1. Happiness is so out of stock, please don't squander it. Don't wait to hurt the most important person to realize that you regret it. Don't do irrational behaviors willfully, and personally destroy happiness beyond recognition. Some decisions only take one minute, but it will take a lifetime to regret that minute. Remember, happiness doesn't happen every day. If you miss it, you will have to wait a long time.
2. Life is not for compromise. The more you shrink, the more limited space you have to breathe. Days are not for dying. The humbler you behave, the further away some happy things will be. . In some things, you don't need to put yourself too low, and you must actively strive for what belongs to you; in front of some people, you don't have to tolerate it again and again, and you can't let others trample on your bottom line. Only if you straighten your back, the world will give you more feedback.
3. Your life is very limited, so don’t waste it on repeating the lives of others; don’t be bound by dogma, don’t be covered up by the noise of others; you have to have the courage to follow the instructions of your heart and intuition. Know in your heart what you want to be. Other things are secondary.
4. It is a kind of accomplishment to smile slightly when being misunderstood; to smile calmly when you are wronged is a kind of generosity; to smile happily when you suffer is a kind of open-mindedness; helpless It’s a realm to be able to smile when you’re in love; to smile calmly when you’re in danger is an atmosphere; to smile calmly when you’re contemptuous is a kind of self-confidence; to smile gently when you’re in love. This is a kind of free and easy.
5. Sometimes, you will inevitably be over-concerned. If you look at you, you will be allergic to many small things, so if others look at you more, you will feel that he is hostile to you; if you look at you less, you will assume that he deliberately ignored you. Careful people are destined to live a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions. Careful people are always thinking wildly, and the result is stuck in a mess of thoughts, unable to move. sometimes it is better to not overthink.
6. You cannot change the environment, but you can change yourself; you cannot change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you cannot change the past, but you can change the present; you cannot control others, but you can master yourself; you cannot predict Tomorrow, but you can grasp today; you cannot go smoothly, but you can do everything with your heart; you cannot extend the length of life, but you can determine the width of life.
7. Accept what has happened with a normal heart. Tolerate those who are sorry for you with a broad heart. Adhere to the correct concept with an unchanging heart. With joy, help those in need. Face the hard to give up with the heart of letting go. With a good heart, appreciate the things around you. Treat everyone with a sincere heart. Share the happiness of others with a happy heart. Pass on the successful experience with a selfless heart. Be grateful for everything you have.
8. Fools seek happiness from afar, while wise men cultivate happiness by their side. Every detail in life contains happiness, it just depends on whether you feel it. A happy person, in everything and in everyone, he can find the factors that can make him happy, and let happiness expand, inspire and influence the people around him.
9. We have a natural inertia, always thinking of being able to eat the least hardship, take the shortest detours, and obtain the greatest benefits. There are some things that others can do for you, but they can't feel it for you. Without this mental journey, even if you succeed, the spiritual field will still be barren. The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not the end of struggle, but the process of hard work. Therefore, you have to go the way you should go, and others cannot replace it.
10. When you meet someone you really love: try to get the chance to be with him for a lifetime, because when he leaves, everything is too late; when you meet a friend you can trust: get along with him, because In a person’s life, it’s really not easy to meet a confidant; when you meet someone you’ve ever loved: remember to smile, because he is someone who makes you know how to love.
11. The reason why we get tired is that we often linger between persistence and giving up, and we are uncertain. The reason why we are troubled is that our memory is too good. What we should remember and what we should not remember will remain in our memory. The reason why we suffer is that we pursue too much. The reason why we are unhappy is that we care too much, not that we haveToo little, but we care too much.
12. Don't be too anxious, don't be too anxious. The flow of all things has its own sequence. Many times, as long as we wait for a while, it’s safe, let’s let it pass, forbearance and forbearance will be harmonious, just look at it, and taste it, and ask it to be clear. I realized it at the first thought. If you can't get through with things, those things will inevitably get up with you. Only a harmonious state of mind can lead to a harmonious state of affairs.
13. Life is not perfect. If you find a mistake, you will start again; if you have no chance to do it again, let it sink into the sea of time forever. Never use one error to cover up another error. Always soaking in a pool full of faults will only make yourself weaker and weaker. Only by letting go of who you were before can you enjoy today's happiness. If others don’t forgive you, you can forgive yourself.
14. A person has no flaws, which one is beautiful and beautiful, one day confused thinking that he is annihilated, looking down to see that he is still alive in this world, don't think too much, look a little bit, who is not It took a lot of hard work to get some... Don’t put yourself too far away, don’t let simple things be too difficult to understand, many things are not worth keeping in your heart, no one can point to you casually...
15. Life, no Forever pain, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal; life, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed, you cannot sit by the hurdle and wait for it to disappear, you can only find a way to go through it; life, there is no forever love, no The ending feelings will always end; those who cannot have it will always forget. Slowly, you won't cry again; slowly, everything is over. Appropriate giving up is an elegant turn of life.
