outside the window, and were caught by the orchard owner. When the boss saw this, he loudly reprimanded them.

Ruan Mei said coquettishly: "I just want to eat a few tangerines, but the ones sold outside are very expensive. I don't know that you can't pick tangerines here..." The boss of

couldn't withstand such a coquettish offensive. In an instant, No more angry. He lowered his voice, told her gently, asked her to pick less, turned around and left.

This was an eye-opener for Zhang Hui. Only then did she realize that a woman's coquettishness was also a weapon to conquer men.

When a woman is in love, acting coquettishly can make a man feel that the woman is weak and needs his protection. Therefore, even if there is a conflict between each other, the woman's coquettishness can quickly stabilize the man's emotions.

A woman who knows how to act coquettishly becomes very gentle, stimulating a man's desire for protection and making him willing to hold her in his hands.

When a man sees a woman acting coquettishly and is reluctant to scold her loudly, he will become more gentle. As a result, many problems between each other will be easily solved.

04. "Show weakness" gently, men will be unable to resist

Gentleness is the greatest power that a woman can create.The gentler a woman is, the more men can't help but want to pay more and protect her.

A woman who "shows weakness" knows how to act within her ability in everything, and knows how to give up when things go well.

When managing love, a woman learning to "show weakness" can stimulate a man's desire to conquer.

Women, on the road of life, must learn to be independent in order to live a beautiful life. However, in love, you cannot just be stubborn, but you must learn to guide men to give.

If, in the management of love, a woman always forcefully demands a man to do something, it will arouse his rebellious psychology. On the contrary, it will weaken men's enthusiasm for giving.

A woman who "shows weakness" will pretend to be innocent, timid and at a loss when there are conflicts and contradictions between each other. Even if a man's bottom line and principles are touched, the man will see her "showing weakness" and will no longer blame her.

Moreover, in a long-term relationship, the more a woman is able to "show weakness", the faster a man will grow. When encountering problems, if a woman shows weakness, a man will rise to the challenge.

The more vulnerable a woman is, the more men will cherish her, because when a man pays more in love, the more he will cherish his beloved woman.

05, summary

The way of coquettishness that makes men irresistible is actually "softness". "Softness" can also breed a kind of strength.

"The Tao Te Ching" says: "The weak overcomes the strong, and the soft overcomes the strong."

When managing love, smart women know how to use their own advantages of "softness" to resolve the harshness and strength of men.

In the face of her dreams, women need to have the motivation to move forward without hesitation. But when it comes to love, you don’t have to be too aggressive, but you must learn to “overcome strength with softness.”

When a woman behaves gently and acts coquettishly towards a man, the woman can't help but want to be her hero. The more a woman knows how to pretend to be "weak", the more men will love her and cherish the love between them.

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Author: Xia Mo, cutting-edge emotional mentor, psychology scholar, over 1 billion popular emotional writer on the Internet, happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law answering questions for more than ten years