Three years after my divorce, I realized that that hateful mistress was my benefactor and she saved me

Wen丨Xin Yiyi

Hello everyone, I am Xiao Xin. Xiao San is the natural enemy of all the original partners, and a woman everyone hates, but today Ms. Yang said that she did not hate the Xiao San who caused her divorce, but thanked her instead.

Ms. Yang's story

01

Fang Wei and I are childhood sweethearts. He is two years older than me. When I was young, I played with his butt. He was naughty and took me to touch Fish, to pick wild fruits, my childhood memories are all from him.

After going to school, he "covered" me. I asked him about homework that I didn't understand. A male classmate bullied me and I also looked for him. We have a deep relationship and he treats me like a younger sister.

He failed the college entrance examination and went to college. After a year of college, he couldn't go on, so he went out to work.

And I was admitted to a second degree. After graduating from university, I worked in a small company as a finance company. Although the salary was not high, the job was easy and suitable for my unhurried and slow personality.

I lost contact with Fang Wei for a few years in university, but I only knew that he was working in another place.

Unexpectedly, that sunny afternoon, we met again.

02

That was the second year of my work. He came to my house that afternoon to find me. We haven't seen me for many years and we didn't feel unfamiliar, so we chatted with him for an afternoon.

Fang Wei is indeed a person who has gone out and crossed the world. He is very open-minded, saying that the economic situation and the future development direction are right and wrong, and he does not leave the e-commerce. My admiration for him grew spontaneously,I admire his knowledge and ability, and feel that he is a frog at the bottom of the well, his vision is too short.

talked for an afternoon and said he had a good project and wanted me to start a business with him.

I asked him what the project was. He said that he wanted to be an e-commerce company and open a store to sell clothes. He was responsible for purchasing and taking photos and putting them on shelves, and I was responsible for customer service.

I don't want to, because I work very well, and I have a monthly salary of 3,000 yuan. That was 2011, and 3,000 is very good.

But Fang Wei said that if we manage the store well, there will be 51 million to 20,000 yuan every month, a lot of money. Besides, I have at least one expectation for starting a business, and I will never see it when I work.

03

Fang Wei came again the next day, specially brought his notebook, and opened his friend's shop to show me.

He said that his friend did it only a few months ago, and the sales are already very good. He makes eight or nine thousand yuan a month, and he does it alone.

I took a look at the volume and it was really good, and I was very excited. He was right. If you start a business, if you work hard, you are very likely to get unexpected gains, but if you work, you will receive a lot of wages for the rest of your life.

Life is too short, I decided to fight it once, and I can find it again after work. There are not many opportunities to start a business.

So I took 20,000, Fang Wei took 20,000, and we opened the shop. He did most of the work in the early stage, I just went to choose the style of clothes and so on.

The first batch of clothes was picked by Fang Wei. He took pictures and put them on the shelves. Each piece of clothing was priced at 200% of the purchase price.

04

One week after opening the shop,We sold our first clothes and made 80 yuan. We both were very happy and finally saw the light.

After the second and third orders, we gradually felt the joy of victory.

We made a net profit of 110,000 after being an e-commerce company for one year, each of which was divided into 55,000. On the evening of celebration, Fang Wei confessed to me that he said I was the person he had always crushed on, and now we too If we have our own business, the future can be expected if we are together.

I thought for a while, anyway, I want to fall in love. What kind of boyfriend we are not looking for, the other side knows at least the two of us.

So Fang Wei and I decided on a romantic relationship, and I also determined to work hard together to make the store better.

05

In the second year, we made 200,000 yuan, and we bought a house with a down payment of 150,000 yuan, leaving 50,000 yuan for renovation. After the house was set up, we got married.

We invited a lot of friends to the wedding. Everyone said that Fang Wei and I are both talented and beautiful, and we have a good career and love.

At this time, I think choosing Fang Wei is the most correct thing in my life.

I gave birth to a daughter a year after marriage. The advantage of being an e-commerce company is to work at home. Although bringing a child has an impact, it is not significant.

