In the spring evening of 1992 on CCTV, Mao Amin sang a song "Forever Friends", which was popular all over the country. Many people have probably heard it, especially the older ones. Looking for friends, if you have more friends, it’s easy to walk. If you meet with sincerity, sincere is the spirit, let us be friends from now on. Friends are hard to buy if you are a daughter..." I believe that as long as the song is released, it can be hummed. Two sentences. Because of its beautiful composition, clear lyrics, and grandeur, it deeply touched a generation.
People have more or less friends throughout their lives. From the beginning of school to work in society, they have to deal with many people. With the deepening of the relationship, the one who can talk about gradually becomes you Friends of, who can't talk about it, most of them ended up being strangers. Therefore, "like-minded" is the basis for being friends, and "treating with sincerity" is a necessary condition for being friends.
If a person wants to make a difference in society, in addition to his own efforts, the "God's assistance" in the circle of friends cannot be ignored. The more friends a person has, the more they have status in society People, his life is likely to be mixed up. For example, Daili , who was still in the Shanghai casino at the time, would not know Chiang Kai-shek if it hadn't made friends with Du Yuesheng , and would not have done anything later. So the depth of your circle of friends in a sense determines the height of your future growth. It can be seen that friends can make more friends and it is better. Doesn't the lyrics say: "If you have more friends, it will be easier to walk."
Everyone wants to make more and better friends. Of course, you must also be good enough. Only if you have a lot of advantages will you attract good friends like a magnet. For example, Songjiang in the Water Margin, it is precisely because of his righteousness and money that he helped his brothers, so all the heroes of the world want to be friends with him.
And those heinous people have no friends? No, good people have good friends, and bad people have good friends, but they are probably all bad people! For example, Qin Hui has three good friends, , Luo Ruji , and Zhang Jun. They may be stinking each other!
From school to work, and then to the society, you will meet a lot of people, and those who can talk about it will become your friends. Friends can talk to you, but they need to be tested before they can become true friends. Those who have served as soldiers will have the feeling that it is easy to find true friends among their comrades, especially those who have been on the battlefield. That is the test of life and death. Although there is no war now, the troops are relatively pure land. Sincere friendship still exists and is easy to find. Therefore, those who have experience as soldiers actually have an opportunity to make real friends. It is fortunate.
Down, among the classmates, because the feelings that were generated at the age of innocence and innocence are also true, there are also real friends in it. No matter what happened at the beginning, there is always a sense of intimacy after seeing each other many years later. Children who are going to school, cherish the friendship between your classmates, it is easy for them to find your true friends in the future.
Entering into society, because of the intricate relationship of interests, it is more difficult to distinguish between true and false friends. In fact, making friends and making real friends requires not only one's own excellence, but also an insight into the nature of human nature. Coupled with the test of practice, there are still real friends in society, but it is more difficult to judge.
In society, some people like to make poor friends, some like to make rich friends, and some like both poor and rich friends.Let me talk about people who like to make poor friends. Most of them are poor people. Because of their blind inferiority and poor arrogance, they feel that they are not in a circle with the rich, so they only make poor friends. There are also a small number of rich people who make poor friends, mostly because they are scared by the rich friends around them.
There are both poor and rich people who like to make rich friends. The purpose of the poor is mostly to cling to the powerful so that they can be helped in the future; the purpose of the rich is more, and mutual help is easy to use, in short, it is the transfer of equal value, and relatively speaking, the rich are more motivated than the poor. With strong endurance, these rich people make rich friends for their own better development, and there is nothing wrong with it.
Those who like both poor friends and rich friends are mostly smart rich people, because they are in the rich circle. It is easy to make rich friends because of capital, and it is easier to make poor friends because of rich friends. There are fewer real friends here than poor friends. The poor also want to make friends with each other, and sometimes because of helplessness, they cannot actively choose the rich, and most of them are chosen by the rich.
Because making friends is a two-way choice. While you are choosing others, others are also choosing you. Therefore, treat your friends with sincerity. When others see it, they will become friends with you, and don’t care. Rich and poor, because the poor may become rich, and the rich may also become poor. There is a reincarnation in everything! So smart and sincere people can easily make real friends, rich and poor.
Okay, I have a friend. Going back to the question that I asked at the beginning, you are having difficulties. Are you looking for a poor friend or a rich friend? Some people will say "for wealth" to find the rich, "to break the disaster" to find the poor. This is also a way. The premise is that you have friends, rich and poor, and they are sincere. Even if your situation changes, they will treat you as always. This is the only way to do it. The disaster is surviving"!
There is a story about poor friends and rich friends,It is said to be a Jew. When the Jews were tortured in Germany during World War II, he entrusted one of his two sons to his rich friend, the other to his poor friend, and the son who was entrusted to the rich friend was arrested and executed. , The other is alive. After reading this, everyone seems to think more of "being rich and unkind"!
Jews are recognized as the smartest people in the world. They make friends. When they don’t know that they are in danger, who can really help themselves with the friends they have made before, but because of helplessness, they have to put their eggs in the same place. A basket. Fortunately, this Jew kept an "egg", how many people did not keep the egg in any basket! Of course, there are also people who can keep their eggs free, but there are not many of them. Because when you are in a difficult situation, the psychology of your friends will also change, unless you are truly "iron".
So if you encounter a problem, try to solve it by yourself. If you can’t solve it, find your friends. The poor and the rich are better. It’s better to find the rich first, because regardless of financial and social resources, the rich They have an advantage over the poor. Rich friends help you better. If they don’t help you, there may be reasons why they don’t help you. Perhaps because of his reasons, this kind of people will ignore them in the future. If it is for your reasons, they will know how to change in the future. Own. As for the poor friend, the difficulty is beyond his ability, there is no need to make him feel distressed, at least he can still be a friend afterwards. Usually, only if you truly help others, others will truly help you. Of course, there are also ungrateful ones. After all, they are a minority, and most of them are still worthy of friendship. If you encounter difficulties, how would you choose between your poor and rich friends?
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