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Almost everyone wants to get close to their favorite people and things, such as fans want to be close to their idols, ordinary people for peace People you like can pay a lot of money together.
Although distance produces beauty, such a theory can only target very alienated relationships. No one can resist their instinct to approach that person who really attracts them.
In many cases, keeping a rational distance is just because the heart is not moved enough, true love can fascinate people's heads. If you can remain calm in your relationship, it means that such a liking is not enough to let you abandon your sanity, and that person is not enough to make you give all your sincerity.
The body's response is the most honest, the most uncontrollable, and the least disguised.
Psychologically speaking, when a person instinctively wants to keep a distance from you physically, it is actually that she maintains a state of defense against you. The desire to catch and play through the distance, the fluctuating heat and cold are the most iconic signs of this situation.
In the relationship between two people, if a woman can still maintain such intelligence, she can also use some caution to show that she has not fallen into this love enough, and has not given all her sincerity.
When meeting a woman, if you feel that she is deliberately keeping three distances from you, it means that she is playing with you.
1: When eating,Keep your tableware a certain distance from you
In Gu Man's novel "How Silence", Zhao Mosheng treats his husband Yinghui in the United States, There is such an instinctive physical resistance, even if they live together, it has been a while.
When Zhao Mosheng was cooking instant noodles at home, Ying Hui saw this scene and said that he wanted to have a bite, and reached for Zhao Mosheng's chopsticks.
However, Mo Sheng subconsciously moved his bowl and chopsticks a long distance in his direction, and signaled Ying Hui not to touch her bowl and chopsticks.
This is how a woman will behave in the face of someone she doesn't love. In the face of people they don't love, they will instinctively reject more intimate contact with you, especially things like sharing tableware.
In fact, everyone instinctively loves cleanliness and does not like to mix in other people's saliva when eating.
This is why, most people will feel uncomfortable with the cups they have eaten or drunk with unfamiliar people or strangers. But for people close to us, we don't feel this way, because intimacy overcomes the instinct of the body.
2: When you approach her, subconsciously move away from you
Psychologically speaking, everyone has a safe distance they feel comfortable. When a stranger or less intimate person exceeds this safe distance,We will have a sense of extreme insecurity and territorial violation.
This is why when you are queuing, someone close to you will make you feel uncomfortable;
This is why many people hate crowded buses and subways, and strangers. The "zero distance" between them can make people feel extremely depressing.
But it’s different in front of the person you like. When you like someone, whether you are really familiar or not, you instinctively want to break through the barrier of distance, and get closer under the attraction of the opposite sex. A little more on the other side.
When you take the initiative to approach a person, that person acts away from you, actually because she thinks her domain has been violated and feels discomfort.
If you feel uncomfortable even getting a little closer, how can such a woman really like you? After all, you are just someone who makes her uncomfortable and unfamiliar, or even someone who doesn't want to be close.
3: Keep your sight distance and avoid looking at you
We all know that looking at the speaker’s eyes means that we are listening carefully to others, and it is a kind of respect for others. Performance.
This is especially true for people we like. We don’t get a little distracted when we talk to people we like.
And looking at each other's eyes is more conducive to closer the distance between each other's hearts, so that the other party has a feeling of trust in you, and the other party is willing to share more things with you.
But with the person I like,It's not the same. Facing someone I don't like, every second of dialogue will only embarrass me, and I will think about other things from time to time.
Because I don’t want to listen to the other party’s expressions at all, I will subconsciously stretch the distance from the other party’s line of sight, so that the other party can’t see my eyes, and I can’t know if I’m listening carefully, or what I’m doing now. Thoughts.
When a woman meets and chats with you, but is always avoiding the sight and absent-minded, it is likely that she is not interested in what you say, and even less interested in you.
Everyone knows the knee-jerk response , which means that when the knee is hit, the calf will rise up uncontrollably. This physiological response cannot be disguised or controlled.
In fact, women who are not good at playing with people will also express their likes and dislikes through uncontrolled body language.
When meeting a person, her subconscious body reaction is actually the same as the knee-jump reaction. This kind of body language can most honestly reflect a person’s heart. If you grasp this, you can find out what they are. Have you sincerely paid.
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