16. People who are attentive are destined to live a hard life because they are too easily influenced by other people's emotions. Careful people are always thinking wildly, and the result is stuck in a mess of thoughts, unable to move. sometimes it is better to not overthink.
17. On the road of life, we are all running, we are always catching up with some people, and we are always being surpassed by some people. The essence of life is to appreciate the scenery along the way, and the other is to reach a distant end; the secret of life is to find a speed that suits you best, not to be overwhelmed by illness, not to waste your life because of slowness; the joy of life, go One's own way, looking at one's own scenery, surpassing others unwillingly, others surpassing without losing their will.
18. Enrich yourself with the wisdom of others, not belittle yourself with the wisdom of others; motivate yourself with the success of others, not torture yourself with the success of others; remind yourself with the mistakes of others, and don't entertain yourself with the mistakes of others.
19. When a person desperately wants to break up with you, you can agree to it. He is so urgent, it is not an insult to you. Some people are always not sober enough, seeing that the other person is so eager, but they still want to stay... He forces you to move, you have to find a truck immediately, and move your own things overnight, so fast that he can't imagine , An urgent person can’t be kept, he doesn’t love you at all, so he will trample on your dignity like this.
20. From now on, be smart and don't ask others if they want you, do you love you? If you want to miss you or love you, you will naturally say to you, but when you say it from your mouth, others will be very proud and don't care about you. Don't care too much about some people or some things anymore, just let it go and face it with the best mentality, because this is how this world is: we often have the least value in front of the things we care about most.
21. Once frustrated, one level of understanding of life will be deepened; one mistake, one level of awakening to life; one misfortune, one level of mature understanding of the world; one tribulation, one level of connotation of success. In this sense, if you want to achieve success and happiness, if you want to live happily and joyfully, you must first understand failure, misfortune, setbacks and pain.
22. The best state of life is not humble or humble. Caring too much about other people's perspectives and evaluations will only make oneself unable to let go of things, hesitate, lose self, lose personality, and lose self value. Stick to what you choose and believe that what you insist is the right path that belongs to you. It doesn’t matter what others think of you. What’s important is that you be yourself and do what you think is right.
23. If you don't blindly compare with others, you will be at ease. Don't set life goals too high, I will always be happy. If you don't deliberately pursue perfection, you will be away from pain. If you don't demand yourself from time to time, you will live at ease. Not always picking up faults, I will be relaxed.
24. [Ten Key Points of a Happy Life] 1. Be a little less tempered. 2. Be in a better mood. 3. The mouth is sweeter. 4. Live your head. 5. Act faster. 6. Higher efficiency. 7. Be bolder. 8. Less reason. 9. Exercise more. 10. Better health.
25. Believe that there are good people in the world, but you must guard against bad people; believe that you are strong, but don't refuse tears; believe that money can bring happiness, but don't spend your life; believe in sincerity, but don't accuse hypocrisy; believe in success, but don't Avoid failure; believe in fate, but don't wait blindly; believe in love, but don't demand full blame.
26. There will always be people who say hello and others who say you are not good, but as long as we behave with a clear conscience, we don’t have to cling to others’ judgments. You don't need to look at other people's eyes, you don't have to blindly please others, that will make your life more tired. When someone is disrespectful to you, please don't care, let alone worry about it. Because these words can't change the facts, but they may disturb your heart. If the heart is messed up, everything will be messed up.
27. The rapids retreat bravely, and a timely and beautiful retreat is as important as a beautiful offense. Helping someone for a long time makes even Goddess of Luck tired. Be cautious when everything ends. It is more difficult to withdraw smoothly than to enter smoothly. The most important thing is not to win the applause of others when you arrive, but to miss you when you leave.
28. When you smile to yourself, there are no troubles in the world that can entangle you; when you are sincere to yourself, no one in the world can deceive you. Living in the applause of others is the easiest to lose yourself; in the care of others, it is the easiest to weaken oneself. People who dare to face adversity have a strong life; those who dare to challenge adversity have a strong life. Thank the person who gave you advice, he made you mature; thank the person who made you difficult, he made you strong.
29. When you feel confused, please look up at the sun in the sky, and see how it goes down the mountain; when you feel wronged, please quietly remember the atrium and look at it What kind of happiness, anger, sorrow and joy are pretending; when you feel hesitant, please read the success story carefully. Everyone's road is not smooth sailing, you should have the bitterness that others have had. If you want to succeed, you must not be afraid of the hardships ahead and let go to blog!
30, I always feel that you can get happiness by compromising, being limited, and tolerating some, but when you lower your bottom line, you get lower results. Don't always complain that the people you meet are unreliable. If others always treat you this way, then you must have taught others how to treat you this way. Love is equal, you can give more, you can also love him more, but it is never compromise, will, and tolerance.
