Being a person is too face-conscious, which is the characteristic of many people. They live not for their true self, but for face. There is a certain connection between face and self-esteem. Of course, you can't avoid it, but you can't do it for nothing. Fighting face correctly is a manifestation of self-improvement, self-reliance, self-respect, and self-love. Fighting face incorrectly and being too good for face will forget who you are, and it is easy to fall into a situation where you want to face and suffer. In real life, most people lose face because they are too face-conscious, face-saving and suffering! Keep the following 8 rules in mind, put them down and behave easily, and life will become more and more smooth.
1. If you can’t put yourself down, you will not know your true self.
In real life, many people live a "face", think Losing face means losing everything, willingly letting "face" control oneself and becoming a face slave. In fact, there are many things worthy of attention in being a human being. Face shouldn’t be in the first place. For many things, we can put down the bottom. We should live for ourselves, know ourselves, improve ourselves, and prove our value, not Compare with others.
Second, face cannot hide your weakness, admit your weaknesses to strengthen yourself
Be a person who loves face too much, always pay attention to maintaining one's own "brilliant image" and not let others see yourself They can't let others see their weaknesses. They have to do everything possible to cover up their weaknesses and weaknesses, and use their glamorous appearance to prove their strength. However, what about the lack of recognition? The sky will not fall, nor will it fall. People will only see you who are more confident and honest. It is often honest and objective people who let others trust, rather than cover up and pretend to be powerful.
Third, false face depends on vanity to whitewash, true face wins with strength
Being a man, a truly successful person, never depends on face, is not strong Strength is the face of support, and everything is a castle in the air. Life is a competition that can be turned around at any time. Only those who work hard and constantly improve their strength can win every race until the end. The so-called face is just superficial effort. Let it go and life will be smoother. .
Four. Rejection is a technical job. I'm sorry to do harm.
Being a face-conscious person, one of the biggest characteristics is that he doesn’t know how to refuse. It is important to know that rejection is a right of everyone. It is not only a patent of others. When the overweight, self-conscious, ignorant of current affairs, and emergency medical practitioners beg you, they must bite the bullet and agree to it. , Or by no means a good way. Learning to refuse is a life skill that must be mastered.
Five. Do everything you want, and you can’t enter the circle if you don’t put it down.
To live in the world, you must be proficient in the way of life. "Fang" allows us to set our mindset, and "round" allows us to communicate better with others. The premise of the Fangyuan Road is to put down the bottom. Only by laying down the bottom line can we keep the bottom line of "square" and the upper line of "round" in interpersonal communication.
Six. Opportunities are fleeting, Moyin loses face
Many opportunities in life are fleeting. Many times, you need to put your hands down to fight for and win the last Victory, this is the most face-saving behavior. So, when you are faced with an opportunity that can only be obtained by losing face, will you put your hand down and seize the opportunity? Don't underestimate this question. In real life, more than half of people cannot do this!
Seven, the workplace is overly striving for face, and will set a barrier for the future
In the workplace, face is also a big stumbling block, those in the workplace competition People who are defeated are often not because of lack of ability, but because they are tooBe aware of your own face and don't want to let go of the opportunity to fight for face. In the end, they may win the face, but lose the real benefits of the workplace.
8. The business field does not fight for face, profit is the last word
The business field is a world where no swords and guns can be seen, but it is always full of crises. Fighting among them, if you are bound by face, you can't use your best state to use your abilities, because you will worry too much. Only those who are not bound by face can fight bravely for profit and achieve brilliant achievements.