In 2014, we bought a car and mortgaged it. At this time, the pressure is the greatest. The house and car are still more than 5,000 a month, as well as the children’s various expenses and living expenses. At this time, e-commerce does not Good job, sales plummeted.

Fang Wei is in a bad mood and goes out to drink every day and starts to smoke. Every time I talk about him, he tells me to leave him alone, just take good care of the child.

06

Fang Wei is getting too much,I chatted with girls on WeChat in front of me. I was so angry that I didn’t want to make money or don’t help with the baby and don’t do the housework. I shouted that I was stressed every day. Am I not stressed?

So I grabbed his phone and threw it hard!

Fang Wei said I was crazy and went out cursingly.

Since then he started to return late, sometimes at two or three in the middle of the night, or even not.

I am very sad. If my daughter is not young, I will definitely get a divorce. For the sake of the child, I can only persuade myself to bear it again and bear it again.

After half a year of tossing, Fang Wei felt that our clothing styles were not trendy, so there was no sales. So he borrowed one hundred thousand yuan to buy a batch of fashionable clothes. As a result, there was still no sales and the inventory was squeezed. Life is more stressful.

After analysis, Fang Wei felt that e-commerce was not good enough and turned to an entity, so he borrowed another 300,000 yuan to invest in a small project with his classmates. We made some money from doing the project, but we didn't get a penny, and his classmates took the money and ran away.

07

When Fang Wei found his classmate, he had already spent the money. We went to sue and sentenced, but that person had nothing in his name and didn't get a penny back.

At this time, our lives are in a mess. We wake up every day thinking about making money, and we almost can't pay for our daughter to go to kindergarten.

Fang Wei drank even more, but it was useless for me to care about him.

I really want to get a divorce, but my parents-in-law persuaded me, they said that the child is so young, and he will live. When men have ups and downs, he will get up after two years.

I believe it,Gritting his teeth and enduring it.

But one day in 2018, the appearance of a woman forced me to divorce.

08

She is Qiuhong and Fang Wei is outside.

If it weren't for her to find the door, I would still be kept in the dark.

I just picked up my daughter from school that day, and she followed me to my house, without saying anything, and handed me a piece of paper.

I took a look and it was a B-ultrasound sheet, 7 weeks pregnant.

"It's Fang Wei's child," she said.

I've seen a lot of this scene in TV series, but I didn't expect it would happen to me one day.

"Then you are looking for him, why are you looking for me?" I asked her.

"I have been with him for three years. He hasn't loved you for a long time, just for the child to make do with you. Now I have a child, who do you think he would choose?" she said arrogantly.

"You still have the face to say such things when you ruin someone's family. You are not ashamed!" I was very angry. She was so young, only 22 years old, but she was more sophisticated than me.

09

"Fang Wei is a good man, but you don't cherish him and often scold him. He bought a house and a car by his own ability, but you are still not satisfied. You are not worthy of being his wife. !"she says.

I think Fang Wei is so powerful that she can make this woman trust him and love him so desperately. I took a B-ultrasound single with my mobile phone and said, "Sister, you go back, I know what to do."

"Just know,I don't make it difficult for you, I just want to be with Fang Wei. "She finished speaking and left.

Turned on the TV to show to my daughter, I locked myself in the room and cried aloud. All my childhood sweethearts, talents and appearances are all deceptive, and men want to cheat. Why not need any reason.

Look at yourself in the mirror again, but at the age of 31, he looks so old, but it is not worth worrying about my family and Fang Wei.

I don’t understand why women embarrass women, why she came to destroy my marriage, she is really hateful. Fang Wei is also hateful, he is a bastard!

I have to do a pain It’s decided.

10

After Fang Wei came back, I talked to him about the divorce. I thought he would at least admit his mistake, beg for mercy, cry and let me give him another chance.

But I think too much, he just said two words faintly: "Let's leave. "

Because he was at fault, I asked for the house to me, the car to him, and he repaid the money he borrowed. He paid me back the mortgage for two years.

