The husband and wife have been away for a long time, how long does it take for a woman to change her heart? The three women told the truth

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Some people say that distance is the biggest obstacle to love. No matter how deep the relationship is, as long as two people are not together, they will soon face an emotional crisis.

When young, teenagers and girls will think that love can resist everything, but in fact emotions are very fragile.

For the sake of study, life, and work, many couples or couples can only choose to live in different places and live in different cities.

Although everyone knows that long-term separation can damage emotions, there are often many last resorts in life.

So, in these long-distance relationships, how long is a woman's endurance limit? The three girls said so.

21-year-old Qiqi, two months away, has broken up

Qiqi and her boyfriend met in high school, in the eyes of parents and teachers, they belong to early love, in the college entrance examination Qian was specifically called by his parents, and he was scolded by his parents for breaking up.

But Qiqi never separated from her boyfriend, even because of this kind of obstruction, the two people feel that each other is the one they love the most, and those adults, who don’t know what true love is, will separate themselves. Kiki and her parents have quarreled and quarreled, feeling that they don't understand love.

But your parents said, you are still young now, and when you grow up, you will know that you are just playing around now, because this kind of playing will delay your future, and you will regret it later.

But Kiki still does her own way. The two have agreed to go to the same university or go to the same city, and wait until they are out of the control of adults and live happily together.

I don’t even listen to the old man’s words, and I have a disadvantage in front of me. There is a certain reason for some words that can be passed down from ancient times to the present. Qiqi failed the college entrance examination and did not go to the same city.

came to a new city, went to university alone, knew no one, had no close friends,At the beginning, I will chat with my boyfriend and tell me about my life every day.

But soon, because I didn’t live together, I even lost a lot of common topics. When I was sad and sad, my boyfriend was not by my side, and there was always no hug in the verbal quotations. Soon, Qiqi fell in love. The boy who gave himself an umbrella on the way back to the dormitory on a rainy day.

It is natural to break up. Qiqi didn't want to lie to her boyfriend, so she told him clearly that the relationship between the two has come to an end.

35-year-old Ms. Lin, who has been away for three years, of course she has to persevere if she sees hope

Ms. Lin’s situation is like most of the women in rural China. Her husband goes out to work and she is alone. Take the children and take care of the elderly.

Ms. Lin’s husband is a very down-to-earth middle-aged man. He works outside and sends most of his money back every month, leaving a small part for his own life.

The two were in a small business before, but in recent years, the business has not been tepid, but the children go to school and the cost is high, the two discussed and decided to go out to work, leaving Ms. Lin alone to take care of the family.

So Ms. Lin sent her child to school in the morning, then went to work in a nearby restaurant, after work, and then picked up her child to study in the evening. Although the money is not much in a month, the two people can make a lot of money in a year. .

The two will only meet each other during the holidays. For Ms. Lin, I miss each other very much.

After work every day, I call and chat with my husband, and share things in life with each other, as well as long-term separation thoughts. It is strange to say that before there is no different place, the two people don’t talk so much. , But separated, and miss each other so much.

Ms. Lin knows that her husband is very hard. She often sends him some home-dried beef and things that are easy to preserve. Ms. Lin's husband has never complained to her.

is probably because both people understand in their hearts,I am running for the future, and everything I do is to make my life better, but I have hope in my life and hope to go, I am willing to wait for the other person, and I am willing to stick to my emotions.

47-year-old Ms. Li, who has been away for six years, has no feelings, but can’t it?

Ms. Li has been separated from her husband for a long time. Because of the long time, she often misses herself. Does a marriage really exist? What is the meaning of this marriage?

Ms. Li often feels like a single mother, because her child has learned art, she needs to go to the provincial capital to study, take care of the child alone, send the child to school, cook, and send him to cram school on weekends. When the child is away, he is the only one left.

Buying vegetables, cooking, and going to the hospital alone, and the husband does not seem to have anything to do with the family except to pay for it every month, and because he often takes care of the child, and even one quarrel, the child will say that he I like Dad the most, so Dad will not yell at him. Dad will give him money every time, which makes Ms. Li very weak.

Sometimes, she will post something hurting the spring and autumn in her circle of friends. If she tells her grievances, it seems that no one cares about her and sees her helplessness.

Ms. Li has thought about divorce, but the child is still learning at a critical moment. She has seen many things that caused psychological problems for the child due to the divorce of the parents.

Therefore, the two people have been living apart in different places, quarreling for a long time, and cold war. When the husband came, the two people looked like divorced in front of the children, and when the husband left, the two people stayed out for a long time.

Ms. Li thought to herself, at this age, what are you divorcing? Make do with it.

The situation of couples in different places is very common nowadays,Although sometimes fast transportation can make up for the gap caused by this distance, communication is always the most important.

If life is forced to separate, there must also be a very good way of communication. When the two sides find a problem, they must not be cold and violent. After all, it is the emotion of two people. Two people can face it together to be better. Go on.