can be patient for a long time and practice to the "pen" of a unit, which shows that he has certain abilities and abilities. If you want to make progress, you must have a certain insight into human nature. I have selected 22 sentences that I have read recently for everyone to understand.
1. Society is a melting pot. When you are not in, everything is sharp and sharp, but once you are in, the edges and corners are not so obvious. Too obvious edges and corners will only make you appreciate more of the warmth and warmth of human nature and the warmth of the world..
2. People should be self-aware and the most important thing is to find their own position. Only in this way can you adjust your mentality. If you can't find your position and correct your mentality, you will definitely feel awkward in everything you look at.
3. If you have money, power, identity, and status, and others can gain something from being friends with you, but you are so poor that you have nothing, what do others want? Do you want to endure hardships with you? Therefore, don't scold others for following the trend. This is the most normal human nature.
4. As a person, if you can be strict with yourself and lenient with others, and don't be competitive, you will attract less resentment.
5. If you decide to do such a good deed, don’t expect others’ thanks, because it is human nature to forget to thank . If you expect others to be grateful, you are probably asking for trouble.
6. You can offend busy people, because busy people have no time to care about you; but you must not offend idle people, because idle people have plenty of time to deal with you. Especially when you know that the other person is very idle, do not criticize him at will, otherwise, he will find ways to make you look good and prove that he is not idle at all.
7. As long as you believe that what you are doing is right, don't care what others say. Do what you think is right - because you will be criticized anyway. You will be scolded for doing something and you will be scolded for doing nothing. The result is the same. That being the case, why bother?
8. We should have a forgiving attitude towards criticism, especially criticism stemming from jealousy, and understand the depression and discomfort in the other person's heart.
9.No one likes to be bossed around and ordered around. This is what we should understand about human nature. Being bossed around and ordered is just as unpleasant as being criticized.
10. People who know how to deal with the world, if they want others to do something, usually do not give instructions by giving orders, but often make suggestions by asking questions. On the one hand, does this to protect the other party's self-esteem and avoid conflicts; on the other hand, it can make the other party willing to accept opinions and facilitate the establishment of a cooperative relationship. If the relationship between the two parties is not very good to begin with, rude orders and instructions will increase the other party's dissatisfaction and lead to long-term resentment. Even if the order can be used to correct the other party's obvious mistakes, he will not be allowed to accept it.
11. Human relationships are as thin as paper, and world affairs are like new chess games.
12. People are very contradictory when facing the reality of life: On the one hand, they despise those who follow the trend, but on the other hand, they have to follow the trend; on the one hand, they cannot understand the proud posture of the rich, but on the other hand, they hope that they can Also became the proud rich man .
13. We don’t need to think ourselves noble and despise those who follow the trend. It should be noted that human relationships in the world have always been like this since ancient times. Power, wealth and status are the most realistic pursuits in secular life. It is normal for people to flock to people with power, money, and status.
14. People who only complain about the harsh world are incompetent. In fact, people can only blame themselves for not being strong and cautious enough, which leads to the cold reception. The fault is their own, why should they blame others .
15. You have to remember that when you are already in the cold, you should restrain your sharpness, act in a low-key manner, don't complain, don't hurt others. Even if others provoke you intentionally or unintentionally, it is best to ignore it. After all, if you encounter obstacles in moving forward and prevent you from successfully overcoming the obstacles ahead, there are only two paths you can take. First, put down your dignity and identity and temporarily choose a lower starting point to start over. At this time, as long as you endure it for a while, you may have a great chance of realizing your great revenge. Another thing is that you can only be eliminated with "head held high", because if people who are already in a disadvantaged position insist on being high-profile, they will inevitably make things worse . Then, you will miss your lofty goals throughout your life.
16. No one wants to be a pawn of others. Self-esteem always makes people expect the admiration and respect of others. People who complain always put their bad luck or responsibility on fate or other people, but never think of giving themselves the capital to change their bad luck.
17. If you feel unhappy at your current job and feel that your superiors or bosses ignore your hard work, the problem may be that you are not smart enough . Just because you work hard doesn't mean you are creating benefits for the company. If you are just a "coolie" in the workplace, your chances of getting a raise and promotion are too slim. A smart person must not only work hard, but also show his ability clearly, so that he can move freely in the workplace.
18. The most essential aspect of human nature is to be loyal to oneself. "I" is the religion in everyone's heart. A simple "we" adds a rare sense of intimacy. If young people want to have good social relationships, they must first manage the interpersonal relationships around them. At this time, they must notice that "we" are stronger than "I". When "we" replaces "I", the power it radiates will It is infinite and immeasurable .
19. People may be close or distant, but human nature is the same. The principle of human nature is mutuality.
20. There is an old saying: "Don't worry about scarcity but worry about inequality." Seeking fairness is the most basic human nature. What you have, I should also have . Everyone demands fairness, and will complain when injustice is not done, or even rebel against injustice.
21. Everyone has interests and needs, and it is inevitable that there will be utilitarian times when doing things. This is undeniable, but this does not mean that people will always be full of utilitarianism without a sense of nobility. Human nature is neither pure light nor pure darkness. It has both a noble and inferior side. When a person shows a sense of nobility, he should not be tempted to move towards utilitarianism. When a person's sense of justice, mission, responsibility and other lofty feelings radiate brilliance and charm without thinking about obtaining benefits, do not use the sound of money to disturb the peace and tranquility of the soul.
22. People always have this mentality: tries to instill their thoughts into the other party, and then tries to control the other party. When the other party also tries to do the same, we will accuse us of being selfish. This is the weakness of human nature.
The headline number of "Selected Official Documents" is compiled from "What Others Don't Say, You Must Understand Human Relations and the World"