He agreed without thinking about it. , He said he didn’t want to bear with me anymore, didn’t he just borrowed hundreds of thousands, he was scolded by me as not decent, and Qiu Hong was gentle and considerate to him, only Qiu Hong was in his heart.

I am very angry

Fangwei moved away after the divorce, leaving me and my daughter.

11

I have to find a job.

I told my daughter that we should be stronger in the future.My father left with someone else, and I need her help, but my daughter is very obedient.

I am looking for a financial job, about 4800 a month, I am very satisfied, and work hard and meticulously.

I found a neighbor in the same kindergarten in the community and asked her to help me pick up and drop off my children every day. I gave her some hard work.

When I first started my life alone, I was very uncomfortable, because I had no reliance, no expectations, and hatred in my heart.

But I gradually relieved, at least I have my own money every month. In the evening, I started to work part-time, writing articles and submitting articles, and earning one or two thousand a month can subsidize my family. After all, I will have to pay off my mortgage in two years.

In 2019, I saw pictures of Fang Wei and Qiuhong posing in the circle of friends, tall hotels, beautiful dresses, mainly because the fat babies of those months old are very cute.

I have been heartbroken for a few more days, and I have hatred for them.

12

After two years of divorce, my daughter and I had a better life. My friend introduced me to a partner.

He is Zhang Hua, 13 years older than me, a civil servant, and unmarried.

The first time we met, I went with my daughter. Zhang Hua is less than 1.7 meters tall, and his hairline has reached the top of his head. Fortunately, he doesn't have a beer belly.

I don't understand why a man who works so well is not married at this age, and his children of the same age have all gone to college.

Zhang Hua said that he has a sick mother, and he wants to take care of her mother. He was rejected after several blind dates. His mother had passed away two years ago, and he mustered up the courage to befriend him.Unknowingly, the age is a lot.

I think it's good, and a filial man shouldn't be too bad.

I asked him if he would dislike me for taking a daughter?

I still remember what he said, he said: "My parents are gone, I really want a home. I especially like girls, if we become the two, this girl will be the child that God made up for me , I have been behind others for many years in taking care of my mother. This child is here to teach me to be a father. I must love her as myself." The shiny forehead without hair has a lot of charm.

13

We talked with Zhang Hua for half a year, and we got married. He used his savings as a down payment to buy a large house with four bedrooms, two living rooms and two bathrooms. He wrote our names, and we both paid the mortgage together.

Actually, we are not stressed. His parents left him a house. He rents out 3000 for a month. My house rents out for 2500 for a month. The mortgage for the new house is only 4000 a month.

He also has a long working experience, with a monthly salary of 8000. He assured me that the remaining part of the rent of both of us will be used to repay my mortgage.

I feel relieved to meet such a man, although he is a little older.

I asked my daughter if she likes Dad Zhang?

The daughter said she liked it, and Dad Zhang loved her very much.

14

In June of this year, I found out that I was pregnant. Zhang Hua and her daughter were very happy, they both served me like a queen.

Some time ago, I received several debt collection calls. They said that Fang Wei owed hundreds of thousands of debts and still did not answer the phone, asking if I could contact him.

I said lightly that I don't know him.

A few days ago, our family of three ran into our ex-mother-in-law on the street. She greeted us and I had a few words with her.

The former mother-in-law said that Fang Wei is now hiding in the mountains with his wife and children. She borrowed too much money and couldn't pay it back. She didn't know where they went.

Seeing her cute and cute daughter, the former mother-in-law touched her again and gave her two apples.

I asked my daughter to accept the apple, it was her grandmother after all.

After saying goodbye to my ex-mother-in-law, I looked at the apple in my daughter's hand and asked Zhang Hua if she would mind.

He said no, it was his daughter's grandmother after all.

When I go to bed at night, I suddenly feel that I feel at ease in my heart. I shouldn’t hate Qiuhong. Although she is a junior, she came to save me. If it weren’t for her, it would be me and my daughter who are hiding in the mountains. , Fortunately.

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