Wen|Zhu Shenyong
Actually, everyone knows that extramarital affairs are originally hot and cold. His coldness is based on the coldness of marriage, and he feels cold in the marriage. Biting, he felt that his wife was not good, so he went outside the marriage to find a third party, and find a woman outside to warm him up.
He must have a supportive mentality for women outside. Once they have a supportive mentality, their feelings must be cold. In other words, I think my wife is okay, anyway, my wife comes to cover it, this Marriage needs someone to manage, so I don’t have to marry a lover.
Of course he wouldn’t tell his lover, "My wife is pretty good except..., other places are pretty good. My marriage is alright. I’m looking for you for passion, just for fun." He didn’t dare to say that. The lover must say "I just admire you, I just love you, I just like you, my marriage is terrible." So, facing this situation, he swings between two choices, and the lover can’t see his Actions will often make trouble, and he will chase them, and the two people feel very passionate.
This behavior is fully reflected in the animal world. We often see lions chasing prey. This is the same reason.
The relationship between a man and a third party can be viewed according to the life cycle of extramarital affairs. In the state of the life cycle of the tail, their relationship develops at a high speed. They feel that "we are true love, love is so dark, everything Regardless, whether he is married or not, I love him, and I look for this person."
They are both passionate, get along for a while, they have conflicts again, or the wife finds it, or the third party’s husband finds it, or they get married outside Foreign feelings,Then I heard the person next to him discussing "Oh, how cute and beautiful our child is", and then the third party or this man also has the idea of having a child. After conflicts arise, the lover wants an explanation.
She said, "I have been with you for three months, six months, even one year, three years, what do you think I am pregnant with a baby in my stomach?" At this time, the relationship between men is cold So, what should he do if he wants to live a married life from the heavenly love to the world? A man usually doesn't want to leave, but he doesn't want to break up with his lover, so he says "I want to divorce too, but my wife won't let her, she is looking for life and death" and the lover's heart also catches a cold.
But she changed her mind. If she can't get love, then she can make money. You can buy a house and a car for me. You can afford it, but what if you can't? Didn’t you say you were good to me? It took me so long and didn't marry me, and now I don't even give me money.
The two people discovered that the relationship between you and me was very hot, and now that you fall from the clouds to the ground, the love is shattered and the feelings are cold. Under such a situation, everyone started to face it again, and then they said that it would be divided. After a period of time, both of them couldn’t help but "Baby, I can’t do it, I can’t live without you" It's also "Oh my husband, I can't live without you. Let's get together. I don't want to marry, as long as you treat me well." So the two of them got together again.
This means that they are back to the previous state. They can't see things in reality, they will only hide in the gentle village. This is how they love vigorously at first, then it will be true and false, and then it will be cold outside and hot inside, and in the end it will all be cold.
So everyone should know that when an extramarital affair comes later, someone will definitely want to talk about me, and I don’t want to. At this time, it’s because she found that she couldn’t control this man. She found that this man would not divorce.She finds that she has invested too much and the cost is too high. What should she do? She can only retreat. As long as you are with me, I will let your wife quit automatically one day, so her heart is also cold, too. No longer as violently as before, saying "I'm going to be with you".
Then this man will also think "Oh, you, this woman is like my wife, I don't want it, there is nothing good."
In fact, almost all men who have extramarital affairs do this, why? Because a married man and any woman establish a relationship between men and women, you have to be responsible, you have to work, and your promises have to become reality.
Human emotions will fluctuate. It is impossible for others to please you forever, and it is impossible for others to give up forever to fulfill you, so even this man will feel desperate. "Wow, why is there no good woman in the world? "In fact, we often say that because these men who engage in extramarital affairs are inherently fragile, no matter how many women they change, his heart is cold.
Author: Zhu Shenyong, Fudan MBA, founder of Marriage Management School, author of the best-selling book "Extramarital Affairs" , Please send me a private message and I will reply to everyone.
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