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The circle of friends is a mirror of a demon, you can see a person's cultivation, character and pattern.
From a psychological point of view, a person's thoughts determine his behavior, what you think, you will do it, and the circle of friends you send out is a true reflection of your heart.
Some people love life from the bottom of their hearts. They are good at discovering and sharing beauty from the bits of life. People who see her will also think that she is a warm and kind person.
And some people are just the opposite. They are always full of hostility and negative energy. Not only can they not feel the beauty of life, but they always lead their lives in a mess.
In this case, the circle of friends she sent out is naturally negative, negative, and unpleasant.
Sooner or later we will understand what kind of person we are in contact with, and what kind of person we will gradually become.
People who are exposed to positive energy will be full of power, while those who are exposed to negative energy will easily become pessimistic.
People are easily affected by the surrounding environment. Over time, it will not only affect the mood and state of the entire person, but may also affect the entire outlook on life, values and the world.
What kind of personality a person has is inseparable from the environment in which he grew up, the education he received, and the things he experienced. This is the importance of the surrounding environment.
was born in what family,We cannot choose, but we must choose carefully what kind of people we will be friends with and what kind of circle we will contact with as an adult.
If a woman often posts the following kinds of circle of friends, it probably means that she is a person who is not worthy of socializing. Rather than being affected by it, the state becomes worse and worse, it is better to leave as soon as possible.
1: Often show off in the circle of friends, it means that you live a very vain
, is there anyone in your circle of friends who likes to show off? They always like to package themselves as if they are well mixed up or married well, listening to the envy of others, they are extremely satisfied in their hearts.
In fact, such people are often vain in their bones. They need to fill the emptiness in their hearts through external illusions. Although he knew he was deceiving himself, he still didn't want to admit that he had lost.
But they are so strong, they are vulnerable, life has always been like people drinking water, cold and warm.
You are the only one who knows whether you are doing well or not, and you can't pretend it anyway. Instead of showing off in the circle of friends, it is better to root in reality and live a good life.
You should know that only people with low self-esteem would like to show off.
Those who are truly capable do not bother to show off, because they do not need to seek outside recognition to affirm their value.
Two: often swipe the screen in the circle of friends,Explain that you live very selfishly
Moments of friends is not a private place, but a small public place.
On such occasions, no matter what kind of circle of friends you post, you must consider the feelings of others. After all, after you send it out, others will see it.
If you don't care about the impact on them, it can only show that you are used to being self-centered and living extremely selfishly.
Someone in my circle of friends once posted a few pictures of caterpillars, which caused a lot of discomfort. Someone encountered a snake in the summer and sent them to the circle of friends at any time.
Such a picture can easily make people feel scared.
If you always disregard the feelings of others and post whatever you want, it will only block you, or even delete you, because they have seen your true person through your actions.
3: I often complain in the circle of friends, which means that life is very negative and negative
A woman who is truly well-educated must know how to control emotions Will break down regardless of occasion, and will always pay attention to whether it will affect others.
Even if you really encounter something, you will not vent your negative emotions into your circle of friends. Because they know that no one should bear these, and their own affairs should be borne by themselves.
Women can strengthen their connotation and self-cultivation,Come to enrich your own spirit.
Do more things that can improve your self-cultivation, such as paying more attention to your own life, loving the plants and trees in your life, and learning to perceive the happiness of life.
Such a woman, when facing the hardships in life, will also be very calm and will not show hysterics.
Learn to control your emotions. A woman with good cultivation will never become a slave to emotions.
We often see people who are described as unqualified in our lives. Most of them are unable to control their emotions. They also lose their temper in public, which not only embarrass others, but also makes themselves ugly.
Remember, don’t put complaints on your lips.
Yang Wanli There is such a poem: Do not complain that there is no place for a lone boat, this body is a lone boat by itself.
When blaming the lone boat for the feeling of wandering, have you ever thought that you are a lone boat? Women should avoid complaining. Good luck will not favor anyone who loves complaining, and complaining will push those who love us farther and farther.
In life, everyone has their own difficulties. No one is obliged to understand your difficulties. If someone happens to understand you, you are lucky. If no one understands it, it's the norm.
Looking at everything and every relationship with a normal heart, we can live a lot more calmly.
Moments are not private occasions,When you send out, you should think about others more. Don't cause others' impression of you to be damaged because of unintentional mistakes. This is really not worth the gain.
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