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The topic of ante-marital room is a Xiaoqiang who can't die.
Once upon a time, people of the older generation always thought that girls would eventually marry and buy some house.
The marriage law has changed. The rich girl rushes to buy the pre-marriage house when she is not married. Even if she borrows money, she must have her own house even if she gets married later.
A girl who has no money asks a man for a betrothal gift, a house, and a chaos, but also protects herself from the threat of crisis in the marriage.
In-laws and parents with limited conditions will share the down payment and loan equally. This is kind and fair.
In the most unfair marriage, some men buy a house before marriage with a loan, but they also refuse to let the woman buy a house before marriage.
After that, the man changed the method to let the woman's money to decorate, buy electricity, repay the loan, and live a life.
As a result, there is no woman's name on the room book. There is such a silly girl.
This kind of man is really selfish and shameless.
They shamelessly said that even if he buys a pre-marriage house, after marriage, the part of the loan repayment and appreciation will be half of the wife's.
This is correct. There is indeed a girl’s share in the loan repayment part. You are not the same as asking others to repay the loan, it is not their own money.
But the decoration, home appliances, and living expenses provided by the girls are all silent costs. Once divorced, they will lose everything.
For this share, the woman must follow the loan repayments, handle the housework without complaint, and be filial to her in-laws.
I have to pay for decoration, home appliances, give birth to a child with the man's surname, and spend my youth with a child.
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have conflicts, the mother-in-law can say loudly that this is his house.
Then, the girl walked out of the house, if there is no maiden to go back, there is really nowhere to go.
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The girl wants to get a divorce, she wants to get her share back, she pulls and talks, clamoring, and maybe it's going to kill her.
In such a marriage, a woman rents a house in disguise, not only has nothing, but also suffers all the grievances. Why?
Even if he gives you that share, you can look back at the house price, the money you invested at the beginning and the share you got, can you rely on it for the rest of your life.
The value you get, can you balance the cost of washing and cooking for children born in marriage?
There is a shameless man who knows that once a divorce, you will almost have nothing.
After your divorce, your natal family is unreliable, or there is no natal family to return, you can't afford a house, you are homeless, so he dares to do whatever he wants in marriage.
He cheated on domestic violence and did nothing. He treated you as a free nanny, and the whole family dared to bully you.
The house does not have the girl's name, but the girl has to follow along with the loan.
That point of share is an invisible shackle that will hold you back in the rest of your life, make you hard to speak, and make you suffer all your grievances.
The man still feels that you are not satisfied,Don't know how to be grateful.
When I met a man who bought a house before marriage, the girl hurriedly bought a house before marriage.
He opposes you to buy a pre-marriage house. For such a man, you should quickly get rid of him, how far away you are.
Everyone knows that the house is safer than men, and the pre-marital house is their own way of retreat.
When your mother-in-law is coming to live with your son, you can run back to your own house without contact with your mother-in-law. What can there be conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law?
In marriage, you have the confidence to come and go freely, you have a high posture, and do not care about other people's houses. What qualifications do they have to give pointers in your life?
Times are changing. After all, we have to follow the world and talk about marriage.
Don’t open your mouth and be sure to add your own name to the full room of someone else’s house.
This kind of house, it is useless to add a name.
Unless you are unmarried and single to old age.
Otherwise, the marriage is still marriage, and the betrothal gift is still the betrothal gift.
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Don’t open the betrothal ceremony. There is no free lunch in the world. It’s appropriate and immediate.
You must buy a pre-marital room before getting married.
The pre-marital room is a retreat for you. The location does not have to be good, and the decoration does not have to be luxurious.
This year, you can buy a house for 30,000 or 40,000.
Girls without money can also buy a real sense of security.
It will definitely collect your ups and downs, joys and sorrows.
You are upset, you are sad, you quarrel with your significant other, you and your mother-in-law are very unhappy, even when they are upset, there is always a place where you can heal your grief.
I am not happy, you are walking on the street where the night is falling and the traffic is moving, you will not be lost, there is always a safe direction.
With a house and without a house, the confidence and feelings of marriage are different.
That is a proper sense of security.
Try to buy your own security. If you are in a marriage, you can leave if you want, come if you want, what are you afraid of?
Don't say that a man divorces and marries again, he can marry again, can't you marry again? Is it different or just leave as you want, come as you want?
If you can live freely in marriage, come and go freely, marriage is not that scary.
The scary thing is that you have left the man's house, left the man's economy, and have no ability to survive.
Strive to become a woman who can walk independently in the world.
No matter when, inside or outside of marriage, you are unfettered and free to come and go.
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